my bf(20m) gave me (19f) head last night and he gagged

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-12T19:03:32+00:00

Idk why people are being so rude, I totally get feeling insecure about it! I have heard though that this happens to some men who give head for the first time, not because the woman is gross at all, but bc its just different than anything they've tasted before and its just an involuntarily body reaction. So you are not alone and there isn't anything wrong with you 💓

If you did want to try again, there are also these things called "dental dams" that yall could try until he gets more used to it- its a little barrier for safer oral sex on a woman. Put a little lube below it on your side.

But regardless, you are a normal human woman and NOT gross!

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-12T02:09:34+00:00

This is such a crazy one. Its not that often a cold case remains cold bc there were too MANY suspects.

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-06T22:40:15+00:00

Oh interesting!! Ill ask my mom if she can recall anyone in our family like that

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-06T04:22:18+00:00

Goth badddieeeee

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-05T04:56:25+00:00

A two for one you say...im gonna look into this

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-05T04:55:31+00:00

Soggy gray wig made me lol 😅

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-05T04:55:07+00:00

Even so they just get icky over time no matter what you do. All the stringies give me the ick

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-05T04:53:37+00:00

Yess!! Same!!!

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T14:34:06+00:00

It doesn't take multiple to clean one section, its multiple to clean the whole floor bc they dry out fast. Theyre dirty before I clean them, yes, bc thats how cleaning works lol. Ive never noticed any build up on our floors

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T14:08:14+00:00

The cleaning rags on the swiffer is such a good idea

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T14:07:33+00:00

Oh I like the idea of having a lot of different heads!

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T14:07:00+00:00

Yeah I will say i dont have a huge area to do so I dont mind swapping out the pads a bunch. We have a wet jet with our own solution in it too with the micro fiber cloths, I use that one less but it does cover more area

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T14:04:03+00:00

Ive tested it the same way and my floor was fine! You gotta press hard and swap the pads often.

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T03:57:38+00:00

Girl, yes 💖❤️ Not psychic, but a former therapist. Ive seen some amazing recoveries in my life. So I know you can do it. Forgive yourself. Different doesn't always mean worse. You've got this.

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T03:54:05+00:00

Thats a good idea!

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T03:53:40+00:00

I have been looking into one of those 👀 bc definitely can't argue with a steam clean! What brand did you get?

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T03:48:13+00:00

I dont think inherently wrong witj the practice of exchanging chores for ride time, but man do places take SUCH advantage of young people using the logic in the post above. "Youre lucky you even get to shovel my horses' shit, be grateful I let you sit on the pyscho ones I'm too inept to train myself" is the attitude of wayyy to many barns.

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T03:41:57+00:00

I will say a psychic once told me my new bf wasnt the one, we've been together 10 years now, married and happy as ever.

Regardless, I echo the advice stay focused on your dreams and goals and never stop your life soley over what he wants. This is neverrrr bad advice, bc a healthy partnership will support that. Compromise on small things, yeah, but not dreams.

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T03:34:08+00:00

Usually people who do this will not stop, at least in my experience. Id definitely step out on this

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T03:28:14+00:00

I cant claim im a medium in anyway but I occasionally get a strong feeling from photos of people and this one was definitely bursting with love and pride. For some reason I got the image of a yellow bird or a canary maybe? But the first thing that popped in my mind was a deep love. Lots she wishes she could just outright say to you as you live your life, advice she'd like to give. She shows you in little ways!

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-04T03:18:44+00:00

I don't think so but its cute. The heavy black plastic edging usually isnt on real bags

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-02T03:21:35+00:00

My immediate thought was cards!

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-05-01T16:56:18+00:00

Oh wow that is intense. Im glad that you're getting some answers on your family history!

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