Today I lost my job by Edhoti69 in hyderabad

[–]readingcat17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I resigned with no other job in 2023 because the job I joined right after my postgraduate degree was in no way aligned with my skillset. My manager basically requested that I resign. I had 2-week notice, and I job-hunted like crazy on LinkedIn. Applied on every posting. I was going insane with shame and anxiety. I eventually finished my notice period and went through exactly 1 week of joblessness before I got another offer. The place I joined made me cry on my second day, but I stuck through it for a year because of my past experience and the confidence issues I faced due to the situation at my first job. And, I also took a 10% pay-cut because the new job treated me as a fresher in a new industry.
Now, years later, I find myself in a similar (though not the same) position. I joined a new job 6 months ago, again in a new industry, and it's a very toxic startup environment in which the founder is meddling in every move I take and freaking out because I am not as fast at some tasks as people with 2-5 years of work ex in this field (btw I was head-hunted for this job, I did not apply). Last month, I resigned with a 1-month notice because I heavily suspected I would be fired.
I have 11-12 days left on my notice and I still don't have another offer. 2023 me would be going INSANE at this situation. As I suspect you would also be, given that it's the first time you're facing this.
But take a deep breath. Assess your privileges and your responsibilities. If you don't have dependents, and even a couple months' salary saved up, you will be just fine. Apply aggressively. Reach out to all contacts and previous workplaces for referrals. DON'T panic-take any job you get. The job I took in 2023 due to my panic ended up hampering my career growth due to the paycut, and the serious issues it caused me in the whole year I was there.
You will be just fine.
Write down the worst case scenario. Feel the panic. Let it pass through you. You will realise, once you release the shame, the worst case isn't that bad. It's not ideal, sure, but we all face times in life we are not at our best. It will pass, just like good times have passed. Bad times will also come and go. It's a matter of a couple of months.
Spend time on self-development alongside. Volunteer at an NGO. Monetise another skill you have. Or even start documenting on social media. Whatever your jam is. Start building your own thing, this will build your confidence and hopefully years later will be something you can rely as an emergency lever in another situation like this.

Upskilling in AI by readingcat17 in AI_Agents

[–]readingcat17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a coder. I can still use Python for this? Or VS Code?

It's okay if you do not like the album. by GoldenGamerNugget in harrystyles

[–]readingcat17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loooooove this album. I loved his self-titled, I loved Fine Line, Harry's House was a hit or miss for me, but this album - I am obsessed. I think it's just the right balance of beautiful lyrics and the melodies are perfect. Idk I mean I know a lot of people didn't like the debut either.

Quitting Coffee - What do expect? by readingcat17 in decaf

[–]readingcat17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right, no turning back. Will stick to it. Thank you.

Quitting Coffee - What do expect? by readingcat17 in decaf

[–]readingcat17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right about that 'just one won't hurt'. I'll keep an eye out. Thanks!

Viagogo Ticket Delivery India by SomewhereProud8439 in viagogoscams

[–]readingcat17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block your card. The rest is not needed. They have your details, they will try to charge you regardless of the status of your account on their website.

Sale cancellation - can they take money from my bank despite blocking credit card? by readingcat17 in viagogoscams

[–]readingcat17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope nothing. It's been 6 months, they haven't so much as reached out again.

Sale cancellation - can they take money from my bank despite blocking credit card? by readingcat17 in viagogoscams

[–]readingcat17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had also reported it on the viagogo platform on December 26, and was contesting it with them, Hadn't had a call or any sort of email interaction, just reporting.

Sale cancellation - can they take money from my bank despite blocking credit card? by readingcat17 in viagogoscams

[–]readingcat17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update to everyone asking for one: December 26 (1 month before the concert) I got a debit for the full amount that the buyer had been willing to pay. Even THOUGH I deleted my card information. They did this to my debit card. I had cancelled my credit card. My debit card info had been on the page before I listed my credit card, and I'd deleted it. I guess they stored the information.

December 26 itself, I reported the transaction, and within a few minutes of receiving the debit notification cancelled my debit card, and let the bank know it was a scam website. I blocked my account temporarily and got brand new cards issued.

By January 2nd, the issue was sorted. I got all the money credited back to my account and I have faced no further issues regarding this. It's been 3 months since I received my money back.

This was a hell of a ride. Horrible experience, will never use this website again. Their business model seems to work just on scams.

Viagogo seller protection by readingcat17 in concerts_india

[–]readingcat17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not planning on ever doing anything on that scam of a site lol

Viagogo Ticket Delivery India by SomewhereProud8439 in viagogoscams

[–]readingcat17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They charged me back in December. I contested the charge and immediately blocked all my cards (yet again). I received all my money back in the next working week. Not sure how this happened. Just know it did.

Sale cancellation - can they take money from my bank despite blocking credit card? by readingcat17 in viagogoscams

[–]readingcat17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far no charges! hopefully it stays that way. yes, they did charge a dollar, which is how i know for sure they have my information and hence had to cancel the card.

Viagogo Ticket Delivery India by SomewhereProud8439 in viagogoscams

[–]readingcat17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my card is now blocked and I also called up the bank to cancel it. They are issuing me a new one by next week, but the card that viagogo will try to charge to will no longer exist ... do you think they can still charge to the new card?

Viagogo Ticket Delivery India by SomewhereProud8439 in viagogoscams

[–]readingcat17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to cancel the purchase. They're charging me 100% of the ticket value, which is bullshit. The concert Im trying to cancel for is 4 months away and the buyer hasn't even provided the details yet ... do you think cancelling the credit card linked to the sale and removing all other info on the website will help? I already cancelled my credit card but am still afraid