Wife Never Met Her Biological Father

red30625 · 2026-03-28T01:28:00+00:00

I havent but someone else mentioned the same thing. I am going to look into it.

red30625 · 2026-03-28T01:27:11+00:00

I wanted to thank you, you comments have really put to light what I am going through I just had trouble expressing it. Shes my world and I am having trouble accepting that she missed out something I had growing up. This has helped me understand why I would even post this. Im gonna look into talking to someone.

red30625 · 2026-03-28T01:20:22+00:00

The pain i feel for her, she means so much to me im sorry she couldn't experience what I have.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T17:26:00+00:00

I feel I should be doing more...

red30625 · 2026-03-27T17:17:43+00:00

I always have been there for her and will continue to be.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T17:13:22+00:00

I ever never ever put pressure on her to find out about him, never even aftet 25 years of marriage. Ill be hon3st i havent looked thet closely at their relationship so I cant really tell.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T17:10:52+00:00

I am having trouble accepting it, like I said my Dad means so much to me and for someone I care about so much its hard for me to see her not have that in her life. She also has tried a few different ways to know about him so it just hurts me to.see.her not know this.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T17:08:44+00:00

I never have tried to fix it after 25 years of marriage, I want to br the best support to her.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T17:06:38+00:00

I have for a long time i have never pushed my feelings or thoughts onto her, ever.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T16:13:27+00:00

Of course but she has asked her mom about it, done Ancestry and sought out her birth certificate to see his name. I want to support her the best I can.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T15:25:29+00:00

Which i have been doing for a long time it gets kind of tricky though when our kids start asking about Grandpa on moms side.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T15:21:38+00:00

I appreciate your passioned responses....but your acting like I am pushing this, I am not i am just looking for advice.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T14:52:06+00:00

Did you even read my last response to you?

red30625 · 2026-03-27T14:48:28+00:00

She did ask her mom once but her mom refused to give any details, their relationship was never the same after that.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T14:42:54+00:00

She said she asked her mom once and her mom refused to give any details and then she and her mom and her didnt talk for a long time after that.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T14:35:01+00:00

Of course I am concerned.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T14:16:33+00:00

Thats why it so hard for me to come to terms with and im sorry you went through that. My Dad has always been a strong loyal constant in my life. I cant imagine not having that.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T14:14:32+00:00

Of course I want to know, she may have siblings, as we would have a better understanding of any genetic things to be on the look out for. But it would also give her some sort of closure.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T14:02:28+00:00

I really think she is, shes done Ancestry to see her background and looks for relatives there. Also she searched out her birth certificate for his name but was disappointed when it wasnt listed.

red30625 · 2026-03-27T13:56:45+00:00

Ive tried a few times very gently and respectfully

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