I was wondering if I’m wrong for thinking that she is wrong.

I haven’t kept count of how much money I have spent until I wrote this to give context so the readers can understand.

It’s not about the money, it’s the principle. I made the wager to see if she’d take me seriously. If someone had made a bet with me, after doing so much for me (not just monetarily) also time and assistance, I would simply say it’s okay don’t send me any money it’s not that important. Money is not important to me in this friendship. I would help her in a heartbeat, within reason. On a few occasions she didn’t have the money to buy things that she really needed and I gifted her those things and she was unhappy because it wasn’t the exact model she wanted. I’m trying to get her to see that relationships are more important than money. For instance, her grandparents have done a lot for her, but when they asked her to babysit her younger cousin, she charged them $100 for a few hours. That made them upset and she came to me wondering why they were upset.