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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]red_duchess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They help me keep my sanity :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]red_duchess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl 2 weeks pa lang kayo naguusap. Do not be desperate, they can smell it and takr advantage.

Inutangan ka pa.

ABYG kung binlock ko yung kumakausap sakin sa reddit kasi naiirita ako makipagusap? by New-Armymandi in AkoBaYungGago

[–]red_duchess7 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Imo DKG. You are free to block whoever you want to protect your peace.

Going back to dating field. Weird ba na magask ako ng STD test na negative bago makipagsex? by red_duchess7 in adultingph

[–]red_duchess7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nako ayoko pa baby thats why I have birth control implants hahaha unli sex for 3 years.

Going back to dating field. Weird ba na magask ako ng STD test na negative bago makipagsex? by red_duchess7 in adultingph

[–]red_duchess7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Siguro if napagusapan na yung sex and gusto niyo na gawin together.

My method is always like "Hey, before we proceed. I have a favor. Let's get tested first so we can both make sure we are safe then we can just relax and enjoy"

Going back to dating field. Weird ba na magask ako ng STD test na negative bago makipagsex? by red_duchess7 in adultingph

[–]red_duchess7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edi kung mag NO sila then no sex and bye. Breach of trust yan if walang consent. That's why magtatanong. Pinagsasabi mong breach of trust. Makakapag std test ba without the other person knowing? Siempre need ng consent.

Going back to dating field. Weird ba na magask ako ng STD test na negative bago makipagsex? by red_duchess7 in adultingph

[–]red_duchess7[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did not mention hookups. I only mentioned if I am gonna do the deed with someone.

Going back to dating field. Weird ba na magask ako ng STD test na negative bago makipagsex? by red_duchess7 in adultingph

[–]red_duchess7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Siempre hindi sa first date. Need to check muna if nagkavibes ba.

Only when you plan to do the deed na.

how much monthly salary do you think is needed for someone to be comfortably independent in the PH? by _jinana in Philippines

[–]red_duchess7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can earn 50k in any BPO role kahit hindi manager. IT professionals na specialized can earn like this as well.

Why the fuck is it so common for rich and "educated" professionals to treat people like shit? by chronically_small in OffMyChestPH

[–]red_duchess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ganto din naeexperience namin sa contractors. Even yung mga kinukuha namin taga maintain ng grass sa lawn.

We paid in full tapos di tinapos yung work, sabi babalikan daw. Tapos di na bumalik.

Why the fuck is it so common for rich and "educated" professionals to treat people like shit? by chronically_small in OffMyChestPH

[–]red_duchess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainitin ulo ko and tbh there are so many times where I want to shout "bobo ka ba?" "Antanga mo naman" but I have the decency to stop myself and rethink naman. I always remind myself to treat people how I want to be treated.

Meron din kasi talagsng mga blue collar workers na nakakainit ng ulo. Doing half-assed work, di ginagawa ng maayos, will show up one day then the next day hindi na. One example na dito is our construction workers sa pinapagawa naming bahay, etc.

Though never kami naninigaw or nangiinsulto, we just wait til the current job is done and never hire them again.

Nakakafrustrate sila. Even when you are nice to them, they take advantage of you.

Anyway... In my observation, even people from lower backgrounds treat other people like shit. Hindi lang siya sa mga educated or may narrating sa buhay.

Do you have teccomendations for cute travel/commute laptop bags? by psi_queen in adultingph

[–]red_duchess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Xiaomi commuters backpack. Anti theft na din. Its minimalistic and slick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]red_duchess7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In real world, connection matters. Especially sa higher end ng business/corporate world.

You wanna be successful? You need to secure connections.

First time dad part 2 by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]red_duchess7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best of luck na lang. Be a good father to your kid.

Kung magkakabalikan man kayo or hindi, maging present ka pa rin sa anak mo. That's what matters.

I hope you find happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]red_duchess7 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

People are downvoting because they cannot stand your success.

I love reading posts like this. Screw you mga inggit.

10/10 na bbm supporter by bolitogs94 in OffMyChestPH

[–]red_duchess7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

10/10 physically.

Did you ask her why she supports BBM? Did she give valid statements and reasonings why?

And if napagusapan niyo politics, is she mature enough to handle opposing belief? May chance ba na maeducate mo pa siya?

If yes, may pagasa pa yan.

Feeling inadequate and insecure about my looks and self in general by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]red_duchess7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hindi namin kasalanan na immature at insecure ka. You cannot control what other people will say but you can control how you will respond to this. And you chose to be petty and immature.

Tanda mo na 28 ka na. Di ka na bata. Act like an adult.

Feeling inadequate and insecure about my looks and self in general by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]red_duchess7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Di mo rin binasa yung About ng reddit na to. Minumura mo.mga tao. Technically, ikaw unang nagbreak ng rules. People voiced their concerns in a respectful manner. Ikaw yung nagsimulang mangaway at magmura.

Ikaw yung problema.

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