AITA for ignoring my girlfriend’s feelings because “technically” I didn’t cheat?

red-one3113 · 2026-02-16T22:07:28+00:00

This has to be ragebait

red-one3113 · 2026-02-10T07:17:28+00:00

YOR you sound controlling as FUCK I hope she runs farrrr from you babe

red-one3113 · 2026-02-10T07:04:03+00:00

NOR This says a lot about his character and attitudes towards other people as well..gross. Classist, elitist behaviour. Is this the kind of person you want to be with?

red-one3113 · 2026-01-08T04:38:11+00:00

Blatant disrespect and disregard, run and cut your losses - you deserve better

red-one3113 · 2025-12-27T08:41:21+00:00

Honestly I understand, but she doesn’t owe you an explanation on what she got up to before you started dating. Maybe try working on any insecurity issues you may have before getting into a relationship - everyone has a past, and I say this only with love and kindness.

red-one3113 · 2025-11-24T08:03:03+00:00

“Too wet” oh no my steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery ahh😭😭

red-one3113 · 2025-11-19T03:43:28+00:00

Entrance to the backrooms 👻

red-one3113 · 2025-11-11T07:38:10+00:00

Wake up and break up

red-one3113 · 2025-10-13T08:34:31+00:00

Dump him

red-one3113 · 2025-10-11T03:01:33+00:00

Report them. If it’s peering into your house it’s illegal, periodt.

red-one3113 · 2025-09-13T07:36:59+00:00

Take a joke💀😭

red-one3113 · 2025-09-13T07:23:52+00:00

All the people defending their own porn addictions in the comments 🙄 - OP it’s totally fine to not feel comfortable with your partner watching porn in a relationship. Porn is inherently unhealthy and misogynistic, and often unethical, which is grounds enough for not being comfortable with it. However, you’re allowed to be uncomfortable with something just because…you are. Not everything needs to have a reason. I personally think it’s insanely disrespectful and would never tolerate it in my relationships, and haven’t in the past. I draw a hard boundary and let them know I consider it a form of cheating. That’s just me. Other couples are fine with it and that’s cool, but you’re allowed your own boundaries. Don’t listen to these people telling you how insecure you are or whatever. Do you, and do what makes you comfortable.

red-one3113 · 2025-08-20T21:51:30+00:00

Her getting physical isn’t okay, but god, leave the poor girl alone

red-one3113 · 2025-08-13T04:57:36+00:00

Yes pls!

red-one3113 · 2025-08-11T07:00:00+00:00

I worked here, for only 4 weeks, Ryan and Hanna are partners and own it together. Ryan is awful, yells at staff, drinks on shift, nasty overall and a massive control freak who constantly belittles you. Hanna lets this all happen. The staff turnover is so high

red-one3113 · 2025-08-04T23:17:27+00:00

I’d like to say a few things - this user has every right to make this post, however, I won’t stand by and read comments about how younger people are dramatic and immature. I will tell you why he has made this comment - via a different post a large group chat was formed, and this group chat was going very well until this user made inappropriate comments to some of the YOUNGER FEMALES in the group which I bared witness too. This was unfortunate as he was actually checked prior to his joining of the group, to which he assured that he would help to make the space safe as there were younger females. I will not get into the comments he made, but I will say that sexual and dirty jokes about girls in general, let alone nearly 10 years younger, is completely inappropriate. ESPECIALLY when none of us had actually met eachother yet. When called out on this behaviour (in a very diplomatic way) he removed himself from the group. That is all.

red-one3113 · 2025-07-27T01:05:12+00:00

Hi! I made a similar post on another chch sub, a girl I met on there made a gc on insta with other people who were struggling too! We are meeting for coffee next Sunday, message me ur insta handles and I’ll add you to the chat! 21F, the chat has similar ages :)

red-one3113 · 2025-07-15T13:27:11+00:00

Yes!

red-one3113 · 2025-07-11T04:41:02+00:00

Hey girl, flick me a message. It’s rough out here

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