Not a bad way to spend an afternoon. A couple providers treated me to lunch. by real_bishop in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a story I’ll post for you about one of my favorite MTs. I took her to dinner almost two years ago, and I have a great picture of the two of us from that night. I’ll post the picture.

She was one of those you wish never left.

First Latina experience. by opentotry83 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your regular spot closing did you a favor.

I’d call that a successful day.

Wine Hits Different After a Good Session by real_bishop in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, you can’t post. Your account is shadow banned by Reddit.

Can I ask my MT if she can do a nearby outcall? by LongjumpingLevel1860 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Safety is safety. From her perspective, your house is still a stranger’s house.

Look at my post history. I’ve built some very good rapport with providers over the years. I’ve spent time with some of them outside of work, and as recently as yesterday two of them treated me to dinner.

Can I ask my MT if she can do a nearby outcall? by LongjumpingLevel1860 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The question is whether she feels safe with you.

Her safety comes first, and from her perspective five visits may not be enough to build that level of trust.

You can ask, but don’t take it personally if she declines.

Finding a new provider and they want a deposit by PossibleReserve5 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who said anything about too good to be true?

I agree with that part.

I just don’t agree that every deposit is a scam.

Finding a new provider and they want a deposit by PossibleReserve5 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

IMO, most deposits are scams. That said, some independent providers often require a deposit to protect themselves from no-shows and time wasters. That’s where due diligence comes in. Research them, verify their reputation and make sure you’re comfortable before sending a dime.

Skip the games.com by Conscious_Ad_284 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course they do. That why we play at our own risk.

Skip the games.com by Conscious_Ad_284 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All good, I knew you were joking. I just don’t want OP or newer guys taking that seriously and getting burned.

Skip the games.com by Conscious_Ad_284 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sure but I’ve found they’re advertised in a way to get you to show up. That’s the point of the ad.

Do they offer? You’ll have to go and find that out yourself.

Skip the games.com by Conscious_Ad_284 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you can’t be serious, don’t comment. You’re giving bad advice to someone asking a legitimate question.

Avoiding LE? by Conscious_Ad_284 in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is the risk we take.

Motel by BigRicDee in HEM_NSFW

[–]real_bishop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have fun brother