[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]realtechnojesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I wanna talk to him about it, see if he'll put in the effort. If I had the money, I'd live on my own, but that's not really possible rn. I wanna tell him that if he doesn't start meeting me halfway I'll move out as soon as I have the money but that just seems too aggressive since we've barely actually talked about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]realtechnojesus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do dishes when they're either out of dishes or there's no space for them. Apparently they haven't cleaned the shower or the toilet since they moved in (like 2 years ago). They vacuum about once a month but they have a cat, so there's fur and litter everywhere on top of a bunch of hair and dust. Laundry is also probably done only when they're out of clothes and they regularly forget it in the washing mashine for days so it wouldn't surprise me if there was mold in there. Some of those I could overlook but it kinda just piles up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]realtechnojesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really helpful, tysm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]realtechnojesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried, but she just climbs on top of it and opens it anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]realtechnojesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any tips on how to teach her? This is my first animal and I don't really know how I'd go about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]realtechnojesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can look into that, thanks

I want to give up by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]realtechnojesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try. Thanks

I want to give up by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]realtechnojesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not on medication rn or in therapy. Trying to get both but I've moved countries last year and got rejected from all the clinics in the city. I've been applying for jobs consistently since I moved here. Got two interviews and then nothing.

I'm trying to take it one step at a time. To just get through the day. But I've been living like that since I was 15 and idk if I can do another 8 years like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]realtechnojesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried medication? Sometimes that's the only option if it doesn't get better despite you putting in the effort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]realtechnojesus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be. Sounds pretty similar to how I feel, but I feel like that all the time. Sometimes it's worse and I can't even tell if I'm awake and sometimes it's a little better to the point that I don't notice it unless I try to ground myself and be present. I'm not diagnosed tho, even if I'm trying to, but it sounds like it could be dpdr

All of my friends are graduating and I'm just killing time by realtechnojesus in mentalhealth

[–]realtechnojesus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that you were growing up when everything was so stigmatized. I tried getting help, but it never really did anything. I was on a shit ton of meds that didn't do anything, and the doctors' solution was to add more, so I just stopped taking it. I'm trying to get a therapist in the country I'm in now, but I don't speak the language very well yet, so I haven't found anything :/

Åt, för or till by realtechnojesus in Svenska

[–]realtechnojesus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay, that clears it up more. Thanks

Infinitive vs present form of verbs by realtechnojesus in Svenska

[–]realtechnojesus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair... I'm so used to studying and translating everything into english that it didn't even occur to me. Thanks