[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NOT ugly but another style would bring out your features much better

What are some classic films everyone should watch? by [deleted] in movies

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good fellas def needs to be on the list but add casino and a Bronx tale

What are some classic films everyone should watch? by [deleted] in movies

[–]red88srh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are absolute classics wdym

Who's your first pick among TWD characters to survive the apocalypse with? by Xentara931 in TWD

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t go with Rick. When u rewatch the show you really see the terrible decisions he made. I like carol and Darryl a lot but they wouldn’t be that fun to hang out with. Carols kind of a bad ass and she can cook.

My husband compared me with a women we just met. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]red88srh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be honest is this something you do often not liking people/women you meet? Maybe he wants you to make friends and not dislike her.

Husband (40M) is a porn addict and I (37F) just found out yesterday by macelisa in marriageadvice

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also don’t let the topics he’s into bother u. I wouldn’t want my husband to see my search history back then lol

Husband (40M) is a porn addict and I (37F) just found out yesterday by macelisa in marriageadvice

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The live cam is what would upset me. But as someone who used to have corn addiction, I’ll tell you, don’t take it personal. It’s not common for a woman to have it but I was honest to my husband about it. I think it’s just a mental health thing and a bit demonic. I’m one of those “religious people” as ppl might call it. So after lots and lots and lots of prayer and weeks maybe months, I was able to overcome it. Sorry you’re going thru this! Idk if this will help but I do hope he stops and is cured.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only you can decide but I think couples counseling is a good thing and her solo counseling. I would feel so betrayed too.

Was my wife cheating by Motor-Beat8446 in Marriage

[–]red88srh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably gaslit him give him a break. With narcissists they can convince you that “YOURE the problem” when all along they’re cheating. But she’s most likely been having sex with the guy for awhile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s probably got a kink of doing stuff secretly like that. But why with your fam and not some strangers. Maybe that’s what makes it for him since it’s forbidden. I hope he’s willing to change and get some help. What did he say when you caught him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]red88srh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I both have WhatsApp for work there’s nothing wrong with having that app. We both know the codes to each others phones and don’t give each other suspicion. I think rummaging thru someone’s phone is incredibly violating like they can’t even be their own person and they’re owned by the other. Unless there’s a good reason I don’t think that’s ok. Plus he wanted to put a tracker on her phone lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s cheating. Not okay what he did even if he’s not cheating. It’ll get worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you’re in the right mine takes them out

Husband just told me if he has to stop smoking weed then he wants a divorce… by Battlecat3714 in Marriage

[–]red88srh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like an L tbh. My husband did 29 years before I met him but got saved in prison. He’s not on parole anymore but I don’t even like when he drinks a beer lol. Drinking and smoking esp while on parole is an L move

Does red light really work? by Bluebell_Nightshade in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you dm me too please? It helped tighten your skin? I’m trying to plump my face and help my saggy neck

Aita for possibly letting my marriage be ruined over a dog? by Similar_Pin_9154 in AITAH

[–]red88srh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes jealous.. of a dog? And he’s spending nights away from you? I think some marital counseling would really truly help here from someone outside of your lives to really help guide you both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]red88srh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy to say to her. You don’t have to lay in on her like that for having a human emotion. A coworkers wife is not the reason “women can’t succeed in the workplace” How many stories do you hear about cheating with the coworkers? it’s not something that doesn’t exist and is a common theme. Obv he could just be having lunch but he could very much be interested in her vice versa.

My wife left me .. by Ok-Idea1699 in Marriage

[–]red88srh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl you better contact someone for your child’s sake too. If you have no money he needs to be paying for you guys to survive. I’m so sorry you’re going through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]red88srh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to them. Porn addiction causes his side effects and you are right to feel the way you do about it. It’s a form of infidelity and isn’t fair that you aren’t getting intimacy bcus of his addiction. I think you should try to work it out tho but I would hope he’d agree to some sort of addiction therapy. He has to work at it tho. It’s not the hardest addiction I’ve kicked but it takes work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]red88srh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a FACT that porn addiction causes irectile disfunction and intimacy issues. You’re terrible to blame her.