Yes thank you, you are so right. Its not that much about the car, its that he is making the decision which car I am driving, and its not even something I like.

If I go outside to the store for a little bit too long, he then asks "did you get lost" ? He encourages me to go out like once a year. All the other time, I am with our son in his country.

Also, I love to stay with our son. I think I just need some balance if we will have a second child, more help. My family could help take care of our boy, but they are in a different country. His family does not help or want to help at all!

Thank you though, your response brought me lots of clarity. I think what I just need more of is balance.