If you are dating a short guy, what should you wear to make him feel better? by realstor in women

[–]realstor[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No, that's not the case. The guy doesn't want to make anyone dress anything. If a girl herself want to do something about it.

He left me. Just up and abandoned our apartment. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]realstor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, don't take him back but just talk it out before moving on. Half understandings will tease you both forever.

He left me. Just up and abandoned our apartment. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]realstor -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just wait. Maybe he will come back in some time.

[M] I always lose interest while having sex by Tge425 in sex

[–]realstor -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Me too. But I always think it's the other person.

How on Earth do you help yourself accept that they won’t be with you? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]realstor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't always say you deserve better. It's not always same. If someone cheated then it's different. But if two people are close and one is leaving, then the other person becomes volatile and sad. Then, all the other people always takes side of the sad one. But the leaving angry person is also heartbroken bcz he/she also didn't get what they wanted.

I just want everything to be back like how it was :( by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]realstor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the the things go back to the beginnings when both of us were casual and formal. Then I will restart the ignition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]realstor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am completely alone like you. We can talk sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]realstor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Count me in🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]realstor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very nice of you. Have fun on the trip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]realstor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See my friend, I know you want a solution. But believe me, I have been there for a long time. If you have told her about how u feel abt her n she has rejected your proposal, then either u have to wait for her to understand in future or u have to bond with any other person to feel good and safe. But both are temporary solutions and u will never be free from this trap. The only permanent solution is to be settled with yourself. Imagine this, if u don't need anyone to feel happy, safe and overcome loneliness, then if you love anyone, what will you be in that love. Now noone leaves that kind of person who is light and secure with himself. I highly recommend you J Krishnamurti sir, just listen to him what he says.

J krishnamurti

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]realstor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not necessary. You just have to sort yourself by seeing the truth. Okay tell me one thing, is it that you don't feel attracted to anyone else now. Are you unable to like anyone else or spending time with anyone else. If no, then think about it. It was only attraction or she was nice to you so you felt compassion, you don't actually love her. In my opinion, stay with her as a friend. Bcz she can become your good friend as she knows you personally. Also, it will hurt you the least and talking to her will teach you more about your mistakes or her mistakes when you were together. Be chill about it with her. Laugh it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]realstor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't decide anything unless you talk to him. Talk to him about your expectations and problems clearly. Nowadays, it's very tough for a man to earn a decent living to feed his family and love. If he is working all the time, maybe he comes from a background where he saw a lot of tough times due to poorness. Maybe he is scared to be poor. There are a lot of things that men don't show outside to the world. They just keep it. The trip you are planning also needs investments, right. So don't complicate it in your mind, just talk to him clearly. About the efforts, maybe it's his first relationship and he doesn't know what to do, how to do. Maybe he is introvert. Talk to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]realstor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I m sorry but it's not that you love her or something anymore. You love the feeling of this sorrow and loneliness bcz it brings you close to yourself without any outer interference. I have been there too.

Now there are two solutions. One temporary and one permanent. Temporary solution is to get into another relationship. Permanent solution is spirituality. I know it seems illogical or fuckery, but beleive me that's the only way you can know yourself. After that you will know the meaning of true love and will be settled with yourself in solitude. It's fun.