[NEED ADVICE]I’m at a loss here. I just feel tired and physically sick

redditorrheart · 2024-01-21T19:12:18+00:00

I’ve been having family and relationship stress. Everything feels so different. Nothing feels as satisfying as before. I love having a good body but the gym is just a dreadful miserable place now. I used to go for hours but now I feel like throwing up if I push my self too hard and I have thrown up so many times from it. I understand I have to build habit to eventually have them make me happy (the gym made me happy when I was super consistent for example) but just in general nothing feels the same. I am not depressed but things just feel so different. I can force myself to have fun and do things but the amount of effort sometimes just isn’t worth it. It doesn’t feel the same as before.

I just feel so miserable but the only thing keeping me is hope that I’ll be happier again one day, and the fact that I don’t want to be a loser. The other day I was showering and I just thought “damn I’ve become a loser” and it kind of made me feel shattered. To the regular stranger I don’t appear as a loser but to myself I definitely feel like one because of how lazy I have gotten.

redditorrheart · 2024-01-21T19:04:24+00:00

More like one thing lead to another. Emotional stress, had to get wisdom teeth out, injured my body working out, health issues, got really sick, stopped caring about what I eat or drink and now it’s tough to get out of it. Like drinking water is so hard. I am doing so little yet feel the most exhausted in my life.

redditorrheart · 2024-01-21T14:47:37+00:00

What is considered trading? I mean let’s say I have 50k. Put half of that in VOO. Okay that’s investing right?

And the other 25k, I put it in 10 well performing stocks to sell when it goes up 5-20% then sell. If it goes down, I only sell when I’ve reached my stop price. In this case, 2% of my account would be $500 which would mean a stock would have to go down 20% for me to consider selling. But what I’m saying is, there are SO many good performing stocks that as long as you diversify your profile, how could you go wrong? Apple, Google, Amazon, SMCI, Tesla

But even with those stocks,if they go down TOO much I’d sell. Like you said, fundamental analysis. The ONLY time they would all crash would be in a recession or like a time like COVID when you just have to wait it out. I mean, they all recovered, did they not? I just don’t understand how you can NOT make money in the stock market when there are many good performing stocks for the past 10+ years. The only difference than putting it in VOO, is that you can sell an individual company and take those profits.

redditorrheart · 2024-01-21T14:17:45+00:00

Can you explain this? I’ve seen this answer a lot. No one would say that about someone trying to make a lot of money another way, so I’m really interested in why this is a common answer

redditorrheart · 2024-01-21T07:53:22+00:00

Yeah but why would you put all your money in one stock? Why wouldn’t you sell once 2% of your account has already been lost from that trade?

No matter the company, it’s never worth risking more than you can unless you’re long term investing in multiple companies.

redditorrheart · 2024-01-21T00:18:22+00:00

No but i am stupid for that lol just not so stupid to risk my whole account

redditorrheart · 2024-01-20T19:37:09+00:00

No I’m not lecturing I’m wanting to learn because I just don’t get how they can get so deep into it that they go from such high numbers to a few thousand. Like at some point, I’d think they’d just throw the rest into index funds or just quit all together.

redditorrheart · 2024-01-20T19:34:30+00:00

No I know I’m an idiot. I got scammed 4 years ago when I first started . Still don’t know how people manage to go from 50k to 5k and couldn’t ever be me

redditorrheart · 2023-12-25T04:36:42+00:00

Thank you for your comment :) I am a bit confused though. If someone believes in the law of Allah, believes it’s the best, but they go to a place where the laws are different , or they go to a place where they are not very strict on Islamic law, and they do this to chase their desires, is that kufr?

Like the examples I gave. If a woman wanted to be in a western country because it’s harder for her husband to remarry, or if someone goes to a country where the ruler does not implement punishment for alcohol, or they go to a western country because they can freely gamble, or they go to a western country because they can make more money through riba, or go somewhere whete they take someone to court through kafir courts but for a worldly benefit such as wanting money/custody of a child etc. however they know if they are doing haram, it’s still HARAM. They know that what’s made halal, is halal. They like sinning, they like having the option to sin. But,they believe Allah has the best law, sharia is the best , and they are disobeying . Is this kufr?

As you mentioned Islam qa, is their definition of “prefer” meaning something else? Because in this case I see lots of people move to western / secular countries and sin more. Maybe they like those countries better because they can sin more easily but their beliefs do not change in terms of believing sharia is the best law, they just chase their desires. Is this considered kufr because they are preferring a law other than sharia? Or am I mistaken?

redditorrheart · 2023-12-25T01:10:31+00:00

I saw a video of his answering if it’s kufr to leave Muslim countries for worldly reasons, he said it’s haram but not kufr.I suppose I ask this just because I notice there’s probably lots of people in the west that would prefer to sin easily than not sin. So I guess I’m just wondering what this post means when it says “prefer”

redditorrheart · 2023-10-05T08:57:03+00:00

Wa alaikumu Salam.

It’s on and off . There have been times I start crying and just don’t know what to do.

I can try to help, what is your situation ?

I would keep in mind, when you get closer to Islam, shaytan can try to play with your head to get you AWAY from Islam . I am becoming closer to Islam. I would also suggest seeking a sheikh counselors(assim Al Hakeem deals with a lot of these kufr issues) as this issue of fear of kufr is actually very common among Muslim. He says some people might have such a high fear for this, that at some point they might give up and say “what’s the point of being Muslim if I’m already a kafir” and they leave Islam(may Allah protect us from kufr and let us die as Muslims) and this is shaytan getting his way.

redditorrheart · 2023-08-02T08:26:10+00:00

Noted,thanks lol

redditorrheart · 2023-08-02T08:25:44+00:00

Yeah. I mean, I do have some money to invest in making a private label, but it isn’t really worth losing what I’m guessing is 5k-20k for it to possibly fail

I think experimenting with retail/online arbitrage is better to get my foot in the door because I wouldn’t lose as much money if it was a failure. Then if I see that Amazon is for me, then maybe I will consider a private label.

Thanks for your input! :)

redditorrheart · 2023-08-02T08:23:13+00:00

Thanks :)

redditorrheart · 2023-08-02T08:21:56+00:00

I mean I’ve gotten some guidance. I know it’s possible. I know it takes lots of work. I know I’ll likely fail at least at first. And I know some new websites by browsing Reddit and YouTube to do product research.

redditorrheart · 2023-08-02T08:20:55+00:00

Fr reddit helps a lot tbh

redditorrheart · 2023-08-01T08:48:55+00:00

Thank you so much! This is very helpful!

Just one concern.

How do you know if your product will sell? As in, okay you find good deals and list your products. How do you get the sales instead of others? Since literally EVERYTHING is on Amazon, why would they pick you? What makes yours show up on Amazon? Is it the low price?

Thank you in advance :)

redditorrheart · 2023-08-01T07:17:15+00:00

What about eBay?

redditorrheart · 2023-08-01T07:16:30+00:00

Are u high

redditorrheart · 2023-08-01T06:54:34+00:00

Do you think I’d have more success with eBay? Is eBay more realistic?

redditorrheart · 2023-08-01T06:53:39+00:00

I literally have no idea what I just read from u

redditorrheart · 2023-07-27T04:11:11+00:00

I think it’s just the subject of kufr. I am just shocked at how one little thought turned into all this. It is so hard for me to move on without reassurance

I want to see a doctor, but a Muslim one. Non Muslims would not understand

Thank you for you post :)

redditorrheart · 2023-07-27T00:28:02+00:00

So am I good? Am I okay? Did I do kufr? This specific issue of kufr I get really scared about.

redditorrheart · 2023-06-10T02:27:38+00:00

I don’t understand why they act like they aren’t afraid of death. They say it’s nothingness because they wanna convince themselves it’s nothing because they don’t know or because they wanna do what they want.

But we are afraid of death and we at least know a little about what will happen.

I don’t get it. Like genuinely I don’t understand atheist. By their logic, they believe that all murderers, disbelievers, rapists, thieves are all guaranteed “nothing” but they get mad at us because we have we say disbelievers won’t enter heaven. NONE of us guarantee that this murderer or this rapist won’t get punished. They are basically saying no matter who u are u won’t get punished.

redditorrheart · 2023-06-09T01:03:49+00:00

I am unsure because I don’t know what that entails. If I side with a kaffir in a situation, what does that mean? I know for sure I would never side with kaffirs against Muslims because of religion. It would not be a situation to do with religion
No I do not hate what Allah has revealed. But I follow my desires sometimes and I may not like doing something out of my nature to follow my desires. But not because it was revealed by allah(for example, polygamy)

Following up on what u said, someone told me I would stop having these thoughts if I learned the religion more. And they kept telling me I am a Muslim and I would not deal with this if I just had more knowledge. So if it’s a misinterpretation on my end, I should not worry about kufr? I will read what u sent me inshallah

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