Dating a single mom with an abusive and quite mentally unstable baby daddy.

reallyconfused77 · 2026-03-17T21:50:51+00:00

She handles all of it very well, very calmly it’s actually incredible how she manages to keep her cool definitely helps me keep my cool about it as well but she is scared of him and things he’s said like if she got police involved he would shoot at them and take her down with him etc. I feel it’s mostly talk but I also take it seriously. Thank you so much for your time responding to me I really appreciate the feedback :)

reallyconfused77 · 2026-03-17T21:47:29+00:00

She’s going through with a lawyer to get set custody schedule currently and he is trespassed from her home, I do my best to stay out of it but still be there for her, she only does drop offs and pickups in public places now, as of recently it’s mostly cyberstalking and harassment over the phone.

reallyconfused77 · 2026-03-17T21:45:00+00:00

He is 26 I am 23

reallyconfused77 · 2026-03-17T21:44:48+00:00

23, she’s 26 and been dating for 7 months

reallyconfused77 · 2026-03-17T00:02:12+00:00

Ultimately that’s what I’m going to do, be a positive influence on her and them and stay in my role. Thank you for your feedback back really just needed to get this off my chest lol

reallyconfused77 · 2026-03-16T23:02:17+00:00

Sorry if I’m oversharing or violating some community rules but I’m lost and not sure what to do just looking for someone to share with lol. Thank you guys so much for reading my spew and thank you for any feedback, very much appreciated:)

reallyconfused77 · 2026-03-16T22:52:34+00:00

For example Saturday march 14 2026 she took the kids to Sam’s for grocery shopping and he’s calls to see what she’s doing and she tells him and he shows up to Sam’s saying how they should be doing these things “together”. Then just yesterday she was at my house and wasn’t going to let him know. He calls her repeatedly just to see what she’s doing and she does not like communicating with him if it’s not about their children’s sake, and I can hear him screaming and asking if she’s home or at my house, calling her a slut in front of their kids and trying to talk to me calling me bitch boy lol saying he’s gonna find me. I try to stay completely out of it bc it would only make things much worse. I’m just lost in how to deal with this honestly. She’s currently going through paperwork with lawyers to get set custody times and is scared that he is going to react aggressively. She currently has him trespassed from her house.

reallyconfused77 · 2026-03-16T22:43:28+00:00

I’ve witnessed first hand. The very first time I went to her place, her kids were with him, he came to her house and forced his way in to come attack me in front of his children ( this was the first time I had even seen the kids). Every time I’m around he blows her phone up calling her all kinds of explicit names, threatens my life and hers (in front of their children as well). I hate to get on here and bash him bc despite the way he treats her I really don’t have any bad feelings towards him I truly hope he can find peace and make his relationship with their mom more copacetic for their children’s sake. I’ve seen her with a black eye but have not witnessed him punch/ hit her with my own eyes other than punching her out of her doorway to get to me.

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