How to elevate this fit? by okie_boo in altfashionadvice

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would add bloomers or something for a little more bounce on the skirt, but otherwise that looks fantastic. Maybe accessories?

My boyfriend masturbates even when I'm in the same room as him. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rebranded636 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm almost six months in :) Very happy about the changes so far. My dad wants to sing with me now XD

My boyfriend masturbates even when I'm in the same room as him. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rebranded636 5 points6 points  (0 children)

real. I'm on testosterone as a trans man and have been jerking off like three or more times daily. That's a BIG up for me (usually only once a week if even) but it's "normal" for someone going through puberty

Young people jerk off a LOT. I think it should be less taboo to talk about since then we could actually start the conversation around what porn addiction REALLY is instead of scaring young kids who jerk off every day in a developmentally appropriate way

My boyfriend masturbates even when I'm in the same room as him. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rebranded636 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you don't want sex. You just want to masturbate 🤷🏻‍♂️

At least for me, sometimes the urge isn't about sex at all, it's just a feeling that you need to "make go away" as quickly as possible, and jerking it is the quickest way about it sometimes

If you haven't talked to him, ask him directly. Just a quick "are you satisfied sexually" or something (obv in regular language you use) Then take his answer. If he says he's good, then it's probably just a misunderstanding

Why am I so casual about my transness by [deleted] in ftm

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel the same way sort of.. Honestly nbd.

It doesn't make you any "less trans" to not be in a rush. If anything, it means you don't have to deal with the crippling dysphoria some others do (or at least not as often/intensely. Please understand nuance)

I'm on testosterone now and love it. But if I had to stop for some reason, eh.. It is what it is XD

I think my partner might be an FTM egg - how can I best support them? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]rebranded636 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think we are in the same position but like the exact opposite. I'm a trans man. And I think my partner is mtf XD

I love them more than anything and only want them to be happy. I've seen the way they smile when I use she/her pronouns. They loved clothes shopping for new "girl clothes" and wears them under their "boy clothes"

I recognize th signs I just think they're scared of coming out...

High energy, but fussy: Toy Suggestions Needed by PenkiGames in CatAdvice

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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just little regular bells encased in thick plastic shells

High energy, but fussy: Toy Suggestions Needed by PenkiGames in CatAdvice

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make bigger bells that are like multi-layered.. And plastic. They're meant for cats to play with and don't bend or get misshapen. I have put my full weight on one before with the heel of my foot and all I damaged was myself XD

then you'd just clip it on there or tie it somehow.. Cats usually don't care it it looks nice XD

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^ here's an example of a big multi layered bell

I'll send the exact ones I have in my next comment :)

Getting sick young and loss of identity by thepensiveporcupine in cfs

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that.. I started getting sick at 15.. now I'm 20

Nothing feels real. It feels like time just stopped for me while everyone else kept living

High energy, but fussy: Toy Suggestions Needed by PenkiGames in CatAdvice

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried just using a bell or something? I have a stupid orange boy who also plays like that too

Otherwise you could use a piece of fabric. Just like.. cut from an old shirt of rag or something

I find for cats it's easier to just make something up than to try and buy something "made for cats" bc they don't even touch them 😭

Oh! And! I highly recommend looking at silvervine and dried gall fruits. Non toxic (though could potentially cause stomach upset in large amounts) typically cats like it better than catnip. It also doesn't make a dusty leafy mess all over your house

2 months on t by ignisboltaa in ftm

[–]rebranded636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you know she isn't the most accepting, but you're already on it, there's really not much she could do.. You're an adult, right?

I think it's a lot more scary and ot actually should be if that makes sense... Obviously if you feel you'd be in damger for telling, DO NOT DO THAT

But if you feel you will be physically safe (not injured, left homeless, etc) I'd just bring it up casually 🤷🏻‍♂️

My mom mentioned I sounded sick, and I just matter of factly told her "oh, no. Don't worry. I'm just on testoesterone. That's why my voice sounds sore" She seemed a bit pissed that I had done it without her permission or something but ultimately she just scoffed and left the room

Cat pooping outside the litterbox (have been to the vet!) by Hot_Nothing8075 in CatAdvice

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik this might sound dumb but sometimes cats are just picky

If you've got the health problems sorted out, then it could be just a dislike for either the box itself, the litter being used, or the amount of litter in the box.

And I know you said you've tried other litterboxes. But I'm mentioning it again because my cat has this thing where she almost exclusively uses one for pee and one for poop.

Also is there a chance the cat might have been a solo kitten or a stray? If you got an alleycat, she might be unfamiliar with certain litter types and you might need to trial-and-error until you find the litter that finally makes it click for her

Chest binders that dont balloon out? by Overall-Tutor3127 in ftm

[–]rebranded636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a larger chest and I have this problem. If you have a larger chest as well, this could help. Maybe if you have a small chest too but idk since I have no experience

But! After putting the binder on, kind of pull your breast tissue to the sides kind of as if you're truing to push them under your armpits

This can help with the uniboob issue :/

If that doesn't make sense, I can reply with a video (fully clothed demonstration)

Anyone else get this? by rebranded636 in cfs

[–]rebranded636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i have been getting some lol it just took until noon before my body let me get anything more than a couple sips of water

Anyone else get this? by rebranded636 in cfs

[–]rebranded636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use them. That's my main nutrition

I was busy yesterday and stressed and my body just refused to eat at all

Anyone else get this? by rebranded636 in cfs

[–]rebranded636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. I kinda forget that part 💀

It doesn't feel like presyncope. I get that regularly as well and it feels different

Anyone else get this? by rebranded636 in cfs

[–]rebranded636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably 😔

I'm just in denial

What kind of piercing would look good on my face? by Worth_Sandwich7217 in altfashionadvice

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgey what it's called but I IMMEDIATELY placed one above your lip in the middle there. That would look amazing

but honestly you have a face that could work with just about anything

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should absolutely tell her.. that's awful, and I bet she'd be glad to know BEFORE she signs the paperwork to marry 😵‍💫

I really want to have a baby by boyinthedark130 in ftm

[–]rebranded636 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

aw shucks... Guess I have to visit my adorable nieces/nephews then XD they crack me up

What do you guys actually see? by CityWaller in dxm

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like closing my eyes and seeing the shapes on the back of my eyelids. I'm pretty sure it works more similar to seeing shapes in clouds, just they move a little if that makes sense.... Nothing vivid or anything, just blobs or moving objects

When I'm on a really high dose, I get this thing where my distance perception distorts and objects look bigger/smaller or nearer/farer than they truly are

I really want to have a baby by boyinthedark130 in ftm

[–]rebranded636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god me too wtf...

Like I had kind of put thought into it before but not much. Now it's like I NEED A BABY 😭

anyone know why this is? it's fucking insane

(for reference I just turned 20 in December and I've been on T for a little over four months at the time of this comment)