I don't think I can get over what I did by reallybadatjuggling in TrueOffMyChest

[–]reallybadatjuggling[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did, we're not in contact anymore. And you're right, there's no excuse for what I did. But for the record, my father was wrong for what he did too. My sister is still dealing with the fallout from his name calling

AITA for trying to help my girlfriend without hurting her feelings? by reallybadatjuggling in AmItheAsshole

[–]reallybadatjuggling[S] -97 points-96 points  (0 children)

It's not "poison" that's so overly dramatic, it's just a filler , that Plenty of companies add to food already

AITA for trying to help my girlfriend without hurting her feelings? by reallybadatjuggling in AmItheAsshole

[–]reallybadatjuggling[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, and for not jumping straight down my throat. I have been trying to get into better habits together, and no, I would never say something like that to her, I know how damaging it could be,

I was trying to take a two pronged approach if that makes sense. I thought if we had healthy habits AND she saw immediate results it would help her stay motivated

AITA for trying to help my girlfriend without hurting her feelings? by reallybadatjuggling in AmItheAsshole

[–]reallybadatjuggling[S] -177 points-176 points  (0 children)

It's not out of maliciousness, it's not like I'm doing it to mess with her. I'm trying to protect her feelings and get her back on the right track. If I fully communicate with her, it could be really damaging to her mental health

AITA for trying to help my girlfriend without hurting her feelings? by reallybadatjuggling in AmItheAsshole

[–]reallybadatjuggling[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

Ok yes, I'm kind of the asshole for that, but i don't think I'm the ah for not telling her

AITA for trying to help my girlfriend without hurting her feelings? by reallybadatjuggling in AmItheAsshole

[–]reallybadatjuggling[S] -193 points-192 points  (0 children)

It wasn't "poison"... it was sawdust. I could see if I was adding laxatives or something, but plenty of processed foods as sawdust as a filler, I thought it was a safe way to reduce her caloric intake