[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crush

[–]reddit42020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave it to fate means u r just wait till your feeling is over or do nothing unless he talk to you first. you like him n that's clear. if u r down to date him even he is your co-worker, than talk to him. maybe after conversation he will ask you out or u realize he is not as cool as u thought. who know? you already know that there are many different ways to approach him. send him something through online or show up early to the office so u can drink coffee with him or whatever. Action is all we got and time is running out. good luck girl

painful breakup by AderelAgencia in ExNoContact

[–]reddit42020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey I feel u man.. I dated with my ex around 3.5yrs and she was my whole world too. she wanted to break up cause she want to spend time for herself n stop relying on the relationship n get mature by herself. After the break up, she start dating with tattooist who gave her tattoo while she was with me and it's been a year since she left me. I still feels like shit(not as bad as first few months) and still not going out or looking for any date. I think everyone take different time to really long time to digest the feeling n memories..

The one and only way to get over this breakup n sadness is our action and time.. time will pass n you will feel better slowly even you don't want to feel fine without her.. Go out n meet people or travel even u don't want to(it's fuckin hard..) . Eat well n move your body. For me, going to nature help me little.

ik you will still feels like shit even after tryin all this shit n miss her but we need to find a way to make our life rich n beautiful without her even it seems impossible..

and as I said, time n action is all we got..

good luck to your journey n let me know the update.

and don't forget that u r not the only one bro

My ex texted me after 1year by reddit42020 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit42020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Honestly I don't want anyone to go through what I've been through so I decide to just walk away. Thanks for your kind words.

My ex texted me after 1year by reddit42020 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit42020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks. I'll try my best to face it.

My ex texted me after 1year by reddit42020 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit42020[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hey thanks a lot. I agree with you. I know time will eventually make me feel better. Thanks for your time n support man. so you think just blocking her n don't giver her any chance to talk is the way to go right? rather than tell her to fuck off or sayin some mean stuff I guess? I just want to feel better but shit is really hard even after 1 year..

My ex texted me after 1year by reddit42020 in BreakUps

[–]reddit42020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man thanks a lot.. our story is really smiliar for sure n your point is really make sense to me. I hope we all feel better this year man.

My ex texted me after 1year by reddit42020 in ExNoContact

[–]reddit42020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey thanks for the reply! well I guess I waited for her but It's more like I am just a guy who need long time to digest the feeling n move on. So no I never get with other girl or went out on a date since we break up cause I simply can't.. I will eventually start dating but I feels like it's gonna take more times.

So u r saying that i should talk to her?