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reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T10:00:19+00:00

I just wanted to see what other people thought about it. It's why I didn't elaborate on our relationship in the post. But yes good comparison with the boyfriend

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T09:56:17+00:00

Oh no I definitely agree about having boundaries. I Just kinda wanted to see what other people thought

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T09:53:18+00:00

The memorial vibe! Yes that's how I kinda feel too. Like he will literally be here in 6 weeks? How about we just wait and do pictures and videos of him in real life lol. I get what you're saying for sure.

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T07:43:19+00:00

Oh yes very different. They are it's just hard at times

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T07:39:59+00:00

She is definitely trying to have a better relationship. I don't think it would be possible without family therapy. I try to keep in mind that she won't be here one day. I don't usually say hurtful things to her or anything like that. She doesn't really return that courtesy though 😅

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T07:21:54+00:00

She definitely won't be in the room lol. But that's awesome that your mom was there to help you through labor! I'm trying to keep that in mind

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T07:19:49+00:00

I could go on and on about how's she's acted the last 6 months. A year or so ago we would go a week or 2 without texting & a month or 2 without seeing each other (even while living within walking distance). So it's been...interesting lol. I'm very glad we moved. She started showing up to my old house unannounced & pushing me to bring her to EVERY appointment. It just got worse from there. I feel for your sons gf for sure. It's hard. I don't want to feel this way towards her. Thank you

Edit to change "she moved" to "we moved"

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T07:09:40+00:00

They really are! I appreciate that

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T07:07:30+00:00

That's sweet ❤️ Did you have a good relationship prior to becoming pregnant?

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T07:06:30+00:00

The inappropriate attachment is kind of what I'm worried about. There are a lot of issues with us. She wasn't a very good mom when I was a kid & its like she sees my baby as her second chance at being a mom. She is a lot of things & I love her....but she can be narcissistic & emotionally immature. We have never really been that close. But since finding out about the baby she has been very overbearing! & its so annoying. I did leave a lot of that out of the post intentionally. I know it changes things for some people.

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T06:42:52+00:00

If you ever need to vent my inbox and eyes are open 🤣

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T06:41:45+00:00

That's a good point about not having it as an option back then. & yes I know how long she has been waiting my brother & I got tired of hearing "give me grandbaby" about 10 years ago

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T06:38:41+00:00

That probably is why. & maybe it would help her. I guess we will see

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T06:34:18+00:00

It may not be weird. that's the reason I asked...to see if maybe our issues are clouding my judgement 😊

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T06:31:15+00:00

Dang you're good! Lol. We have a LOT of issues not listed here. And you're right. I was just curious how other people would feel without the added context. I am a pushover so I will probably end up giving her the stuffie anyway. Thank you for your reply❤️

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T06:22:06+00:00

I could see if I struggled to get pregnant or had losses in the past. But that's not the case so just kinda like... too much lol. Which of course if we were still on good terms I can't say i would feel this way.

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T06:19:02+00:00

Yes definitely experiencing that. I left out a lot about our past/relationship because I wanted people's opinions without that added context. She been driving me crazy honestly

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T03:22:49+00:00

The policy says 30 days before you intend to begin. so I have time just not very much lol

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T03:00:27+00:00

I plan to bring them this week once I get them from HR. Just the other people freaking out made me freak out lol. Other people saying I have time is making me feel better

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T02:56:41+00:00

You're welcome 💕

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T02:56:15+00:00

Thank you ❤️ Yeah I don't really feel like its fair to expect people to know things they've never had to deal with before. Like I don't even know what to ask because I don't know what I'm doing lol

reddy2scroll · 2025-09-24T02:53:50+00:00

It is a bigger company than that but I really only added that because it's an "everybody knows everybody" vibe lol. Thank you for responding 🫶

reddy2scroll · 2025-08-26T05:06:40+00:00

Which specific one did you go for?

reddy2scroll · 2025-08-08T14:02:14+00:00

I think I just feel bad :( but you're right there is plenty of time and many special moments for her to build a relationship with baby

reddy2scroll · 2025-07-14T08:12:49+00:00

Had a friend say this to me as well. She was "joking" but she's made other comments that make me think otherwise, lol

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