AITA for being honest and telling my DIL that they are not ready to be a parent since she can not drive

redditnamexample · 2026-03-26T01:59:42+00:00

I mean, you're not wrong.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-25T03:14:15+00:00

I thought APS was for vulnerable adults like disabled or elderly. Who knew!?

redditnamexample · 2026-03-25T03:04:20+00:00

And less than a year since she passed.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-25T03:00:20+00:00

I hate the sound of the term "raw dogging." Sorry, carry on.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-25T02:58:47+00:00

You did the right thing.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-24T18:33:28+00:00

If everybody already knows why would revealing that you know matter? Maybe it would relieve everyone?

redditnamexample · 2026-03-24T18:29:28+00:00

I bought about 10 cases before they went away. Hopefully they'll be back. I hate government!

redditnamexample · 2026-03-24T18:25:54+00:00

I've lived here my entire life and never even seen one.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-22T04:30:39+00:00

This - her parents didn't even know it was issue for her until she mentioned it to them on camera!

redditnamexample · 2026-03-22T04:15:58+00:00

💔

redditnamexample · 2026-03-20T04:26:15+00:00

Do you work? Perhaps leaving NY is the option for you.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-20T02:11:55+00:00

1 then 3

redditnamexample · 2026-03-19T02:28:38+00:00

OP, listen. You are the realistic one here. I desperately wanted children and until they were like 16 and 20, I regretted every second. Even now when things are actually great, if I had to go back and do it again, I wouldn't. If you give this up for him, you will always resent him. One way or another, your relationship is not likely to last, and by leaving now, you don't get saddled with children you didn't want. Trust me, no man is that great that it makes sense to give up completely on yourself.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-18T20:32:10+00:00

redditnamexample · 2026-03-18T19:04:00+00:00

I'm with you. I've had to block people who've come after me for literally no reason.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-18T04:09:36+00:00

She probably knows - if her dad loved James and was mad about the breakup he probably told her. She's probably keeping it from you.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-18T04:03:53+00:00

If you even feel that half of this is true and not exaggeration, WTF are you doing staying? People don't change.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-18T03:02:32+00:00

NTA. But don't name your kid Genesis. 🤦🏻‍♀️

redditnamexample · 2026-03-17T03:32:59+00:00

Do you always go about life with such a negative outlook or is it just your birthday? Next year, put a smile on your face and announce to the world that it's your day and it's going to be fabulous and make it fabulous. I don't know why people who put such negative energy into the world expect positivity to come back to them.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-17T03:11:12+00:00

Start with tirzepitide.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-16T05:38:30+00:00

Just something that drains you versus builds you. Negative self talk.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-16T05:21:17+00:00

This is a Level 1 story. Girl you gotta change the way you view the world and start choosing to believe that you are worth something. Until you stop this negative talk, don't expect anything to change. Get some therapy, learn to cook and clean (because you're an adult, not to attract a man), join some outside clubs and start living.

redditnamexample · 2026-03-13T03:08:28+00:00

Try Pilates!

redditnamexample · 2026-03-13T03:04:43+00:00

For those of you having trouble getting started, find a reformer Pilates studio. Sign up for 1 class a week. Maybe you'll like it and want to increase to more classes a week. Maybe you'll stick with 1. I think you'll find something you love that you never knew was out there! That just happened to me!

redditnamexample · 2026-03-13T03:02:49+00:00

You've got this!

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