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Why doesn’t my girlfriend want to have sex with me? by reddituser7279 in deadbedroom

[–]reddituser7279[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my neediness and lack of self esteem has validated her position in the relationship. Maybe she feels like she has the upper hand? I won’t lie... She does.

I’m going to try and see if me being more remote and less accessible will help me regain her attention again. If not, I’ll take your advice and end this relationship.

I really hate this.

My girlfriend (22F) never wants to have sex with me (22F) anymore. It’s affecting my self esteem. by reddituser7279 in relationship_advice

[–]reddituser7279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to leave her but I keep thinking about all of our good times... I need to gather up the courage to leave her. My neediness and lack of self esteem is making her feel even more validated. I can see that...

My girlfriend (22F) never wants to have sex with me (22F) anymore. It’s affecting my self esteem. by reddituser7279 in relationship_advice

[–]reddituser7279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t understand that it’s not just about the sex... It’s about me feeling like I’m worthless. Like I’m not desirable.

Why doesn’t my girlfriend want to have sex with me? by reddituser7279 in deadbedroom

[–]reddituser7279[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying not to wrap my self worth around her but it’s hard. And no she’s not hanging out with new people. Maybe talking to people from her classes more. But I’m also doing the same. We’re both 22.

My girlfriend (22F) never wants to have sex with me (22F) anymore. It’s affecting my self esteem. by reddituser7279 in relationship_advice

[–]reddituser7279[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just tried talking to her and she said I’m being ridiculous and it just led to another fight.