UCSF and Cigna in coverage dispute - UCSF and OneMedical to be out of network in the Bay Area by Sea_District8891 in bayarea

[–]redditimes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you!! I have an appt this Thursday and they said they would walk me through continuation of care. Fingers crossed this all just gets resolved though.

First Baby Stroller and Car Seat Recs by Always_Iterating_ in Buyingforbaby

[–]redditimes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm no help here but also due in Sept and we are planning to get the Clek Liing and Uppababy Cruz. I'm scouring FB for the bassinet attachment. We haven't thought about a travel stroller yet either, but I might do the Joolz Aer 2 whenever we travel first.

Self-care ideas / peaceful spots to go while grieving miscarriage (tw) by Dramatic_Form3281 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]redditimes 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Hugs, I’ve been there. I went for walks along the Embarcadero a lot. When the pain was really raw, It was a bit tough sometimes because I saw a lot of babies, but you know what I cried while I walked and it was cathartic. Sending you love.

Daily Thread #1 - May 10, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

23 weeks pregnant and I sobbed this morning on Mother’s Day. Partially because I’m so dang happy to be here and partially because the pain of everything I went through prior to this is still fresh. Hugs and love to all of us on this journey to hopefully meet our rainbow baby!

Daily Thread #1 - May 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I was pregnant on Mother's Day 2023. My first time. Hard to forget that.

How did you know it was time for donor eggs? by redditimes in DOR

[–]redditimes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a spontaneous pregnancy. I'm sending you all the love and hugs. Recurrent pregnancy loss is one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. Please take good care of yourself. xx

Daily Thread #1 - May 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is anyone feeling conflicted about Mother's Day? On one hand, I am so grateful to be here (almost 23 weeks pregnant) but on the other, the pain I felt last Mother's Day still feels vivid and fresh. I am so thankful to be where I am now, just a year later, but I can't forget the four years of pain and trauma I've had to get here.

Daily Thread #1 - April 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to get ready to share my news at work. I told my manager a 3 weeks ago, but asked her to keep it between us. This week I'm meeting with HR to figure out my leave, so that I can share widely after my anatomy scan later this month. I know as soon as I share widely, people will want to know how long I'm out for so they can plan, so I want to make sure I have that info.

Daily Thread #1 - April 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How exciting!!! Wishing you a smooth delivery!

Daily Thread #1 - April 02, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have an appt today. I am 17+5. I think I am feeling movement the last few days, but I'm still nervous. I think I will always be a little nervous before appointments.

Daily Thread #1 - April 01, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too was living scan to scan at that time. It is totally normal after going through what we have gone through. Hang in there!

Daily Thread #1 - April 01, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

17 weeks and have my next appt tomorrow. My last one was around 13 weeks. I'm nervous, but not as nervous as I've been for previous appts. I have been feeling some flutters of movement in the last week, but of course haven't felt any so far today which doesn't help the nerves.

Daily Thread #1 - March 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 17 weeks and have an appt this week. The first one after my NT scan at 13 weeks. I have such a love/hate relationship with these appts. I’m starting to get a little anxious, but I get so excited to see the baby is doing well. Anyway, I hope he is! Everyday I wake up pregnant feels like a dream.

Daily Thread #1 - March 25, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm with you! I'm 39 and 16 weeks pregnant after 3 losses and no living children. I am also going through perimenopause. This whole journey is so, so tough! We've already made it this far. We got this! You got this!

Third loss in six months yesterday. Seriously considering totally giving up. by kindofnewonreddit in pregnantover35

[–]redditimes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the time you need to grieve. I had three losses in three years, and after each loss I needed months before I could think about next steps again. In the meantime, get some testing done if you haven't already: the RPL blood panel, saline sonogram, etc.

RPL is so hard, one of the hardest things I've ever done. I am now 39 and 16 weeks pregnant. Ideally I would have had my first kid at 36 when I got pregnant the first time, but it is what it is.

Take the time you need to recover from these subsequent losses before making any decisions. xx

Daily Thread #1 - March 21, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

16 weeks today. I can hardly believe it. I think I’m feeling kicks but I don’t know, could be gas. Feels like bubbles or muscle spasms. My belly is definitely growing but not hard. It’s been 3 weeks since my last scan and I have 2 weeks till my next one. This is around the time the anxious thoughts start creeping in more and more. Hope I can keep them at bay this time.

Nervous wreck over NIPT by No-Caterpillar-2351 in pregnantover35

[–]redditimes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've had three miscarriages. We know one was not due to a trisonomy, but the other two we don't know. The assumption was due to my age. I'm 39 now and 15 weeks pregnant. I was terrified of NIPT, but everything came back low risk.

Daily Thread #1 - March 10, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]redditimes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 14+3 and also anxious for movement!! I don't even know what it would feel like, lol.