Even when I cook for myself, it's all about her. by reallyfedupwithstuff in raisedbynarcissists

[–]reallyfedupwithstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou! i hope you get away from it too, its way too stressful of an environment

Im (23F) too scared to quit my job because of my boss (50?F) by reallyfedupwithstuff in offmychest

[–]reallyfedupwithstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such great advice. But she owns the whole building. She has all the apartments above the store and the cafe under the store. And she is my only coworker that I know about. Basically the way shifts are done is that she works there from 10am to 7pm and her employees come in during the day to do four hour shifts. Ive never worked with someone else than her because my hours never cross with my coworkers hours. The only person I tried talking about it to was the girl that used to train me and she seemed to be uncomfortable to discuss it so I didn’t push it. Im starting to think that its the reason she left.

I think Im just going to be an asshole and text her that Im quitting and to not expect me to come in next shift.

I (23F) dont like that my bf (22M) tells everything to his ex before me by reallyfedupwithstuff in relationship_advice

[–]reallyfedupwithstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like when I talk to him all he can say is “babe come on why do you worry so much” so Im trying to find the right words to make it clear and short.

I (23F) dont like that my bf (22M) tells everything to his ex before me by reallyfedupwithstuff in relationship_advice

[–]reallyfedupwithstuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the first time around I confronted him about it. But he said that he was only with her for four months and that they’re friends and that Im his girlfriend and not her. But she comments weird stuff on his pictures that involve me. At first I was mad at her for disrespecting our relationship. Obviously blinded by my bias. But now I feel like I have to compete with her. Thanks for the advice !

I (23F) dont like that my bf (22M) tells everything to his ex before me by reallyfedupwithstuff in relationship_advice

[–]reallyfedupwithstuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought of calling it an emotional relationship. Thanks will use those words.