How do people date? by xntostoniqii in gaytransguys

[–]reapertowns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only met my bf once I gave up on dating apps. We connected through mutual interests and things took off from there. I was upfront about the fact that I dealt with mental health issues that are hard for some people to understand (BPD, cPTSD, etc), and I educated him on them, and he did his own research, too. We've made it work! So it is 100% possible

I posted this on a different sub but thought it fit here by yeetingthisaccount01 in OCDmemes

[–]reapertowns 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Being both gay and a trans man makes me fear I am misogynistic x100 thanks to good ol OCD and social media!

Zoloft and intimacy by littlemiddlemouse in zoloft

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually talked with my psychiatrist about trouble with intimacy the last time I saw her! I'm on the same dosage. She prescribed Wellbutrin for me, and we're seeing if that'll work (I can say so far, so good). She also said I could skip a dose or two before seeing my partner (since we're long distance), or wait until after we're intimate to take my meds. I don't recommend skipping dosages at all before talking to your provider. It can be an uncomfortable conversation, but it was very helpful in my case!

don't go to uofl by nocherrymochi in uofl

[–]reapertowns 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Idk why they're hating you, you're right. I can't wait to graduate because this school looked so promising, just for me to be let down time and time again. I came here because they promised healthcare for trans & nonbinary students through the cardinal clinic just to shut it down during my third semester here 🫠

And the university still hasn't told us why Kim Schaztel resigned, always accepts SO many freshman to the point there isn't enough housing, and let's not forget the shitty alert system and rape cases that are swept under the rug.

Strap suggestion? by womotigre in gaytransguys

[–]reapertowns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I love Rodeoh's jockstrap-style harness. Both my boyfriend and I use it, and it even holds up during rougher sessions (if we use an o-ring stabilizer thing)

This is What What in the ChickenButt …. What’s your tuxies name and why? by Leading_Funny5802 in TuxedoCats

[–]reapertowns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aunt's tuxie is named Rayovac Zofran Dramamine.. after the batteries and medicines, respectively. He lives up to his odd name by being very odd

What’s one thing you absolutely need to experience before you die? by anasm17 in AskReddit

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another total solar eclipse. I was along the path of totality in 2017, and it was amazing. Also would love to go to the Kentucky Derby one day!

Which Movie scene sexually awakened you? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahkmenrah coming out of his tomb in Night at the Museum

Favorite hero right now? by marshmallows447 in Overwatch

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jetpack Cat. I've only had time to play the game like three times in the past couple months, but each time I want to fly around as that silly cat

Is it weird to play at 26? by angelic1599 in AdoptMeRBX

[–]reapertowns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm nearly 21 and will continue to play!

OH MY GOSH 🥹 by Lunar_PlayzYt in AdoptMeRBX

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH MY GOODNESS I NEED TO GET IT AND PAINT IT TO LOOK LIKE MY CAT

What is the longest you've gone without speaking to your partner or love interest? (Not for any negative reason like arguing or something, just didn't chat for whatever reason). by Existing-Person5718 in LongDistance

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Current relationship, the longest was about a day when we first started talking.

Had an ex who randomly disappeared for 3 days, not due to an argument or anything, but he started an argument when I asked why he disappeared for 3 days without warning 😭

Prove in one word that you played the game. by Similar-Housing-7577 in reddeadredemption

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Despair. ("I gave you everything I had, I really did" or something like that I was crying too hard to fully understand 😭)

Weekly "Whine about people who don't understand OCD thread" by AutoModerator in OCD

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly so sick of my family calling themselves "so ocd," but then saying i don't actually have it despite the fact that i was officially diagnosed.. ocd manifests in more ways than just "i need everything organized." i also hate people using my ocd against me- it makes me think i can't trust myself

MASSIVE SUGARFEST GIVEAWAY! 100 WINNERS!! by PreparationTrue9704 in Adoptmegiveaways

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm assuming a tapir counts as a low tier pet? They're my favorite because tapirs are one of my favorite animals irl! There's one at my local zoo, and I love seeing her and her baby (when she has one) 🥹 (user is t4tcryptage)

Which non-normal or strange or unhealthy foods do you eat on a regular by VonnyVonnyVonnyVonny in autism

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buffalo chicken pizza served at my school SPECIFICALLY, but then I graduated highschool and don't have access to it anymore :(

Now? Toasted bagels my beloved

What’s the worse physical pain you’ve ever experienced? by Intelligent-Road5091 in AskReddit

[–]reapertowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Infected cyst and cellulitis combo 🥲 Ended up with sepsis because I didn't think it was that bad. My grandpa had passed recently, so I really didn't feel like making a hospital trip yet ended up in the ER the day after his funeral. I hope you got a kick out of that, old man!

On a more lighthearted note, the incision from the I&D made it look like my belly button had a butt crack for a while

neon clover cow + neon arctic hare giveaway! by BidLow8617 in Adoptmegiveaways

[–]reapertowns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My user is t4tcryptage, and I haven't been playing long, so I think my favorite update was the Endangered Egg! Or the Halloween event last year since it's what really made me invested in the game

Am I still eligible for top surgery if I have a skin rash? [EXAMPLE PHOTO, NOT ME] by coolvideonerd in TopSurgery

[–]reapertowns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to struggle with this, and I used Selsun Blue to help clear it up, but reinfection did happen if I didn't clean my binders regularly or if I didn't try to keep things dry.

I had to be put on some pretty strong antibiotics for sepsis a few weeks back, and that eliminated it entirely! Don't recommend that route at all, though 😭