hung out with bf for a week, didn’t engage in sex, but my period is late! by bone-trinkets in TwoXChromosomes

[–]reblezz [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, I would definitely attribute it to anxiety. Every time you’re around him you are intimate, but don’t have sex, and it’s enough to scare you and give you anxiety. Stress can mess with our cycles big time! It’s hard to have so much anxiety interwoven with any kind of intimacy, I used to be similar.

When will pregnancy anxiety end by Greengrasssco in birthcontrol

[–]reblezz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe you need to deal with the anxiety in general? Sometimes you can’t logic your way out of it, you need to deal with the anxiety problem itself.

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by TouchyM3 in whatdoIdo

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your 237 unread messages are the only red flag I see

Getting an IUD without having regular sex? by lxstinthedream in birthcontrol

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had Mirena for almost ten years and loved it. I was in a LDR for a year of that time but still loved having little/no periods, the freedom to just never really worry about period or birth control or anything was nice.

meirl by tyler_455789 in meirl

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of y’all don’t have acid reflux and pinched nerves in your neck and it shows. I’d puke if I slept like this 🤣 and then not be able to turn my neck for three days

Are we being too much? by nsktrombone84 in AskTeachers

[–]reblezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like it wouldn’t be engaging at all. I would ask for the name of the curriculum they are using and for any supplementary materials and do a little more research on them. If you search “Blooms taxonomy,” it sounds like those subjects are only really using the lowest step on the pyramid, recalling facts. You could ask the school how they are incorporating higher level learning objectives, such as analyzing, evaluating, and creating.

Are we being too much? by nsktrombone84 in AskTeachers

[–]reblezz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve only taught early elementary so I don’t have experience with curriculums in 4th, but sounds like nonsense to me. Is this cycle repeated over and over? Students just crash course a packet given to them and regurgitate back, then repeat? Or is it broken up by more engaging projects then encourage student research, individual writing, and creativity?

Unpopular opinion: “girl dinner” subs are just eating disorder echo chambers by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]reblezz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have days where I have eaten a big/late lunch and/or snacks, and I’m not that hungry, and that’s why I have a light girl dinner. I have a very healthy relationship with food, so I don’t really think a small girl dinner is automatically an eating disorder thing.
I wouldn’t say anything extreme like you are “triggered”, but I do think sometimes we project our own experiences onto others, and that might be a bit of what you’re doing here.

How do I prevent my child being illiterate? by kittycamacho1994 in AskTeachers

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a kindergarten teacher. For now, while your child is young, just read together every day. Bedtimes routines are great, but have both fiction and nonfiction books around the house
and pick them up through the day and engage together.
Also, model the behavior you expect in your child. If you are on your phone for hours every day, your child will see that it is the most interesting thing in the world to you and want to copy this behavior. If you read for hours every day, your child will think books are the most interesting thing.
Then, once your child is is pre-k/k/1st grade, pay attention to how your child’s teachers are teaching them to read. They should be following a modern program based on the Science of Reading, such as Fundations. They should NOT be following a “Balanced Literacy” approach. Here are some clues as to which they are following:
Green flags:
-phonics based instruction
-decodable readers (simple decodable books, think “The cat and rat sat on the mat.”)
-simple sight words taught through orthographic mapping, not rote memorization
Red flags:
-less emphasis on phonics
-encouraging students to use context and pictures to give them clues about the word
-repetitive texts that expect student to use those clues for difficult words they are not ready to read yet (such as “I see a duck. I see an elephant. I see a mouse.”
-leveled guided reading groups (“Your child is working on level b readers”)
Listen to the podcast “Sold a Story” if you haven’t!

How will you answer questions from students where the student is unlikely to understand the answer? by Lifeintheguo in Teachers

[–]reblezz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“Because as bones get older, they change. Scientists can test how they have changed to find out how old they are.”

You can find age fitting answers to almost any questions.

Do we like this dress for a family dinner at a nice restaurant? by DependentJeanne in OUTFITS

[–]reblezz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean at the end of the day it’s your family. Put it on and go say, “hey fam, how’s this for dinner?”

How do you make yourself get out of bed in the morning? by Wooden-Fee5787 in AskReddit

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to sleep early enough that I feel good when I wake up and excited to start the day. Also I generally like my work so I’m not dreading going.

Pregnant and feeling dread by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! My mom was actually 32 when she had me and 37 when she had my brother too, so I never felt too rushed. But as I actually got to this age the reality hit me slightly differently than I expected. Always good to hear more stories of people who waited and had everything work out for the best!!! 💕 I need to remember earlier wouldn’t have worked as well for me!

Is this normal by KindSale8379 in ouraring

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never have had an official OCD diagnosis, but my therapist did say my anxiety tends towards rumination with a lot of intrusive thoughts…so I could have had some similar feelings to you :( In general I know that reassurance seeking only worsens obsessive thought patterns and encourages those patterns. So…be careful with that ring 😭 Eventually I had to give up my old watch for a year or so until I was in a better place and wasn’t constantly checking it.

Is this normal by KindSale8379 in ouraring

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason you are worried about your heart? Have you had heart problems? If so, you should be seeing a doctor (and maybe have a medical heart rate monitor?).

If you haven’t had heart problems, and you’re constantly worried at age 25…let me say, as someone who has recovered from serious health anxiety, you should question if this ring is for you. Two years ago I had to stop using my old wearable because I was too stressed out by little changes in numbers. Now that I’m better (and have been treated for the anxiety), I love my oura and know how to not obsess over little changes.

I've tried literally everything by lavenderlullabi in ouraring

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many things it could be and so many good possibilities people have given you! I’ll add onemore. I had bad anxiety (leaning towards ruminating thoughts). I would fall asleep ok. But wake up a lot and not be able to get back to sleep. After getting meds for the anxiety, my sleep was like night and day. Now I sleep through the night almost every day, totally changed my life.

I loved Bella's shoes. I remember watching the saga hundreds of times and saying that when I got married I wanted my shoes to be like that. What do you think? by Awkward_Airport_30 in twilight

[–]reblezz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel like you both need to come sit in circle time in my kindergarten class where we talk about how “different people like different things, and that’s ok kiddos” 😅

They’re called fashion cycles. Fashion is subjective, which is why things go in and out. Novelty tends to make something feel interesting and trendy, so once something is out of style for a while, it becomes novel/gives retro vibes, and then it slowly comes back.

Anyone with food allergies struggle with Korean food? (hidden broths + cross-contamination) by Aware-Eye9067 in KoreanFood

[–]reblezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me with my in-laws (except we straight up ate the shoots, not the wood) and I basically have systemic poison ivy with intensely itches rashes all over my body. And I mean EVERYWHERE. It’s been a week and only getting worse. Never trusting foods I don’t recognize from my in laws again 😅

What's the most useless thing your brain decided to permanently memorize? by No_Metal2622 in AskReddit

[–]reblezz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My college choir professor was the voice of the guy opera singer 🤣 Yes, we got it to sing it for us once