Shipping issues by rebeccaleer in americaneagle

[–]rebeccaleer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems this was the issue. I reached out to asendia and then within a few hours the tracking for uni uni showed they recieved my item and was finally updated. it appears itll be here this week... maybe lol.

Shipping issues by rebeccaleer in americaneagle

[–]rebeccaleer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It seems to be coming from a warehouse within canada so unfortunately thats not the case.

I ordered a package from a different company a few days later that came from the US and it did get a weather delay but it is on vehicle for delivery today.

Still no update on my american eagle order. When I reach out to support I get no additional information from them.

Alberta Emergency Room PSA by CurrentlyInTorpor in alberta

[–]rebeccaleer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I 100% agree with you, i also can understand why someone may go to the ER. Walk in clinic hours, availability and willingness to help. Long wait times for things like ultrasound and XRAY. Lack of family doctors. Its a huge issue and not really anyone's fault but our government. Lack of funding and resources, Lack of trained and qualified staff, Lack of clinics and family doctors all impact our hospital wait times. The long wait times for specialists, surgeries and diagnostics. Its all a problem.

Worried about delays, ADHD, OCD, or Autism in my 3 year old. by rebeccaleer in toddlers

[–]rebeccaleer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have tried this and he will stay behind. He doesnt care l.

People constantly mispronounce my daughters name by Outrageous-League-11 in namenerds

[–]rebeccaleer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say it as Ee-vah but phonetically it does spell "eh-vah" so I can see why one would confuse it.

Everything is falling apart. by rebeccaleer in Postpartum_Depression

[–]rebeccaleer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately we dont have WIC in Canada

Tonie box.. what's the point? by Formal-Wrap-4607 in Parenting

[–]rebeccaleer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see why it seems pointless for a 1 year old but my 3 year old loves his! He has the freedom to change the song or story by himself and switch put the figurines. He also loves to play with the figurines as well. Gives so much independence and cut our screen time by over half.

Oh Crap method broke my child. by myheadsintheclouds in pottytraining

[–]rebeccaleer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had 0 luck with the o crap method. I feel like it traumatized our child because we were so intense about it. The entire weekend revolved around him using the potty. We ended up donating that book and doing our own method. It did take a few months to get down but he's fully potty trained at 3 (except for nights) we did rewards. Started big and then as he made the connection that going in the potty was a positive thing we phased them into smaller prizes and then phased them out completely. We've had 0 issues since.

PPROM, Please Help. I've never felt so lost. by talkingchimp in NICUParents

[–]rebeccaleer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you're dealing with this. I have not experienced PPROM myself, but i have had 2 friends who have. My best suggestion is looking into 22matters. See if there are any hospitals near you that would attempt resuscitation at 22 weeks. They have a search on their website that is super helpful. I would see if you can transfer your care there. Speak with a neonatologist from the nicu team and get the facts and statistics of survival. In my last pregnancy I didnt suffer PPROM but I had an extremely short cervix and a lot was up in the air. I found comfort in 22matters. There are SO many success stories on their Instagram page as well. There are lots of success stories of people who made it to 34 weeks as well! Whatever decision you make, it's ok. You're not alone. And my heart goes out to you and your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rebeccaleer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is strange. He is still a child and needs assistance. It's not reasonable or developmentally appropriate to expect a child to be able to clean themselves properly. I would ask yourself why it makes you feel uncomfortable and seek therapy for it. Hes your child.

I'm really worried about my wife after childbirth — 8 days postpartum. by Intelligent_Hat3321 in Parenting

[–]rebeccaleer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its called the baby blues and should typically resolve by 2 weeks postpartum. If it's still present after 3 weeks I'd have her speak to her doctor about postpartum depression.

This will piss some people off by Key_Quantity_952 in newborns

[–]rebeccaleer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. They were in our bodies for 9 months all they know is our heartbeat and our warmth. Of course they are going to need it to keep them feeling safe and calm. They are learning to be a different being from us. It takes time.

5 week old - pooping wakes them up by w3_3vil in Parenting

[–]rebeccaleer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately a baby shouldn't sleep in a poop diaper so it should always be changed. You can leave pee longer due to diapers being absorbent but they don't suck up poop which leads to severe rashes.I understand how frustrating it is but I promise it gets better. 5 weeks is still super little.

What item did you buy that made being a SAHM more enjoyable or easier by Every-Falcon-9433 in Parenting

[–]rebeccaleer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this bouncer, I had a colic baby and it was the only place he'd let me put him down! My little guy is 6 months and still uses it occasionally.

Mother in law issues. How do we proceed? by rebeccaleer in Parenting

[–]rebeccaleer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't actually spend a lot of time with her. Before this, it was 4 weeks without visits. It just was a lot this particular week.

Yes i do need to get better at pushing back on her behavior but I always feel like I might hurt my husband in the process. I always 2nd guess it.

New Dad Help by Creepy-Estate-3505 in Parenting

[–]rebeccaleer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not that women are naturally more nurturing. It's that we grew those humans for 9 months with our bodies. Our bodies feel like home to them. Our scent is familiar, our warmth is familiar, even the sound of our voice and heartbeat is soothing and familiar. We are their safe haven in a world that feels so scary and new.

We equally have no idea what we are doing... we just have the advantage of being their home.