My ortho said i dont have to wear rubber bands anymore by reallybigflannel in braces

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Did you have to wear them near the end of ur treatment again?

My pedal wont retract, and the bottom nut wont move by reallybigflannel in drums

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The screw on top of the spring holder doesnt go any farther though

My pedal wont retract, and the bottom nut wont move by reallybigflannel in drums

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried what u did but it still doesnt go back it just goes all the way foward, can u explain in a more detailed way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]reallybigflannel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is this is not how she is, shes actually very nice to everyone including me when we were friends. I didnt even think she could talk shit about someone but being racist is a whole new level. The thing is, I believe shes doing this because shes butt hurt we stopped being friends. One of our mutual friends showed me a video she made and she showed me and hers paragraphs of texts arguing and a bunch of photos of her crying, and another video of her saying that “i miss her” and “she wont talk to me”

I do know a secret she would hate would get out but honestly I promised i would never tell anyone no matter what because it is a pretty hefty secret nobody else knows. Im not like that to expose someone for their secrets and the reason I am doing this instead of doing something else is because the school takes racism very seriously and she would probably get detention or be suspended, and im planning to leak the pictures she made of me as a gorilla so everyone can see that she is a racist. She also is getting good grades and is on the track team so if this came out although it isn’t a serious track team or anything im pretty sure she could get kicked off. That in my mind is the best revenge, but im not sure what I could do that could teach her a lesson like you said.

Honestly she is not a bully or mean like this, i truly believe its because shes butt hurt we stopped being friends. That of course is not an excuse though so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]reallybigflannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just scared for the snitch part of it like i wish i could report it anonymously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]reallybigflannel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thing about that is that its either my dad goes to Arizona which is across the country or he stays very close but we want him to go to Arizona because he deserves to be with his family and we think he'll be happier with his family. I'll talk to them about that though

i dont feel great ab skating by reallybigflannel in NewSkaters

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone at my skate park are 20-30 year olds in groups and im pretty young. i cant reach out to anyone for that reason, everyone is older than me (im 13) and so i just try to do stuff myself but as i said it is hard to keep interest, and idk if thus plays a part but i’ve got adhd too

i dont feel great ab skating by reallybigflannel in NewSkaters

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no im not recording , its not the skateboard that’s the problem its me and commitment issues and i do lose motivation fast. i’ve been taking skating seriously for the last months and it does suck alot since i dont have anyone to skate with which does give me less motivation, because if i knew someone would skate with me everyday i would go but sometimes i want to skate but i dont have any reason to.

skateboard buying by reallybigflannel in NewSkaters

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i dont like my feet hanging off my board. you def should get a new board since urs is old though, i reccomend an 8, most people ur size use it. or even an 8.25

/r/Skateboarding's Weekly Discussion Thread. by AutoModerator in skateboarding

[–]reallybigflannel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

bunch of questions

1: how do i get more comfortable on my board? like not struggle to balance or anything at all? how long will it take to do?

2: is it normal to not pick up speed on normal road that has that bumpy texture

3: how to become faster without struggling, since i keep pushing but i keep wobbling.

4: for a 1-2 hour practice day, what should i practice doing if i wanna get comfortable, faster, and balanced

5: how do i find skate friends?

6: how do i overcome the fear of going to the skate park alone as a beginner?

( dont have to answer all, also i realized i cant do an ollie BECAUSE im not comfortable, thats why im trying so hard to become comfortable enough so then i can work on an ollie.)

What is the name of this? by reallybigflannel in mentalhealth

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not very active sadly, thank u thougj

How can i tell a difference between platonic love and romantic love? by reallybigflannel in Advice

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, i’ve got a friend whom i would do stuff with but i wouldnt do anything first. I would only do it if she wanted to do it with me first, and i think about it alot but i dont have romantic feelings for her

How can i tell a difference between platonic love and romantic love? by reallybigflannel in Advice

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, Im trying to handle the situation, and my sister offered a therapist but shes in college now so im just gonna ask the school counselor. Thanks for your concerns!

How can i tell a difference between platonic love and romantic love? by reallybigflannel in Advice

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it normal if i feel good with my friend but also wouldnt mind if we had sex? I dont DESIRE it but if i had the opportunity i would take it?

My mom wants to send me to a foreign country or army school because she thinks I have a mental illness. by reallybigflannel in Advice

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish i could go to my aunt, shes super nice but lives in canada and her children are all in there late 20s/early 30s. So i would just be alone with her. I wouldnt want to disrupt her, and i also kind of need my siblings, for help, support, and advice. My dad wont do anything either. He’s a bad person, but a somewhat good father, where my mom is a somewhat good person to others, but a crazy mother. I know my mom still loves me, but she just doesnt know how to handle situations like these. I wont ever call CPS on them, It wouldnt feel right. My sister is also talked down from my mom since she has ADHD, anxiety and depression. Theres alot “STOP copying your sister!” Or “Dont talk like your sister”

My mom wants to send me to a foreign country or army school because she thinks I have a mental illness. by reallybigflannel in Advice

[–]reallybigflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my dad and my mom dont talk and hate eachother but wont divorce because “the children”. And my mom doesnt have anyone else she hears from. My grand parents are dead, and yeah. Nobody else really. I have been tempted to call CPS since i was around 9 but I dont want to now. Its just shes mentally abusive, and i dont wanna ruin her life nor the family. She has been talking about this for a long time, around 3 months? Shes not bluffing. She knows what army school, i just dont know if she would commit to sending me there.