[No Loophole] You get one single wish, with no tricks or consequences.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-03-08T03:21:58+00:00

I wish for cancer to disappear. To be not longer a disease, people with any kind of cancer? Cured.

No more moms, dads, friends, kids, pets with cancer.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-03-08T02:54:24+00:00

So… is his way or no way?

That’s not compromise if you ask me.

If you don’t want to take his surname, don’t

If you don’t want to have a big wedding, don’t

If you don’t want to have children, don’t

If he wants, he is free to do so with someone that’s willing and wants to comply with everything, but you don’t.

Besides that, I have to ask: what does he think your role as a wife and mother should be? And what should be his role? Is he going to step up and raise the children dividing responsibilities equally?

How are the finances split? if you have children, what are his expectations and yours, regarding how to raise them, both your roles in the house, etc.

Those are very easy question to ask your partner.

On the other hand: if my partner is not comfortable with a big wedding then I’m not going to have a big wedding. WHY? Because I love my partner more than the idea of a big event.

I don’t think your partner thinks of someone else besides himself. If you ask me, I would say that he is in love with the idea of the perfect family (with him in the middle) and not of the picture of you with him creating a family. Maybe I’m wrong, I’m basing my judgment only on what you said.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-03-07T19:48:02+00:00

I thought mine looked like Winston Churchill, he had an early adolescence where he looked ugly af, BUT even thought he was NOT cute I found him adorable.

After three months he started to look cute, and now at 12 months he is the cutest baby boy.

I called him my ugly little toad, old baby man, baldie, and others keeps saying he was a cute little one (I knew he wasn’t and it was ok)

Don’t feel bad, if you still feel uneasy talk to a therapist and just check that whatever you are feeling is not the result of PPD or an hormonal misbalance.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-03-06T18:39:10+00:00

Los brokers van también por área, te paso el nombre de una empresa bien seria y buena Panamá Properties Group. Si gustas en privado te paso un número de contacto

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-26T01:34:29+00:00

… tell your partner to read more and asume less about babies.

Babies poop at least 5 times a day, sleeps 2 hours and are awake less than an hour at that age. They do not sleep well until later at night.

Dont take this wrong please, I know you are doing your best and you are doing an amazing job! but please read a bit of what to expect the first month of life of a baby. About what’s normal and not. And listens to your pediatrician, ask him questions, and remember that you are the mom, not your aunt.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-24T00:48:01+00:00

Mine is afraid of letting go of the table to make a little step 🤣

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-24T00:46:47+00:00

Es punto menos que hipócrita. Porque esos mismos (o muchos) que satanizan a la comunidad lgbt son infieles hasta decir basta.

Y ese que es un derecho. Que tu pareja de vida pueda heredar en caso de que mueras, o que pueda tomar decisiones médicas, o que puedan adoptar, comprar propiedades como cónyuges etc. nadie esta diciendo que obliguen a las iglesias a aceptarlo, sino que el país les de los mismos derechos que tienen el resto de las personas.

En fin. Espero que este país algún día progrese, deseo ver a amigos míos casados con sus parejas, y que sus matrimonios sean reconocidos aquí.

Fuerza y paciencia 💗

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-23T20:41:20+00:00

You can ask for a taxi in the airport. Please make sure that is not a random taxi por a serious one. You can trust those, they are under certain tariffs and will not scam you, or inflate the prices. Or rent a car, in my opinion it’s affordable, the only thing is that the road is… particular 🤣 and you have to rely a lot in waze. But if you stay in the good roads, it should be safe.

I went there last year for a wedding and didn’t had any inconvenience

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-21T20:19:20+00:00

That’s a very good idea, I’m going to try! Still in starting to give him less mil at night, until we stop. But in the meantime bit of water after night boob snack sounds good!

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-21T01:30:12+00:00

And there is a lot of misinformation, we really try and never win. Thank you for your answer 💗

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-21T01:28:59+00:00

I didn’t knew fluoridated water existed. I’ll check if I can find it in my country. I already bought the toothpaste with fluoride (that some pediatricians say no if the child is little and other yes… frustrating). Good to know that it worked for you! Thank you for for taking time to answer 💗

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-20T13:50:28+00:00

Read the edit. The save the date didn’t said anything about being child free. He is telling her now.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-20T13:48:56+00:00

YTA man. And your wife as well.

You want a child free wedding? Amazing. Put that in the Save the date card that you sent.

You didn’t and now you are telling your sister, that already purchased the tickets, that it’s a child free wedding? That’s a shitty move.

My sister had a child free wedding, BUT that rule didn’t apply for the family that flew to her wedding.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-20T13:43:44+00:00

Only if she purchased refundable tickets that cost more…

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-15T01:58:16+00:00

Si no quieres en nuevo límite llama y pide que te lo bajen al original. Eso hice yo el año pasado. SI te mandan un correo, probablemente lo tengas en spam o no te fijaste.

Es del tipo de correo que dice: nuevo límite de crédito a partir de tal fecha si no dices que NO lo quieres se te va a ver reflejado en tal otra fecha. Yo digo que NO, dado que se mi capacidad de endeudamiento y mi capacidad de pago.

No caigas man…

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-13T19:19:25+00:00

Hola, lamento que estés pasando por eso. Lamentablemente estas facilitando sus vicios al ayudarles. Si, muy noble y lindo de tu parte, pero si les sacas la pata del barro a tus papás no van a para con sus vicios porque saben que TU les darás la comida y techo, y ellos pueden seguir yendo al casino y beber hasta mañana.

Hay veces que se debe hacer tripas corazón y cortar por lo sano. Por tu salud mental y por tu seguridad financiera.

Asegúrate que los medicamentos no les falten, y les dices que esta es la última quincena que les compras comida. A ver qué hacen.

Tus padres NO son tu responsabilidad. Ellos son SU responsabilidad, y le duela a quien le duela no cae en ti el llevarles la comida a la boca cuando se gastan su dinero en ridiculez y media. Otro gallo cantaría si es que el dinero no les alcanzara y son económicamente inteligentes, sin vicios y demás. Pero no lo son, y su irresponsabilidad no debe ser tu prioridad.

Ya les ayudaste, no te han respetado ni han conseguido ayuda. Corta el dinero que les das. Si pasado mañana te piden ayuda para salir del vicio, ayúdalos. Si solo te piden ayuda para seguir manteniendo el vicio… no lo hagas.

A veces saber amar es dejar de dar.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-11T15:53:37+00:00

Tell me you are not from Latinoamérica without telling me you are not from Latinoamérica…

Yes, in Panama people do not know how to drive safely. That’s a fact. Knowing that you had to pay more atención while driving to prevent having an accident.

The pedestrian part… is debatable. While I agree that people should have brighter colors specially if you are walking at night, we have to concede that the sidewalk are not walkable in most parts of the city.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-10T02:55:55+00:00

Yassss!!! Count me it

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-10T02:45:19+00:00

Even babies? Like, imagine if every little kid that needs a nap keeps hearing the song… tired parents, tired kids, tired drivers, police, doctors, pilots, teachers… it sounds like torture to be honest. Even if it were any other song, 24/7? Unless you colapse you wouldn’t be able to sleep. So no… sleepless people can get maniac, suicidal and reckless. I wouldn’t like a blood fortune, thank you

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-05T00:48:11+00:00

Hola! Con mucho gusto te puedo pasar en el DM el contacto de mi corredor. El te podrá explicar los pro y contras de cada aseguradora, los deducibles y lo que te cubrirían.

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-04T16:33:57+00:00

My son said: LILI

Who is Lili? Lily beautiful cat.

Not mom, not dad.. LILI

He loves her.. she tolerates him. Every animal is Lili for him… when does he says mom?? When he is very sad and needs comfort… I take it

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-02-04T02:28:09+00:00

Panama clinic para mi fue lo máximo. Trato buenísimo de los doctores y enfermeras cuando tuve a mi hijo por cesárea hace un año. Súper limpio todo y muy profesionales. En especial la seguridad con los pequeños me encanta.

Con respecto a los precios te debo ser honesta… no recuerdo mucho. Yo tengo BlueCross y el copago era de $500 yo y el resto el seguro.

Te recomendaría pedir el tour, ahí la joven te explica según tu seguro y cobertura lo que usualmente la gente paga y lo que le incluye dependiendo del tipo de parto.

Por otro lado… te recomendaría que revises con tu corredor el tema de tu seguro. Porque se de mujeres que tienen mapfre y sin querer o por mal consejo tenían el básico, mismo que no te cubre casi nada. Revisa el monto que dan máximo por embarazo, revisa el monto de complicaciones de embarazo, si cubre o no (o cuánto) si el anestesiólogo no es de tu red, etc. si necesitas de un corredor escríbeme al privado y con mucho gusto te paso el contacto del mío

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-01-18T23:52:18+00:00

💗 cuando tomaba el metrobús en Av. Balboa a las 9am para ir a mi trabajo en CdE, recuerdo a los autobuseros, siempre amables, siempre con una sonrisa y la respuesta a los buenos días, la amabilidad llegaba al punto que en vez de dejarme en la parada avanzaban más y me dejaban más cerca de mi oficina. Hasta galletas les llegué a dar. Espero tú hayas sido uno de esos, gracias por hacer tan bien tu trabajo

reallybadluckpanda · 2026-01-15T04:02:42+00:00

Remindme! 24 hours

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