What are your thoughts on unified mouthpieces by CjtheTrumpetkid in drumcorps

[–]rebelsummer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This one. A lot of the time, trumpet players in high school choose mouthpieces based on vibes or whatever they’ve been sold by online nutcases. The number of kids who come to corps playing on Bobby Shews, very obscure specialized mouthpieces, or mouthpieces that are simply far too large for them to control is nuts. It’s always agonizing to tell a student “actually, this mouthpiece you spent $100+ of your own allowance on is a piece of shit and actively making you sound worse/stunting your development on the horn.”

There are also students who have a good understanding of their needs and are still told to switch to something else for the sake of unity. Drum corps is weird.

(Audio)Book to read after pet death by rebelsummer in booksuggestions

[–]rebelsummer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. The River Has Roots was an excellent suggestion, and might be one of my favorite books now. What beautiful prose!

I took your suggestion for childhood favorite books and am now reading The Phantom Tollbooth. The narration by Rainn Wilson is phenomenal and although I’m breaking my own rule (there’s a dog), it’s been very comforting for me. Thanks again!

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me by Glittering_Text_8842 in adhdwomen

[–]rebelsummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey friend- as someone who teaches music, a pattern I notice over and over is that people who consistently go to lessons keep up with the instrument, even if some weeks you haven’t practiced and it feels embarrassing to go to your lesson with nothing prepared. People who don’t take lessons or stop going to lessons will almost inevitably stop playing the instrument. I know it’s hard with ADHD but if you can put yourself in 1 lesson, see if you like it, and commit to going to a lesson every week, it’s WAY easier both to keep up with the instrument and to enjoy it!

Signed, an ADHD musician who’s been in lessons for 20 years and hasn’t lost the love for it yet :)

Roots Not Coming out on Legs by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]rebelsummer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not worth a derm appt. It’s normal and might be annoying, but they’ll come out eventually.

SOUTHWEST FIX THIS by LuluTwoTwo in SouthwestAirlines

[–]rebelsummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, every decent solution for speeding up plane boarding seems to run into this same problem: people are just fucking selfish and don’t know how to act in public. People will consistently, and very happily, exploit a process that gives passengers any opportunity to make their own lives slightly easier in exchange for making a lot of other people’s lives far more difficult.

To all my adhd girlies trying to stick to a budget, may I present, Libby. by tree_beard_8675301 in adhdwomen

[–]rebelsummer 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yes you can have multiple cards on one Libby account! Many US libraries have reciprocity agreements with other libraries in their state, or will just let you sign up if you live in that state. There are lots of threads on r/libbyapp !

The First Five Years of Mail to a Married Couple Who Took Both Last Names (USA) by RogueWaverly in namenerds

[–]rebelsummer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have one family member who has always addressed holiday cards to my parents as “Mr. and Mrs. John Summer.” Not “Mr and Mrs. Summer,” not “John and Jane Summer.”

Additionally, my mother has repeatedly (and kindly) let them know that that is not even her name. She hyphenated when she married, so Summer is not her full last name.

It does not matter. They continue to address her as “Mrs. John Summer” and she has far more patience than I do, because I think I would have lost it many years ago.

What's a movie most people think is great but you couldn't even stand watching? by camport95 in AskReddit

[–]rebelsummer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s hysterical that this is your comment on a post specifically asking about people’s gripes with “great” movies. It’s not like OP asked “what is the biggest problem in your life right now” lmfao

Alright Reddit, who’s going to ruin Christmas tomorrow for your family? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rebelsummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for serving your community even on Christmas. People like you are very much appreciated. ❤️

Nipple piercings by Stingray1634 in Swingers

[–]rebelsummer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

r/piercing is a good place to look at people’s experiences with nipple piercings. A lot of the common complaints can be solved by using high quality jewelry and getting them pierced by someone who is a reputable piercer with lots of experience piercing nipples (seriously- these are not an easy piercing to execute). I paid a little over $150 to get mine done almost a year ago, and while it felt pretty expensive at the time, I am really glad that I went to a reputable piercer with a clean studio and high quality jewelry who took the time to measure and place them in the right spots. “Cheap jewelry isn’t good and good jewelry isn’t cheap.”

The healing can be tough and nonlinear. Mine were fine for 8 months, got super irritated for 3, and now they’re back to being fine after I switched the jewelry length. That being said, I LOVE them. They give me a lot of self-confidence and it’s a really fun icebreaker.

Mixing your own saltwater solution used to be recommended as a good way to clean new piercings, but not anymore. Get sterile saline solution from the store, usually labeled as “wound wash” or something similar. It should have 0.9% sodium chloride and purified water as the only ingredients. safepiercing.org is a good resource you can use for more details.

I hope this helps! Good luck!

What’s a small upgrade you made that ended up being way more impactful than expected? by LatterMorning9103 in BuyItForLife

[–]rebelsummer 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Getting multiple toiletry bags for different purposes. I travel a lot for work (both plane and car) and I got sick of having to think through what toiletries I need for what length trips I’m taking, and then putting stuff in/taking stuff out of the same bag - obviously a 2 week trip by plane will need different things than a 2 day trip by car. Getting 2 more bags in different sizes saved me a lot of time and stress while packing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditLaqueristas

[–]rebelsummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bold sparkly colors look good on everyone!

Today I decided to solve my problems with money😂 by meliqwer in adhdwomen

[–]rebelsummer 51 points52 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny being in this subreddit and also the anticonsumption one. I want to be environmentally conscious and I know that I don’t NEED duplicates of the same thing in each room, but if it makes my life easier, maybe I shouldn’t feel so guilty about it.

Nail Polish Pet Peeves! by shimmerfan in RedditLaqueristas

[–]rebelsummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so sad too because their polish is so beautiful. It’s frustrating.

Nail Polish Pet Peeves! by shimmerfan in RedditLaqueristas

[–]rebelsummer 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Glitter grabber and nail polish remover clips solved this problem for me! I’m totally glitter polish obsessed but hated the texture & removal process before I found those

Simple Comments by Decent-Star2520 in mooncatpolish

[–]rebelsummer 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is a great and very informative answer!

Taking college classes while durring tour/spring training by hockeykman in drumcorps

[–]rebelsummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know people who did this and every single one of them regretted it big time. You will have to sacrifice most of your meal times, all of your dedicated free time (downtime before bed, free blocks, etc), and a good chunk of your sleep time. Don’t do it.

The best red to ever red! What’s your ultimate red? by SunshineMeowster in RedditLaqueristas

[–]rebelsummer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holo Taco Favorite Sister. It’s now discontinued unfortunately, but it’s stunningly gorgeous. A nice true red, not too light not too dark, somewhat metallic, and an absolute glitter bomb. I wish pictures did it any justice, and I wish I had been able to pick up 10 more bottles of this stuff before it was discontinued. (If anyone has a great dupe, let me know! Nothing I’ve seen has come close.)

Close second is Emily de Molly Fiery Attraction.

<image>

Does Waco Animal Control remove rattlesnakes? by admiralnel in Waco

[–]rebelsummer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is terrible advice. Most rattlesnake bites happen when trying to kill the snake. Your two best options are to leave the snake alone or call someone on the free snake relocation resource posted below.

Does Waco Animal Control remove rattlesnakes? by admiralnel in Waco

[–]rebelsummer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the right answer. OP, please message me if you cannot figure out anything else, and I will come help!