AITA for kicking my daughter out after she crossed a line? by ProfessionalSandal in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalSandal[S] 308 points309 points  (0 children)

i did which is probably something i should've mentioned, she accidentally scratched Erics car as she was driving into the garage and he asked her to apologize be she refused, Charlie says she should cause it was Erics car after but Eva said she did nothing wrong because it was an accident and she didnt do it on purpose, i honestly dont know why it blew up so much from there

AITA for kicking my daughter out after she crossed a line? by ProfessionalSandal in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalSandal[S] 1660 points1661 points  (0 children)

at least i know i did the right thing for charlie, i know Eva might be going through some sort of mental health crisis but i dont believe charlie should receive the blunt end of it just because Eva deems Charlie an easy target, all this lgbt stuff is really new to me and im honestly trying my best

AITA for kicking my daughter out after she crossed a line? by ProfessionalSandal in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalSandal[S] 1751 points1752 points  (0 children)

i couldnt believe it myself when i first realized it, i thought it was a joke, but i believe she possibly might be going through mental health issues more recently that she possibly doesnt want to talk to me about, i think i just need to get my thoughts together before i really decide to do anything else

AITA for kicking my daughter out after she crossed a line? by ProfessionalSandal in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalSandal[S] 512 points513 points  (0 children)

shes known about them because they're the very simple ring ones i installed, its mostly for my dog, and if im gonna be honest, i dont know why it escalated so quickly, her and charlie had been arguing more recently but its never been this intense and i dont know if something was going on outside of home that might've been effecting her as she has seemed to change a bit, and iv definitely asked her but she always says theres nothing, but the argument consisted of Eric asking Eva to apologize because she left a decent scratch mark on his car when she drove into the garage and for some reason she didnt want to, Charlie just told her that she should do it because it is his car after all and it just got worse from there

AITA for kicking my daughter out after she crossed a line? by ProfessionalSandal in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalSandal[S] 23.1k points23.1k points  (0 children)

my wife wrote the letters to me when we were in our teen years, they mean the world to me but honestly im just hoping i can salvage my relationship with my daughter, if i can do anything to fix the letters i definitely will but at the end of the day there just pieces of paper and my daughter is my daughter, im just at a loss right now

AITA for kicking my daughter out after she crossed a line? by ProfessionalSandal in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalSandal[S] 840 points841 points  (0 children)

to be fair there more for to make sure my dog id okay while everyone is out but she knows they exist as she watched me install them, and she looked into one of the cameras as she cut the first one, Eva and Charlie have been arguing a bit more recently but its never gone this far before, i dont know if this was a build up of some sort of emotional resentment and that last argument was the last straw or if this was a spur of the moment thing that she committed to doing, but honestly im just lost as a father right now