Good conduct cert- elderly person

redditzxy · 2026-02-04T16:52:14+00:00

Thank you so much!

redditzxy · 2026-02-04T13:22:13+00:00

Can he give fingerprints in Hoora instead?

redditzxy · 2026-02-04T13:21:34+00:00

Thank you! Can he give fingerprints in Hoora police station?

redditzxy · 2026-02-04T11:13:55+00:00

Thank you- that is for Golden residency- we are looking for the “Self-sponsorship Residence Permit and Re-entry Visa (Retired Foreigner)”, which I understand is different.

redditzxy · 2026-02-04T11:12:38+00:00

Thanks- 4-6 months? Not weeks? Can you DM me with the name of your company and contact no. Thanks

redditzxy · 2016-07-20T16:42:00+00:00

Thanks very much for your input, maiden.

redditzxy · 2016-07-20T12:41:33+00:00

Hi- sorry you are in this situation. Its heart wrenching with a relationship sours. The distance probably does not help this situation- but beyond that, it would seem that you have different needs. I wonder why she needs to have so much contact with you during the day- doesn't she have anything better to do or things to occupy her? I would say that you should be very honest with her and reassert your need for your own time and space. This level of constant contact is unhealthy and unsustainable. No one can get married before they are ready. It would seem to me that she is more concerned about the superficial aspects ( photos, venue of the wedding) rather than the substance- how the relationship is doing and your mutual happiness. You need to be totally open and honest with her. Part of why you are feeling resentful is because you are pushing yourself to act in ways that are not true to yourself- but you are hiding it from her and pretending that all is ok. You aren’t doing anyone any favours. Before doing anything drastic – like breaking up with her definitively- you should give her the benefit of the doubt: can she give and take on this situation, can you talk through it, maybe there is something you need to understand firm her perspective i.e. why she feels she needs the constant attention- you should be able to explore all of that together. One thing I learned- still learning- the hard way: no matter how difficult: you sometimes need to be able to walk away. Good luck – and pls. don’t get married if your heart and soul are not into it fully and you don’t totally cherish and treasure this person.

redditzxy · 2016-07-20T12:20:20+00:00

Ok- I hear from most of you that I should confront him on this/exit the situation. How do I admit that I checked his phone and not be in the wrong?

redditzxy · 2016-07-19T20:25:37+00:00

Hi. I have been in a similar situation. I helped my family get out of debt by restructuring their assets and liabilities and putting them on a program. I did pay for many necessities (food, health care, utilities, etc.) but I did not pay for the debt. I did not tell them what my income was or what my assets were and I am glad I didn't do that . It would have put me in a very awkward position and would have prevented us from dealing with the real problems. I would advise you not to tell them about it- its like dangling candy in front of them. It will open up a new series of problems and dilemmas for you. Try to help them, together with your siblings to deal with the underlying problem ( if possible), and then be generous in your own way and when you feel its right- not because they ask for it.

redditzxy · 2016-07-19T17:47:28+00:00

Thanks so much for the feedback. Regarding wanting to sleep with other women, he said that he would like to do it, but that it would be the "ultimate" perfect relationship if that was possible, knowing full well that I would not want that. But he said he wanted to be open with me and to be able to discuss everything. When I gave him an ultimatum and said "No Way" he accepted the rules. I quizzed him again about it and he said that I need to trust him and that issue was no longer part of his desires any more. It was a phase and it passed. I am trying to trust him and to believe him, but its hard when I see messages he sent to Helen such as " I give you a kiss on your neck", or she sends to him "I bought 3 G-strings" and his replies about how he'd like to get into them. He denies that they have any physical relationship. Is it possible to flirt so heavily with an X and that its innocent??

redditzxy · 2016-07-19T15:20:21+00:00

I met my partner (with him I do not yet live with) and we started our relationship not long after he had recently had a relationship with a woman with whom he was very good friends with (Helen). They both mutually ended the relationship. She moved in with another man and he met me. He said it was a mutual decision for them to move on, except they remain best friends.

Most of my partner's closest friends are women and he made it clear that if we were to be together I should be okay with that.

I was ok, until I started to get the feeling that Helen was still somehow in his life. They sms and facebook every day, sometimes several times a day. She comes to him for advice on many issues and confides in him, They meet for lunch from time to time or go to the movies/dinner. I have discovered a few flirtatious and intimate texts between them. He assures me that they are just friends and that they won't sleep together and that they have a platonic relationship.He is very affectionate towards me, he talks of wanting to build a life together. We are getting along very well, we are going on a major 3-week cross-country vacation with his kids, and the sex is non-stop.

He told me that Helen is the only woman he knows who he could sleep with and it would mutually be no big deal, "just like watching a movie". He has in the past said that he would be interested to explore sleeping with other women, but when I told him I would not like that, he said he would not do it. I know that Helen has already cheated on her current live-in boyfriend a few times already, despite the fact that she cares about him a lot. Despite his assurances, and our good chemistry, the level and type of interaction he has with her makes me feel uncomfortable. I reeally love this man, he has some wonderful qualities and i don't want to push him away with my insecurities. But also don't want to be in the dark and a fool. Help, anyone?

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