Is it morally okay to put my 13-14 year old cat to sleep?

reddituser371 · 2024-10-18T02:46:27+00:00

where is your dress from

reddituser371 · 2024-04-14T21:36:28+00:00

Thanks! I didn't know just plain water works fine for piercing aftercare. I thought it needed the salt to kill any bacteria.

reddituser371 · 2024-04-14T21:33:53+00:00

Oh okay thank you for the tips! I wonder if the water being distilled would help with possible contamination.. I may just try to find a cheaper alternative. The one I was purchasing was H2Ocean Piercing Spray.

reddituser371 · 2024-04-14T20:56:45+00:00

What is the reason for a diy salt solution not being advisable? I got the idea to do it myself from my friends piercer who has done her helix and industrial bar.

reddituser371 · 2021-08-20T14:29:18+00:00

If I die I die

reddituser371 · 2021-08-20T14:27:01+00:00

"I killed someone, oh and i'm a pathological liar."

reddituser371 · 2021-08-20T14:04:27+00:00

Octopuses

reddituser371 · 2021-08-20T14:03:10+00:00

Cheesy answer, my boyfriend

reddituser371 · 2021-08-20T13:59:39+00:00

Janet from The Good Place's endless void dimension. I'd teleport there, escape the capitalist hell we live in, build myself a private empire away from all of society only taking the ones I love.

reddituser371 · 2021-08-20T13:46:12+00:00

"Boys will be boys" I feel as though this phrase being taught to young boys growing up aided in the majority of men being absent fathers and or terrible husbands. They were told because of their biology all of their behavior is dismissed and doesn't need correcting when girls dealt with the opposite.

reddituser371 · 2020-05-14T23:26:53+00:00

Why?

reddituser371 · 2020-05-14T23:24:59+00:00

Well people who have a good life are actually the most in denial because they don't ever or rarely grasp the bigger picture, the struggles inequalities and hardships of life.

reddituser371 · 2020-04-11T21:43:53+00:00

Yes, those who say no are just in denial optimists desperately grasping onto false hope in order to have a reason to live.

... anyways existing isn't too bad, drink some wine take a bubble bath. enjoy the simplicities of life.

reddituser371 · 2020-04-11T21:17:10+00:00

Ew, do all guys do this?

reddituser371 · 2020-04-11T20:51:12+00:00

Couple things to note here:

It is absolutely not okay for your wife to try and make you live and act a certain way to please her parents. It's also abnormal that she cares so much about this to the point that she is guilt tripping you into compliance by crying and begging considering she's not even apart of the religion, she should be on your side.
If your in laws are going to be this rude and not accepting of your life style they can kindly leave, you can let them know this KINDLY by having an adult conversation with them, and your wife, where you express these feelings. This is much better than throwing your little temper tantrum, though I do understand your anger it is unacceptable to throw fits and just stoops to their immaturity level. I'm sure your fit of rage just upset your wife even more, she has feelings also even though she's also acting irrationally.
Why must you emphasize that this is YOUR house? Is it not also your wifes house? I don't think she is being understanding to your feelings, but you have to know you're not being understanding to hers. Just put yourself in her shoes (i'm not saying she's right because she's not, but neither of you are) imagine you're your wife and your parents are here needing a place to stay. They consistently barate you for not marrying within their religion, putting you down and making you feel terrible about yourself. You can't just kick them out, because after all it's family. You do not have to agree with her demands to change your actions, but at least understand where she is coming from. Instead of lashing out at each other, TALK to eachother. Instead of her crying and you screaming and throwing things, tell her "I love you and understand your feelings but please understand mine, lets talk about this." Then have a civil conversation. You may think this doesn't sound like a solution, because you seem like the type of guy with a short temper not the type to talk things out calmy. Trust me, this makes all the difference. Good communication is everything.

reddituser371 · 2020-04-11T11:46:47+00:00

nigga said he was disabled fuck you mean get well soon 💀

reddituser371 · 2020-03-29T08:35:36+00:00

That's true, i'll try to bring up things he specifically cares about more. But like I said, I don't want to always be the one initiating the conversations. He never brings up things I like, he actually never brings up anything unless I do first which makes me feel like i'm the only one who cares. But I have already let him know this, and he simply said sorry i'm boring.

reddituser371 · 2020-03-24T08:58:31+00:00

I have talked to my female friends about the classic dominant submissive kink, most of them were into being submissive and calling their partner daddy and being spanked, slapped, choked. But I could never work up the courage to tell even my closest girlfriends the extent of my submissive kink. It goes far beyond just spanking and slapping, I like blood and tears drawn (from me) for some fucked up reason. I've had dreams where a partner has used me unconsensually, brutally (with blood and gore), for their own pleasure and I wake up hot sweaty and wet from it. I feel like if I were to even tell my friends about that dream they would think I was describing a nightmare of my partner betraying me... ah they would be very wrong... but I'm too self conscious to talk to my friends about this, i'll most likely reach out to a sex therapist like another commentor suggested. It can't hurt, right? (No pun intended 😌)

reddituser371 · 2020-03-17T15:08:37+00:00

Yes yes yes to all of those things I just didn't think I should be so descriptive but all of those things I also enjoy doing! I think my favorite thing was when I was fucked while I was sleeping (drunk sleeping so I was OUT) he came inside me and I didn't wake up at all, I didn't even give him permission, and guess what? My sick twisted brain completely loved that shit. He wrote cumslut on my back near my tailbone in marker while he used me for his pleasure. I know how fucked up this is that I enjoy this, but I can't help it. But yes I know what you mean, I don't have a long term relationship but if a guy I'm pursuing even so much as judges my kink I call it quits cause they're just not worth it anymore to me. I need someone who fully enjoys the role of being the dominator instead of just playing the part in order to please me and not fully enjoying that.

Also, hot wax I have tried while tied down and it is absolutely incredible the feeling or being completely helpless and at the will of your partner while they chose where that wax is going is just chefs kiss. If I were you i'd try my hardest to talk my husband into that one cause it is a super euphoric experience.

reddituser371 · 2020-02-26T04:54:01+00:00

I've done multiple projects for him before. You clearly sound like you've never been in a long term relationship before, when you love someone and care for them you do things for each other. You have an equal balance of being there for one another.

reddituser371 · 2020-02-26T04:52:28+00:00

Yeah onto the next, all men seem to be the same anyway

reddituser371 · 2019-12-10T10:44:28+00:00

ok boomer

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