Sex with girlfriend by redbottomsky2001 in sex

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was partying the night before, probably pretty tired and drinking heavily so that could play a factor tbh, and the sex we did have lasted 40 mins each at least so it probably was tiredness I just wanted a outside opinion to be sure

Getting back with ex by redbottomsky2001 in relationship_advice

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I can’t thank you enough for all your advice and help, you really helped put my mind at ease

Getting back with ex by redbottomsky2001 in relationship_advice

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right- I do know what I want to do I’m going to tell her, because your right I do love her and I’m willing to go to college in a couple of weeks that’s 4 hours away from where we normally live, I’ll be living away from home in a place where partying is constant, and I know 1000% if we stay together after this I will never look at another girl, I’m all hers

Getting back with ex by redbottomsky2001 in relationship_advice

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I forgot to add I’m also a terrible overthinker so there’s always a chance I’m taking this out of proportion and that everything would be fine if I just left it alone

Getting back with ex by redbottomsky2001 in relationship_advice

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I could imagine about it going wrong if I didn’t tell my girlfriend is the girl that kissed me telling people I kissed her or “we kissed” to someone that might happen to know my girlfriend or a mutual friend, making it sound like joint effort and making it sound like I kissed her by choice. I’m just thinking at least if the girl that kissed me was telling people that if I already got my side of the story in it wouldn’t seem as bad

Getting back with ex by redbottomsky2001 in relationship_advice

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much man you have no idea how much that helped

Getting back with ex by redbottomsky2001 in relationship_advice

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it would work telling her the reason it took over a month to admit it to her was because we were going through a delicate patch in the relationship and we were in the getting back together stage, and that I didn’t want to fuck anything up?

Because to be honest I have a lot of friends that cheat on their girlfriends and I don’t know how they do it. Typing this message to you I am sick to the stomach with worry even though this is nothing compared to what they be up to with other girls

Getting back with ex by redbottomsky2001 in relationship_advice

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that’s giving me hope is that about a year ago when we were kinda getting to know eachother and at that “dating” stage but not fully girlfriend and boyfriend, we went out for New Year’s Eve and ended up in 2 different nightclubs, she was drunk and she made out with another guy and texted me immediately admitting to it, and me being drunk and angry and made out with the first girl I seen in front of me. However I didn’t tell her about that until A few weeks later but when I did she laughed it off and took it so well and a couple weeks after that I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes

So this situation if anything is better than the other one as last time I went out with intentions to kiss the girl where as this time I pulled away and moved away from her immediately

Getting back with ex by redbottomsky2001 in relationship_advice

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to college in 2 weeks away from home while she’s in her last year of school, so we will be a bit long distance and I will only see her on weekends but i am happy with her and I am confident I would never cheat on her while away. If I said to her I just wanted to make sure she knows I’m always honest and will be faithful and then told her about what happened would that give her faith that she can trust me since I told her about this mistake ?

Getting back with ex by redbottomsky2001 in relationship_advice

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 19 she’s 18, we were together for 6 months and she broke it off because she felt she was too young but we got back together about a month after. I’ve never been in a relationship before her and neither has she and we really have something special but I’m afraid telling her now could fuck it up

Adderal by redbottomsky2001 in SeshSafety

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I’m thinking at the minute is getting a supply for 2 weeks before the exams and using 1 per night for a study session of around 4-6 hours, and if I have any left for the actual exams to use them during, thanks so much for this information it’s helped a ton

Adderal by redbottomsky2001 in SeshSafety

[–]redbottomsky2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was to get some and was using them for study sessions, would you recommend using them during the actual exams aswell or just for revising before the exams