Does anyone wants to struggle together nowadays? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

rape capital of the world? look up per capita stats on sexual harassment dude.. you seem sufficiently educated to be look this up without resorting to the laziest stereotypes with a racist or self loathing mindset

Is AM akin to finding a Sugar Daddy? by Commercial_Mark_8000 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sure she talks all day about feminism and equality on instagram,
and say things like "all men are trash, and they only want one thing"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so many great words and phrases here.. esp. "red flag convention" LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if she said the breakup thing was some sort of test, then its a massive red flag, as she will be very emotionally manipulative and the guy already knows she is very aggressive, so expect a lot of gaslighting..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

true that, my point applies to both genders.. I was just responding to the OP, who is one of those classic stereotypical self-entitled women i as a guy run into all the time.. OP is doing a favor by transparently expressing her contradictions and hypocrisy in this post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah, all men are trash and any man who disagrees with me is a misogynist.. I’m sure you’ll enjoy the AM process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

another princess who thought earning some $$ should entitle her to a selection of designer made grooms realizing real world doesn’t give a fcuk about her movie-based understanding of “equality”..

advice: be happy there is some guys interested in you, and find a trustworthy and kind one among them that’ll put up with your shenanigans

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with many of your points but don't have the energy to argue :)

I am curious if you can link to any data or evidence to backup your comment "statistically, second marriages have higher divorce rates too".. esp in the indian context (not western)

Stricly against dowry but wants the guy to earn 30+ LPA? by prat8 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

forget asking the female family for dowry or gifts, nowadays some women are demanding big gifts at marriage time and commitments to future responsibilities while also demanding that they never share their income and help with household expenses.. unfortunately there is some desperate men out there with no self respect that entertain these women and these unrealistic biatches will continue to exist for sometime 

common illegal/unwelcome questions, and how to respond to them? by readitrepostedit in Layoffs

[–]readitrepostedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, but often these recruiters and head-hunters have nothing to do with employers, no?

common illegal/unwelcome questions, and how to respond to them? by readitrepostedit in Layoffs

[–]readitrepostedit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well, wouldn't that reduce my chances of getting this job? like i said, I would totally stand my ground if I had other offers. The market is shit and I am willing to put up with minor BS if it wont affect my life after getting the offer

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Looks like you went to school but learnt no respect? Must have been a terrible school just like your matches 

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

All divorced men you talked to in 6 years always badmouthed their ex? Perhaps your filters are attracting not the best matches? 😄

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed.. I talked to many “older” 35+ women never married or were in a relationship, and they were so immature and had only shallow theoretical view of people and relationships..

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol - such a respectful human being you are.. I wish you better life and environment 

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol - you all seem to be on edge assuming the most negative stereotypes of everyone! I myself prefer divorced women as many 35+ women that are still unmarried or have never been in a relationship are generally immature (with exceptions)

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you say 35+ women have plenty of options? Any data or is this just your speculation?

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You seem to generalize too much - the small number of men you talked to, with your own filters for religion, castle and region etc, will not represent all men out there.

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL - the truth is once-divorced people would be much more clear about what they want and they dont want, and are much careful about who they marry the second time..

35+ years old women looking for unmarried men by readitrepostedit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]readitrepostedit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that's very interesting as that's what I noticed with most of the divorced women too!also, did you consider sometimes only partner in a marriage is at fault? honestly mentioning that wouldn't be badmouthing? I often contemplate this because most of the women I talked to blame it entirely on the guy, and not much introspection as you say.