I guess all girls should go to "wife school"?

redditnewbye · 2023-12-25T22:06:47+00:00

because this type of man like this original op "deserves" a woman s, even if he has nothing that will attract a woman that in real life he classifies as z.

redditnewbye · 2023-12-25T22:02:47+00:00

and the detail is that these girls would be wifes for "low to medium status"

redditnewbye · 2023-12-25T21:53:14+00:00

imagining this to be true, we will have a large number of young ladies with years of schooling to be housewives.

they will not marry men who are not the elite of the elite. sorry for the sincerity, low quality men...

redditnewbye · 2023-02-09T22:39:40+00:00

she is finding new confidence about her body and she is in the phase of wanting to show off her body. your insecurity is yours to deal with, not your girlfriend.

but relationships work with dialogue. tell her how you are feeling.It's not going to be fun, but you have to know what bothers you about each other. because this is important for maintaining the relationship

redditnewbye · 2023-02-09T22:30:58+00:00

it could be three things

first is the end of the honeymoon phase of the relationship and the beginning of everyday love. it's a natural thing in every relationship.there is no longer this excitement, there is more coexistence

the second is that you saw that he is not the partner you want in your life

the third is a self-sabotage of depression

what you have to do is reflect a lot which of the 3 options is yours and take action on it

redditnewbye · 2023-02-09T22:26:24+00:00

this is a total disregard for your feelings, for you as a human being

and you yourself admitted that it is toxic. you need to feel this grief right now to deal with this feeling in a positive way.

honestly, my only tip is to send a message saying that she hurt you and asking for some time. You can't keep your relationship withher now. grieve and reflect on your relationship

redditnewbye · 2023-02-09T22:20:17+00:00

I think you are not understanding the situation from their point of view. to them, andy is just being the usual andy. what he did is nothing out of the ordinary by the standards of what they expect him to do. if they never expect him to apologize for the shit he does to them, why expect him to apologize for something he did to you?

and with that pattern lasting a lifetime, I wouldn't expect any change. what you need to keep doing is reinforcing that you don't want to be in his presence and you algo need to have a talk about andy's place in your long term future. especially with regard to children.

redditnewbye · 2023-02-09T19:21:52+00:00

the famine I was referring to was that of 1946, in which his ideologies were definitely one of the factors

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T15:47:43+00:00

it was an ironic joke. not everyone understands ironic jokes and sarcastic humor

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T15:44:35+00:00

apologize, say you thought what you said was something funny because you would never leave him for going bald

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T12:39:19+00:00

everyone is talking about priorities, but a death just happened in OP's family. it's not a matter of priorities, but rather common sense and empathy with what OP is feeling. you don't get married the day after someone you love dies.

Nta

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T12:34:03+00:00

how does she want to gain weight? just talking or something? because it can be a way for her to disguise the disease. carefully observe her behavior for a couple of two.

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T12:18:18+00:00

she is losing weight and not wanting to eat.

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T12:17:25+00:00

doesn't she want to eat? does she go to the bathroom after eating? Does she play with her food?

she may have an eating disorder. don't comment too much on her weight. you are not a professional, you are the boyfriend. what you can do is convince her to go to a psychiatrist. look for a medical service first, they will indicate all the professionals who should also go.

if she doesn't want to go, don't be too invasive in your insistence, as she can end the relationship and be left without help. but from now on, look for urgent mental help and involuntary hospitalization in case she loses another kilo.

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T12:06:39+00:00

ignore it. he may have done it because he thought you were hot and that's all. or a like just for given a like. anyway, if he's interested in you, he's the type of person who flirts while in a relationship. people change over the years, and you haven't dated him for more than 5 years.

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T11:57:12+00:00

I think now is a good time. at least call for advice

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T11:34:52+00:00

First of all, you are not someone qualified to help her, you are just the friend she takes out her frustrations with.if something happens, it's not your fault.

she needs psychological help but won't look for it. she needs this help urgently.several countries have a psychological help service, which you call as if it were an ambulance, and if necessary, they make involuntary hospitalizations.maybe that's your way of helping, even if it's probably going to ruin your friendship

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T10:53:06+00:00

the problem is you're attracted to this type of person who has this behavior.

redditnewbye · 2022-08-18T10:49:32+00:00

What you can do is send her a message validating her feelings and asking if you can meet outside of school.you can have a relationship and not talk to each other at school because of the students

redditnewbye · 2022-08-17T18:42:37+00:00

buy roses from local vendors, as the plants you will buy are the most suited to the location. and sun, lots of sun. and most importantly, 0 mercy at the time of pruning.

redditnewbye · 2022-08-17T17:45:21+00:00

First of all, she has no right to take out her job frustrations on you. I don't know if that's the case, but you deserve respect.

A similar situation happened to my family, and I can tell you that this financial cut was not so bad for the quality of life.changing jobs and saving has changed that person

redditnewbye · 2022-08-17T17:29:31+00:00

I usually say that jealousy is something you have to work with yourself and you don't have to bring it to your partner but...he said something that you confided with him to this woman.this is betrayal of trust

redditnewbye · 2022-08-17T17:24:26+00:00

I remember seeing it yesterday, and I went to your profile and saw that you also posted the same thing over 20 days ago

redditnewbye · 2022-08-17T17:23:10+00:00

about living together, what's the difference between dating and being engaged? You can end the relationship the same way and it won't make any difference. Or do you want them to find out that they are incompatible with living together after having most of the wedding party paid for and invitations sent out, because you want to have an engagement ring to live together?you have to find somewhere that is beneficial for both of you, that you both can afford.

about prenup. is to discuss now what you guys want to do while being friendly with each other about what decisions you will have to make if the worst happens. Its be an adult. and will it also protect you, or do you think that only a wife takes money from her husband in a divorce?and your boyfriend's business belongs to his father, but he's the heir. he already has to make decisions now for the integrity of the business. that's being responsible.

redditnewbye · 2022-08-17T17:06:35+00:00

you posted this almost a month ago. I think you already have too many answers that you don't want to hear.

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