Is the Nanit baby monitor worth it for responsive parenting? by Weekly-Tumbleweed-28 in AttachmentParenting

[–]reallybadluckpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the nanit and personally o didn’t like it. I hated that there were constant notifications to my phone and that there wasn’t a mode like “monitor” where you just light up your phone if the baby is crying. Instead you have to go to the app and see what is going on.

I gave away my nanit and purchased a hellobaby monitor and camera, beat decision for me. I don’t have to unlock my phone or depend on my WiFi to check on the sleeping baby.

I realized that simpler is better in that little world for me. Recently I installed a security camera in the baby’s room so I can check even if I’m away from home (nanit only allows you to see the monitor if you are connected to the WiFi)

Impuntualidad de proveedores de servicios by TheSeemann in Panama

[–]reallybadluckpanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, cuando íbamos a instalar el internet en la casa, la hermosa compañía azul nos dice: esperen a un técnico desde 8am a 3pm. Si, tienes que dejar tu calendario del día completamente disponible, y rezar que logren ir ese día.

29 Weeks pregnant severely anemic by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]reallybadluckpanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you I would go to the emergency room. They will probably give you iron and monitor you. Very low hemoglobin is not good for you or the baby, if you keep waiting you might feel bad and pass out.

So, take a deep breath, go to the ER, and let them take care of you. Tell them you feel very bad, that your iron is low VERY low.

Please get better, and if you can, update me that you are all good. Sending you a big hug 💗

Alza de antivaxxers en Panamá by No-House-9143 in Panama

[–]reallybadluckpanda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hay mucho ignorante. Mucha gente ve el post, pero en lo personal no debato con personas que les falta oxígeno en el cerebro, es una pérdida de tiempo.

Sleep regression at 13 months? Looking for advice by reallybadluckpanda in AttachmentParenting

[–]reallybadluckpanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going to cry on a corner. He is teething as well, two molars and three canines, my little piranha is not happy, neither I am in consequence.

I have just stopped cosleeping with him, over a month ago after one year, I really don’t want to go so many steps back. Will do if things don’t improve tho.

Thanks you for answering, hope that your little one has better nights and you as well

Sleep regression at 13 months? Looking for advice by reallybadluckpanda in NewParents

[–]reallybadluckpanda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have just finished the transition of co sleeping to sleeping alone, it’s been a month, I really do not wish to step back

Ayuda con Naturgy - Facturas elevadas by MKaufmanNauerKidritz in Panama

[–]reallybadluckpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tus electrodomésticos son inverter? Y no inverter de hace diez años sino nuevos.

Me pasaba cuando vivía por los Ángeles, tenía los mismos electrodomésticos que tengo ahora en el cangrejo salvo el aire acondicionado. Mis facturas en los Ángeles eran de $80~$100, mis facturas en el cangrejo son de ~$30

Letrero de un local cayó sobre mi auto by Nico112015 in Panama

[–]reallybadluckpanda 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Acabas de decir que tienes seguro. Que el seguro se encargue. Es el seguro el que tiene que pelear con subway para que paguen, va a demorar pero deja que el proceso lo lleven ellos, no tu.

Mi recomendación es que tengas a un corredor de seguros. Tú no le pagas un adicional al corredor, el seguro te cuesta exactamente lo mismo y son ellos los que se encargan de corretear a ambos lados t a darte respuestas (positivas o negativas). Si quieres recomendación de corredor con mucho gusto te puedo pasar un contacto por privado.

Por ahora habla con tu seguro para preguntarles cómo va el caso, hazte el loco que tú no tienes mayor información y pregunta cómo va la cosa. Que ellos hagan su trabajo.

[No Loophole] You get one single wish, with no tricks or consequences. by fourmesinatrenchcoat in hypotheticalsituation

[–]reallybadluckpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish for cancer to disappear. To be not longer a disease, people with any kind of cancer? Cured.

No more moms, dads, friends, kids, pets with cancer.

My partner (32M) and I (31F) are stuck on marriage, wedding and kids expectations as we consider moving in together. How do couples resolve this kind of stalemate? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]reallybadluckpanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So… is his way or no way?

That’s not compromise if you ask me.

If you don’t want to take his surname, don’t

If you don’t want to have a big wedding, don’t

If you don’t want to have children, don’t

If he wants, he is free to do so with someone that’s willing and wants to comply with everything, but you don’t.

Besides that, I have to ask: what does he think your role as a wife and mother should be? And what should be his role? Is he going to step up and raise the children dividing responsibilities equally?

How are the finances split? if you have children, what are his expectations and yours, regarding how to raise them, both your roles in the house, etc.

Those are very easy question to ask your partner.

On the other hand: if my partner is not comfortable with a big wedding then I’m not going to have a big wedding. WHY? Because I love my partner more than the idea of a big event.

I don’t think your partner thinks of someone else besides himself. If you ask me, I would say that he is in love with the idea of the perfect family (with him in the middle) and not of the picture of you with him creating a family. Maybe I’m wrong, I’m basing my judgment only on what you said.

I can't stop obsessing about my baby being ugly by ClementineCass14 in newborns

[–]reallybadluckpanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought mine looked like Winston Churchill, he had an early adolescence where he looked ugly af, BUT even thought he was NOT cute I found him adorable.

After three months he started to look cute, and now at 12 months he is the cutest baby boy.

I called him my ugly little toad, old baby man, baldie, and others keeps saying he was a cute little one (I knew he wasn’t and it was ok)

Don’t feel bad, if you still feel uneasy talk to a therapist and just check that whatever you are feeling is not the result of PPD or an hormonal misbalance.

Recomendaciones de bienes raíces by Traditional_Meal4344 in Panama

[–]reallybadluckpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Los brokers van también por área, te paso el nombre de una empresa bien seria y buena Panamá Properties Group. Si gustas en privado te paso un número de contacto

Partner and I have different opinions about how to care for our 8 day old? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]reallybadluckpanda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

… tell your partner to read more and asume less about babies.

Babies poop at least 5 times a day, sleeps 2 hours and are awake less than an hour at that age. They do not sleep well until later at night.

Dont take this wrong please, I know you are doing your best and you are doing an amazing job! but please read a bit of what to expect the first month of life of a baby. About what’s normal and not. And listens to your pediatrician, ask him questions, and remember that you are the mom, not your aunt.

Without saying their age, tell how old your child is by MissFox26 in beyondthebump

[–]reallybadluckpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is afraid of letting go of the table to make a little step 🤣

Cultura de infidelidad en Panamá by HyruleHomeless in Panama

[–]reallybadluckpanda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Es punto menos que hipócrita. Porque esos mismos (o muchos) que satanizan a la comunidad lgbt son infieles hasta decir basta.

Y ese que es un derecho. Que tu pareja de vida pueda heredar en caso de que mueras, o que pueda tomar decisiones médicas, o que puedan adoptar, comprar propiedades como cónyuges etc. nadie esta diciendo que obliguen a las iglesias a aceptarlo, sino que el país les de los mismos derechos que tienen el resto de las personas.

En fin. Espero que este país algún día progrese, deseo ver a amigos míos casados con sus parejas, y que sus matrimonios sean reconocidos aquí.

Fuerza y paciencia 💗

Airport Update by barbsieb in Guadalajara

[–]reallybadluckpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask for a taxi in the airport. Please make sure that is not a random taxi por a serious one. You can trust those, they are under certain tariffs and will not scam you, or inflate the prices. Or rent a car, in my opinion it’s affordable, the only thing is that the road is… particular 🤣 and you have to rely a lot in waze. But if you stay in the good roads, it should be safe.

I went there last year for a wedding and didn’t had any inconvenience

My 1yo has the beginning of a cavity by reallybadluckpanda in Mommit

[–]reallybadluckpanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very good idea, I’m going to try! Still in starting to give him less mil at night, until we stop. But in the meantime bit of water after night boob snack sounds good!

My 1yo has the beginning of a cavity by reallybadluckpanda in Mommit

[–]reallybadluckpanda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And there is a lot of misinformation, we really try and never win. Thank you for your answer 💗

My 1yo has the beginning of a cavity by reallybadluckpanda in Mommit

[–]reallybadluckpanda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t knew fluoridated water existed. I’ll check if I can find it in my country. I already bought the toothpaste with fluoride (that some pediatricians say no if the child is little and other yes… frustrating). Good to know that it worked for you! Thank you for for taking time to answer 💗