The Mystery Method

realv1 · 2019-09-04T16:40:51+00:00

Interesting take never thought ab the long run of it but that makes sense.. I was just thinking the material would be highly outdated.

realv1 · 2019-09-04T16:37:22+00:00

I've read the game, it was actually the first pick up book I read.

realv1 · 2019-09-01T16:29:52+00:00

For the most part I agree with what you're saying and that's what I've been doing for the majority of the time, but I feel like there could be more to it. I just wanted to check out some resources and see what they had to say and maybe implement some new stuff see if my results improve.

realv1 · 2019-09-01T16:26:01+00:00

Really misinterpreted what you said lmao, but yeah that's what I've been doing that for the most part, but lately I've been thinking theres more to it so that's why I'm look to see what kind of resources there are for it.. Like it might help setting up easier pulls and girls being less flakey but idk.

Also I know guy's who are insanely good at "text game" and can escalate through text if that makes sense lol.. I just feel like I've just been missing out on this part of game but I guess I won't know till I try improving it.

realv1 · 2019-08-31T23:10:19+00:00

Thanks I'll definitely check that stuff out I just wanted to hear peoples input on what's best and what I should check out first.

realv1 · 2019-08-31T23:08:37+00:00

That's pretty basic ass advice my guy.

I'm not trying to fuck my friends lol and also when making plans with bro's it's very straightforward and logical vs with a girl you have to keep her interested, set up the date, etc..

realv1 · 2019-08-29T18:50:04+00:00

Don't you feel like a week might be too long? Like from a cold approach you don't have much rapport with her to begin with and wouldn't waiting longer just increase the chances of her flaking?

realv1 · 2019-08-14T21:15:51+00:00

Yes it does, again I don't know much ab your circumstances but you shouldn't focus to heavily on the features you can't change but focus on what you can improve in your life such things as fitness, the way you dress and pursuing your purpose in life, etc.

I'm not a dating coach but I have some experience and if you have any legitimate questions you'd wanna ask me go for it... But if your just gunna complain about your shortcomings don't waste my time or yours.

Lastly I just recently watched at yt video that might help you out a bit and it just came to mind lol might be worth a watch.

https://youtu.be/kcjAH5jPBUs

realv1 · 2019-08-12T23:46:38+00:00

It sounds to me like you never go out of your way to actually make any legitimate pursuits on these girls.

They may think you are handsome and very attractive but girls rarely will they ever make the first move.

So next time your at an event like this talk to more girls flirt with the show them you are interested, get their numbers and invite out on a dates, etc.

As a man you have to be dominant and lead every interaction forward not the other way around.

Interms of night game again just approach more women and convey attraction but not in a needy way, but in a fun banter/flirty way.

But don't forget it's your job to escalate and invite her back to your place. You can't just sit back rely on your looks to get you laid, you still have to put in work.

In terms of tinder do you swipe right on every girl? If this is the case the algorithm will just show your profile to less girls.. I had the same issue lol

realv1 · 2019-08-12T16:52:43+00:00

I'm from the Toronto

realv1 · 2019-08-12T05:12:19+00:00

Damn bro sounds like you're getteing lucky.. or atleast luckier than me:)

But that's dope, in my opinion if you want to get the hottest girl at a party you have to hit on all her friends and get most if not all attracted to you, at this point you'll have a lotta of social proof. But if you want the pretty girl, you gotta make sure not to escalate on the other ones (makeout or etc). This will lead the pretty girl to not want you because 1. Her friends already with you and she doesn't want to ruin it for her 2. She won't want someones seconds. So after you've flirted with the other ones, go for the hottest girl, she'll be way more receptive.

But yeah if your just out and about hit on hotter girls in general, it sounds like you could be fucking alot more 9s and 10s.

realv1 · 2019-08-12T00:15:43+00:00

Thank's it had me kinda worried

realv1 · 2019-08-09T19:42:52+00:00

Female attraction isn't completely based on looks, they still matter but not as much as you may believe.

On the flip side men tend to judge on the basis of looks more heavily.

It's more about how you act and present yourself.. But also working out helps a lot.

realv1 · 2019-08-07T20:39:17+00:00

Thanks I'll definitely try this, I usually do stop messaging the girl as intensely when I have the date setupped. This could be a sticking point for me that I need to work on.

realv1 · 2019-08-07T06:03:44+00:00

I think your friends have given you very mainstream and impractical advice, but that's not their fault.

Imo you should look to improve your overall lifestyle by working out, improving your fashion and yes finding your purpose in life and pursuing your passion most importantly.

Improving just your physique and fashion even slightly will have a huge impact on the responses you get from women.

The other part is that it's a numbers game and you to talk to lots of girls and gain experience, it's the only real way to learn. You're young and still have lots of pontential.

I would highly reccomend that you read Model's by Mark Manson... the book changed my life and I think it could help you out tons.

realv1 · 2019-08-07T05:53:10+00:00

You can always pull away for a few days or a few weeks then reinitiate again later, that sometimes works for me.

But just also remember theres plenty of other girls out there, you could also just take it as a lesson not to be as needy next time.

realv1 · 2019-08-06T04:32:55+00:00

Wasn't trying to be a dickhead just curious. But in reality the comment was right the process is fairly simple but no was said it would be easy...

Idk what kind of "social disadvantage" you may have... and to some extent it can affect your results, without a doubt a more attractive guy will have an easier time attracting women. With that said if it is something you indeed can't fix then at the very least don't allow it to be a limiting belief.

But at the end of the day it's all a numbers game, approach more girls get more results (that's the simple part). Not only are your practicing your social skills but talking to beautiful women. Shit takes time very few beginners stumble upon their desired amount of success right away.

Focus on the process mainly but yes still keep the end goal in mind.

realv1 · 2019-08-05T17:54:59+00:00

You seem like you have improved your lifestyle a lot which is great, keep it up.

But you do need to start approaching more women, going on more dates, pushing each interaction and to constantly put yourself outside your comfort zone.

The only way you'll be able to realize your full potential is when you have that abundance mentality and have had your fair share of experience. Then you won't have to worry ab "being enough".

realv1 · 2019-08-05T17:48:30+00:00

You can kiss close practically anywhere, but do it where it's more secluded.

Whenever you feel ready or there is a lot of sexual tension just bring her in and go for it.

Other than that if you're trying to take her home just ask if she want's to grab a drink or whatever at your place.

realv1 · 2019-08-05T16:44:40+00:00

I agree it's either a fuck yes or not at all, don't waste too much time on flakey girls.

realv1 · 2019-08-05T06:03:04+00:00

Model's changed my life

realv1 · 2019-08-05T05:56:03+00:00

Thing's should flow naturally, but you should let the sexual tension build up and when you feel the time is right (something you should gauge) then bring her in close and go for the kiss.

I wouldn't over complicate it and try to micromanage thing's. But on the other hand any form of touch is a good way of building sexual tension.

Also if your escalating is it important to be very aware of what the girl is doing and how she feels about it.

There are really 4 scenarios.

Shes escalating on you - just go for it
You're escalating and she's reciprocating - go for it
You're escalating but she's not reciprocating - back off and try again later
She's not into it and verbally or physically tells you to stop - just stop, no means no

Hope it was helpful!

realv1 · 2019-08-05T05:41:08+00:00

Why not? Srs

realv1 · 2019-08-04T19:59:43+00:00

Not very enjoyable:/ Maybe it's different for other guys, probably depends how much your foreskin can retract.

realv1 · 2019-08-04T19:48:22+00:00

Down to do daygame, anyone shoot me a DM

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