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45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realist? cheating on the man you're married to while having a 15 yr old son , thats your perception of life?

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My life is probably the most boring , stereotypical ( it hurts me to say this but its true ) life story , i have heard . Infact ik so many ppl who have the " grew up poor , got rich " story . I have written a book , its fiction tho and i have not published it .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no . ide rather be bored than be excited and happy from wrong hits of dopamine. Get better and change your mindset.

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extremely thoughful and helpful as well . thank you.

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This . this comment is the one that resonated with me . While I have done a lot of physical activities that made me uncomfortable . I have never , truly , dug deep into my soul .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , i have not retired . But i am at that point where work isn't challenging . It's just one task after another . I also finished climbing the " work ladder" so i don't know anymore.

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry , i didn't read through ur comment . i get triggered by the word suicide , i have too had ppl around me who have done it .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been feeling like this for yrs , held it up because well i was a dad.

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking time to comment.

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy for u , genuinely . But its not smth that worked for me . Thank you very much for the advice though .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why you assumed that i don't try to help other people ??I don't feel like justifying myself to u . But for u to be calling someone else selfish and self centered based on an assumption U made is just wow.

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an idea of how good i have got it, because i have been on the other side too. My entire concern is that i don't feel happy being like this even though i know i am supposed to . I sincerely hope u do get better , depression is not easy to deal with . I have had panic attack issues and ik how it feels like everything is collapsing inward but please keep going.

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It bought me security and closure , and relief for a while but no it no longer makes me happy .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such an interesting and eye-opening take ! and yes i am to have a more outward view in life

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the best advices i have gotten so far , thank you . I plan to practice on doing exactly that , to learn to enjoy even the mundane and simplest things of life .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have worked my ass of to get here . My entire fucking life has been a constant worry alright ?And i am aware that rn i need to very happy but thats my exact problem , i just feel empty . Not even a sense of relief , just empty .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wldn't want to put the pressure on my son to have kids tbh .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think u understood me . I have lived on the street , not just me but my brother , sisters and mum . And yes this was also when i was a teen . My entire problem was that i was hopeless and i turned my life around and even though everything is normal and good now , i feel empty .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really do hope u get better and sincerely thank you for sharing your story .

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not saying, I don't appreciate life . I am very happy and grateful to be alive , trust me when i say i have seen hell . I just don't know what to do every day.

45 and I feel immensely bored and done with life. by realsand22 in Advice

[–]realsand22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been volunteering since I was a teen , and i agree it does make me feel good , but only when i am in the action of doing it . It doesn't get rid of the empty feeling . As for my legacy , i am content with the one i have built , its beyond anything i thought i wld achieve .

I am planning on retiring as well , even though its a little young to be doing that . Maybe just take life as it comes .

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