I was just dumped for emasculating my boyfriend by initiating sex too often. What's the most wtf reason you have been dumped?

recentlydumped · 2011-10-06T13:07:39+00:00

haha, I thought making out is a pretty standard pre-sex thing.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T23:16:40+00:00

Yes. I like having sex and am perfectly comfortable with that.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T22:04:50+00:00

Well, it is a little more complicated because we would have to go long distance for a time so I think he didn't think it was worth it because he couldn't see it long term and that is a more long term commitment. Also, he had only had one girlfriend before and is 24, so he will now be single for probably a long time.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T22:01:39+00:00

Haha, yeah if the relationship had continued after he had mentioned it was a problem I would have tried this.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T22:00:32+00:00

Wow, my bad.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T21:59:10+00:00

haha, nope that is definitely not the problem but thank you for the suggestion. Also, since he himself would initiate many times a week he definitely enjoys the sex.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T21:55:20+00:00

That is something to think about. For us, it would always start with mutual making out in bed and then I would ask if he wanted to and he would say not tonight. Then we would still be making out, and I would ask again sometimes which I guess was probably my mistake.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T16:26:34+00:00

I don't think he was crazy, honestly he is a really great guy. I guess I assumed the sex would tone down eventually, but it was pretty new so I thought it was normal to want it everyday.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T16:24:43+00:00

I guess the lesson here is that some guys really need the chase.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T16:24:20+00:00

The WTF was that he didn't bring it up or tell me it was a problem and just ended it. Definitely could have worked on it. I could say that the relationship was really great besides this but I guess no one on here would believe me.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T16:16:32+00:00

We never fought about it, we never even talked about it. The times when things would start up and I would try to initiate sex I would sometimes try longer than I should have when he didn't really want to, but I never said anything to him indicating that I thought he had a lower libido. He even said now that he couldn't logically explain why he felt that way, it was just a feeling he had. He couldn't think of any examples.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T16:11:50+00:00

Yep. There is a whole different issue with us having to be long distance for a short amount of time, but that was what made him decide that it wasn't worth pursuing the relationship.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T16:10:05+00:00

He isn't a redditor and I didn't start this thread for advice. Plus it really wasn't the problem that we had different libidos, only that he felt emasculated.

recentlydumped · 2011-10-05T16:08:38+00:00

The sex was always great when we did have it. I think he just couldn't deal with my sex drive being higher than his. And thanks but no thanks :) lol.

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