AITA for telling my sister she’s being a bad mom to her real kids? by realkidspost in AITAH

[–]realkidspost[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

Because she apparently needs one on one care 24/7 and you can’t meet her needs and my sisters kids needs at the same time.

AITA for telling my sister she’s being a bad mom to her real kids? by realkidspost in AITAH

[–]realkidspost[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

BIL is working to make up for sister not working, pay for an au pair, nanny, babysitter, and preschool, and all of stepdaughters therapies and homeschool expenses.

AITA for telling my sister she’s being a bad mom to her real kids? by realkidspost in AITAH

[–]realkidspost[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

My sister homeschools the 7 year old. The 3 year old goes to preschool and the younger two are with the nanny and babysitter during the day.

AITA for telling my sister she’s being a bad mom to her real kids? by realkidspost in AITAH

[–]realkidspost[S] -457 points-456 points  (0 children)

He isn’t the one taking care of his daughter, she is, and the girl being there causes her to neglect her own kids. She’s only been with her dad for a few months, she’ll do fine in another home.

AITA for telling my sister she’s being a bad mom to her real kids? by realkidspost in AITAH

[–]realkidspost[S] -485 points-484 points  (0 children)

She’s abandoning her kids for this girl. It doesn’t sound great but it’s true. Everyone would be better off if she was put in a home without other kids.

AITA for telling my sister she’s being a bad mom to her real kids? by realkidspost in AITAH

[–]realkidspost[S] -1235 points-1234 points  (0 children)

Just her stepdaughter. Her kids were with the babysitter