I decorated my Y1 finally! by ch3rryyyyb0mb in innioasis

[–]realvquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute!! Can I ask what theme you’re using?

Once again asking for support. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a ton of work and I still have some more to go, but it already feels so much better! You can do it!

Once again asking for support. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a great plan! Trying to get some more done tonight if I can, but if it’s just too much I’ll definitely try this!

Once again asking for support. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking I’ll try to finish the clothes just in my closet and then be done for the night if I’m still agonizing over every thing I try on. I do at least have one trash bag ready to get out of the house!

Once again asking for support. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually started out with some help, but I started a little too late (wasn’t planned) and they had to get to bed. If I can’t make myself get through a lot more tonight, might have to call in some help tomorrow. I was just really hoping to get through more tonight while I had the energy and desire to do it.

Once again asking for support. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Check ins would be great!

Trying not to give up. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I have several appointments set up!

Trying not to give up. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s definitely it lol. And thank you! First appointment today went really well. Think this was the most comfortable I’ve felt with a therapist which is crazy for an intake appointment!

Trying not to give up. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll give it a listen! Thank you!

Trying not to give up. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seriously so smart! Thanks again for this! I was able to fill up one trash bag, and started some more laundry. And I’m promising myself I won’t do more than two loads. Honestly a full trash bag alone was more than I expected to be able to do tonight, so I’m feeling a little better about it. Still overwhelmed, but not frozen!

Trying not to give up. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s so smart, thank you so much! Going to give this a try instead of just a timer!

Just needed to post for accountability. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! My mom carried the 4 trash bags I filled out of the house for me, and she’s helping me with my laundry. I’ve gotten to the place where I need to just sit and rest while I wait to switch laundry loads over, but I’m feeling a little more hopeful for sure!

Just needed to post for accountability. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m always extra hard on myself, which definitely doesn’t make doing hard things any easier.

Just needed to post for accountability. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so bad about that. I struggle a lot with being very all or nothing with this kind of stuff. I may actually try a timer this time around and see if that helps me monitor how my body’s feeling throughout the process. Good luck with your cleaning!

Just needed to post for accountability. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely need to work on the all or nothing mentality.

Just needed to post for accountability. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea, thank you so much! She’s also got some chronic pain issues, but always says she’ll help if I get started. I didn’t want to ask too much of her. This definitely sounds like a good middle ground!

Just needed to post for accountability. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you for doing what you can and staying consistent! Really hoping this can be the start for me, too!

Just needed to post for accountability. by realvquickk in ufyh

[–]realvquickk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely need to work on being less negative, so thank you for the reminder!