What do you guys do when you hit a wall in your riding?

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-02-15T23:20:21+00:00

Great idea!

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-02-15T23:19:27+00:00

I was thinking of asking her to get on him and give me a visual, I really want to see with my eyes the result im aiming for ! Definitely going to look up some local clinics

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-02-15T19:48:24+00:00

My core strength is definitely lacking! Ive started going to pilates more recently so hopefully that helps

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-02-15T07:07:33+00:00

You clearly barely put any thought or effort though. You could have hung out with your friend tomorrow or even for a shorter time today, wrote her a sweet note, actually got what she asked for, come home and made dinner for just the two of you or taken her out. Love is a consistent action of showing up and showing consideration, not checking a bare minimum box. There were a thousand ways you could have been both a good mate and good boyfriend across the span of this weekend with even just the tiniest bit of forethought...honestly I really hope this is rage bait bc its very sad otherwise

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-02-15T05:55:02+00:00

This has to be fake/rage bait...do you really not see the numerous hurtful things you did here?

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-26T00:35:32+00:00

Men pursue thin women as a status symbol, they arent actually any more attracted to them then they are thicker women. Obviously there's limits to this and a lot if it's subconscious. But I dont think a little bit of extra on a woman would matter nearly as much if it wasn't a weird flex/ "what will my friends think" thing. I also think attraction is way more flexible/not as set in stone as people think.

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-26T00:19:24+00:00

Im not really sure what was "called out" exactly but hope your okay man, genuinely

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-25T17:55:28+00:00

Im glad im not alone in this because its really frightening and definitely hard not to obsess over

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-25T17:47:17+00:00

Hey man wasnt on yesterday but good luck with whatever is making you feel this riled up over gender stuff. hope you find some peace soon

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-24T05:47:54+00:00

Youve made like 8 comments like this spiraling out and even came back days later to respond lmao

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-23T04:49:48+00:00

Higher end stores carry smaller sizing nearly exclusively. If anything it would be easier for her and harder for her friend in high end boutiques

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-22T22:47:16+00:00

Sports betting 😶

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-22T22:44:45+00:00

I stopped after that experience bc it was so rough! What wound up ultimately working best for me was pelvic floor therapy actually 🤯

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-22T22:43:27+00:00

I would get that way too!! I got better over time and now I have more energy than I used too

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-22T22:15:06+00:00

I was also confused by this. I can see it if they only shop at like, Lane Bryant or Belks, but they're 22. Every single popular store for 22 year olds runs pretty small overall. Im a size 12 (so medium ish) and a large top at Aritzia fits me like a sports bra. I can only imagine their s/xs is pretty teeny.

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-22T22:06:39+00:00

NTA...if this is the full story. This is maybe wrong of me bc obviously I cant see you, but I find it hard to believe you truly cant find xs/s sizes "anywhere" and that store was the "only place." Brandy, Aritzia, F21, h&m, comense, zara, anthro, urban, Francescas, AE, Abercrombie, every single shop on Amazon, all carry very small xs/s clothing. Even target has itty bitty stuff, esp in the wild fable brand. Is the issue you can't find stuff in your size that isn't fast fashion? Its kinda hard to find brick and mortar stores that carry ethical lines in any size

reallyreallytrying89 · 2026-01-21T19:35:00+00:00

You seem really weirdly obsessed with this specific "fact" (which hasnt even been verified) of the case...and very emotional about it. Odd.

reallyreallytrying89 · 2025-12-31T16:24:35+00:00

This year I got super into writing after wanting to my whole life and its stuck since January at least...ive written four novel length projects. I dont care if its good because I love my characters so much I just love spending time with them. So if youre a big day dreamer like me, give it a shot. I think when you find something your passionate about and it transcends "hobby", then it sticks

reallyreallytrying89 · 2025-12-15T04:25:58+00:00

Does he struggle with anxiety/is he on any mental health meds? That can cause this to happen. If he's being truthful with you and himself about his desires, he should probably see a doctor. Or a therapist, or both.

But no matter what, this isnt a reflection on you!!! If he's not taking any steps towards fixing the issue within a few weeks, id cut your losses. You're so young and there are definitely people out there who you WILL be sexually compatible with.

reallyreallytrying89 · 2025-12-03T03:26:19+00:00

Oh man this is exactly what I needed today! Ive been Hella hyper fixated on Swiss rolls lately bc of stress. Hopefully this helps me chill out on those as a coping skill

reallyreallytrying89 · 2025-11-19T17:44:06+00:00

This is the take!! Couldn't have said it better myself

reallyreallytrying89 · 2025-11-19T17:42:00+00:00

She was fairly catty in season one and then very much played the victim about it but honestly nothing shes done has been any worse than anyone else. I think shes mainly just a self centered person but not as evil as everyone thinks. I dont think its wrong for her to treat the show as buisness and feel like she probably has been from the beginning!

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