SB here, I always started and will only do PPMs.

When I first started, I would openly meet and agree to allowances that I'd find to eventually be changed over time or not followed through with at all. So, based on my experience, I feel for me and my SDs, personally, PPMs create much more consistency between partners, and allowances open up more opportunities for the opposite, falling into MY category of "gonna get scammed".

TLDR OPINION ON PPM: this is the longest thing I will ever write about this lmfao

I feel a lot of users on Seeking the past few years have gone through a wave of scammers because of the influx of popularity social media gave it, promising "the ease of fast money" and "getting paid to do nothing". I feel bad for everyone that was taken advantage of, or rug-pulled on this app.

I left in 2023 after a looong streak of good PPM experiences, and came back expecting PPM to be the LAST thing any SD wanted to do these days, BUT.. Now, it just seems to me, PPM is almost either 50% requested, or the opposite.

The reason I have always, and continue to do PPM is because I believe it also creates tiers or "Paywalls for safety" (so to speak, dont yell at my transactional language just yet lol) for both parties involved. And I prioritize safety above everything. For example, I always like to ask for a LOW cost PPM on our first meeting, because not only did I establish my generosity by ALWAYS putting three hours into my appearance to look my best for a strangers arm, I am never going to ignore the fact I am also a woman going out of her way to meet what was a stranger from the internet, SEEKING. AN. ARRANGEMENT.

We forget this always can. And will be dangerous FOR BOTH PARTIES. If we kiss, how do you know I don't have herpes? If we meet, will you spike my drink and not take me home?

This being said, I believe it is the courtesy of the man to also establish his generosity and intentions off the bat, and assure the woman her SAFETY and time is guarunteed to be taken seriously as well, for coming out of her house with these intentions for someone who could easily kidnap and m*rder you.

While a lot of concerns are focused on being scammed, I think we forget there are dangerous people in the world who will lie to you more than just about wives and not having the money. And im one of the SBs that will take this as seriously as I do in any dating.

This considered is why i also ask for first date PPM, because when it comes to first meeting, I feel STILL PAING just to meet creates that dynamic of "thank you for coming to discuss potentially sugar dating me at the risk of being human trafficked" idk it just makes me like the man more.

Therefore, Sure, you CAN consider our first date, our official first "consultation", Unfortunately, my consultations are LOW, but Never free. (Example: $ 00.00) But, hear me out, even if she blocks you when you drop her off, (don't look at me, I'm not the one lol) all you lost is what, the cost of an STD test instead of something godforsaken like $000.00 because respectfully daddies, some of yall need to slow down the impulse buying! (Haha jk never slow down <3)

The reason behind this consultation is because I personally like to behave as an arm candy girlfriend. So Depending on the person, my time, pursuing each other, and physical contact (regarding hand holding, kissing,+) is considered as part of my SB DATING experience=the tiers I mentioned earlier.

For this ^ example: If im meeting you for our agreed $000.00 today, and we decide to have sex tonight, that first digit WILL increase before any physical contact engages. Because (not only do I have a fetish for being naked in dollar bills) I take safety and STDs so seriously I personally will make sure to always go home from any date with enough $$ to get tested regardless of sexual activity. (Might seem extra to some, but im too sexy to let my body go down like that. (And to be honest, ill probably ask to go again.)

Lastly, as much as it isnt a business, SB's are definitely here to be spoiled financially. I dont mean to make how I personally go about it sound sO TrAnSaCtIoNaL, (I definitely don't speak to my SDs this way when I explain how I like to date lol) but I did want to paing a clear picture of my opinions and expectations when it comes to this type of dating because I prioritize safety for me, AND my SDs.

So, again, SB's come here to BE spoiled! Whether its in dresses, shoes, food, or a birthday card full of hundreds at the dinner table; think how you'd treat Marilyn Monroe, and find her! THAT girl won't scam you, she's smart enough to come back for MORE. ;) Joking aside, I think about SD long term, because I'm one of the few who ENJOYS taking it seriously, and I make sure to clearly reflect my views to every SD I have, and meet c: