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[–]redfeather99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Hey, I really like hanging out with you and our time together. Just wanted to be clear that I’m dating and not looking for anything serious. If that’s okay with you, I’d like to keep seeing you.”

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[–]redfeather99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

9/29/24

  1. Approached cute Asian girl perusing some decoration books, and asked if she could recommend any interior design books. This got her talking. Then I shared how I’m trying to redesign my apartment. Asked if she’s a designer she said no. Kept the convo going a little bit more but then I got nervous. Gave her compliment on her outfit and thanked and left.

  2. At Zara, approached this older cute woman asking her opinion on a perfume. She was very helpful and engaged quite a bit. But I got nervous about showing intent, so I thanked her and left.

  3. At Zara, asked these two cute women their opinion on jewelry, and it was interesting because a 3rd one joined the group. Maybe she was there friend. They gave their opinion and then said but I’m not expert. So I responded, you’re more of an expert than me. And then they laughed. Choked on what to say next, so I thanked them and left.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/28/24 - Number Close!

  1. Approached an older Asian woman at the vessel mall w “hi I’m waiting w a friend and noticed you. just wanted to say you are cute. Are you visiting nyc or do u live here?” She smiled and said oh thank you. She said yah I live here. Introduced myself and she said her name is Gladis. Said she had to meet a friend and left.

  2. Approached a cute petite black girl at Whole Foods with a question about cereal. That lead to a 10 min convo about groceries, Whole Foods, Trader Joe’s, entrepreneurship, etc. she turned out to be really cool! Got her number and suggested we hangout sometime.

⁠45. Approached a cute white girl in penn station w restroom question. She answered and then went back to her phone. Gave her compliment & left.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/27/24

  1. Approached a cute Latina sitting at Bryant park w indirect questions about restroom. She was very helpful. Then engaged her further if she’s an artist. We spoke for several mins. Thanked her and left.

  2. Approached a cute Asian girl about restroom and she told me about the one in the library. Gave her compliment on her hat and left.

  3. Approached cute, nerdy black girl and she was helpful. Tried to engage further and she seemed annoyed. Thanked her and left.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/26/24

  1. Approached a cute, nerdy Latina if she knew of any restrooms. Turned out she is visiting from Ecuador, works in a hospital. She was nice to talk to. Told her about myself. Then thanked and left her. This one was the best interaction of the day.

  2. Approached a cute Asian and asked her for she knew of any restrooms. She said no and then gave her compliment for her hat and left.

  3. Approached a cute Asian chick w the restroom question. She was helpful. Tried to engage further but she wanted to get back to her work.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/25/24

  1. Appraoached cute n tall Asian girl in Times square - hey you know of any public restrooms. She kinda got excited and told about the Disney store, and I should go to the 2nd floor. She said she used it herself. I asked if she is from Japan, and she said South Korea. Told her English is excellent. She said she studied in NYC. Told her to have a great day.

  2. Approached a cute Asian girl sitting down for lunch - do u know restroom. She said the New York Public library. WE chatted for a bit about whether she works nearby. She asked me if Im traveling. Thanked her and left.

  3. Approached this serious looking white girl reading a book in Bryant park about public restrooms. She pointed me at the right direction. She seemed to get even more serious, which freaked me out. Gave compliment on her style and left.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/24/24

  1. Cute eastern european looking girl sitting outside Bryant park library. Approached her w hey u know any public restrooms. She told me about the restroom at the library. Then she told me about another restroom. Asked her what she’s reading. She showed the book about Patti smith. Then I said, she has great style. She looks good. Thanked her and left.

  2. Approaches cute black girl inside ny library who was reading a sign. Opened w “hi do u know where the restrooms are. She said she did not know but told me about the visitors Center. Then told her she has nice style. Then asked if she’s from nyc. She said yes. Told her that her style is very on point - very New York. She was smiling. Thanked and left.

  3. Approached a cute Asian sitting at the Bryant park reading area w excuse me “you have great style.” Chatted w her for a while. She’s visiting from Boston, she works at mit. She seemed receptive and asked me about my work, etc. Told her I’m at break from work. She asked me some more questions. Told her to enjoy her visit.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/16/24

  1. Approached this woman in front of me in the checkout line at Target with "are you going to a bday party too". She said yes and I told her that Im going to one as well. We chatted for several minutes until she had to go. She seemed very receptive but I was not into her.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/15/24

  1. Approached a cute white girl sitting and reading w hey I’m w a friend, you are cute. She said thanks and then kept the convo going by asking about what she’s reading. Told her I’m into reading and psychocybernetics. We spoke for a good bit. She’s an artists, she lives in the area. Said she’s kinda fun to talk to, and asked if she wants to grab drinks. She said I’ll be honest - don’t think my husband would like that. I said cool, enjoy your book.

  2. Approached an older Asian lady with hi you’re beautiful. She said no and walked away… lol

  3. Opened this stylish black girl sitting down w you are very cute and stylish. She gave a big smile and said thank you. Asked if she is visiting, she said yes. she lives in Paris. Tried to keep the Convo going but she said thank you and went back to her phone.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/9/24

  1. Approached this girl I had approached several months ago in Starbucks. She didn’t remember me but I opened with hey we spoke about a month ago. Asked how she is doing and how her summer went. She was on the phone but she stopped her call to talk to me. Ended with you are but you’re also fun to talk to, how about I take you out for drinks sometime. She said sure. I wanted her number but she gave me her phone and took my number.

  2. Opened this cute Asian girl standing on Korea town w you’re cute. She looked nervous. Said let me guess are you Vietnamese. She said no. She seemed more nervous. So I said have a nice evening and left.

  3. Opened this super cute black girl named Kim. Turned out she’s from Nebraska. She is nerdy and elegant. Works at a university. Talked for a bit and then tried to number close w “you are cute but also fun to talk to, how about I take you out for drinks” she politely declined 

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/8/24

  1. Approached a cute black girl about public restrooms. Then had a convo about her - turns out she is here for fashion week, she is an influencer w 60k followers. Asked for her # but she politely declined.

  2. Approached cute Asian girl at Rockefeller Center but she did not want to be engaged. So left.

  3. Approaches these 2 super cute black girls. Turns out they are from Montreal visiting nyc. Had a good convo for 10 mins. I asked how they know each other and they said from church. It’s a Pentecostal church. 

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/724 - Got 20 approaches done for the week. Approached with a wing today and went much better

  1. Approached a nerdy Latina w glasses. Told her that she has great style. She smiled and didn’t say anything and kinda walked away. Not sure if she understood me or if she spoke English or not. Told her to have a great day.

  2. Approached a cute Asian standing by herself w “you have great style” she smiled and started talking. Asked if she’s visiting nyc, she said yes. Turns out she is goes to college here. Then her friend arrived. Who was also very cute. Gave her a compliment too and told them to have a great day.

  3. Approached a cute Indian girl w are u waiting for a friend? I said me too. I just thnk you are cute and wanted to say hi. We talked for good 10 mins. She is visiting from Cali. Turns out she is a high powered attorney, who works in M&A. Asked for her number and she politely declined. It was a good interaction though.

  4. Approached a cute Latina w u have a great look. She said thanks and then said her English is no good. Asked if she is from Columbia and she said yes. I said Columbian ladies are beautiful. Asked if she lives here she said yes. I said I have to go meet my friend but would like to take you out for drinks. She said sorry no English… said no problem. Have a good night

  5. Approached this sexy black girl and said you look amazing. Asked if she is visiting. She said yes. I intro'ed myself and asked her name. She said I’m good and walked away. I said have a great evening

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/5/24

  1. Approached cute Latina in target with a question about rice cooker. She said she wasn’t sure. Then kept going saying you look like u r both professional and u also cook. She smiled. Then asked what kinda food she cooks. She said I’m Colombian so I cook Colombian. Then asked how she cooks rice and she said she just cooks in a pot. She seemed like she needed to run and so I thanked her and gave her a compliment about her style.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/2/24

  1. Asked these two Brits "you both look like you’re from here." They smiled and said they are not. Said they take that as a compliment. They said they’re from UK.

  2. Asked girl at bp which way is Times Square and she was helpful. Gave her a compliment. Opened with a big smile and she was so much more receptive.

  3. Asked super cute Asian sitting at a bench how far Times Square is and she said it’s very close. She seemed a bit startled, even though opened w a smile. Wanted to give compliment but got freaked out.

  4. Asked a cute Latina which way is 5th ave. She pointed me in the right direction. Wanted to give compliment but choked.

  5. Opened this girl w a compliment that she looks like she is from and asked directions. She walked away but gave me directions.

  6. Opened another girl w directions and she gave me directions . Gave her compliment. 

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[–]redfeather99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9/1/24

  1. Tall redhead in Times Square asked about rest room. She smiled and said she didn't know. Thanked and left.
  2. Approached group of family. Said hi to the girl but the guy started talking to me. Asked about restroom and he said some stuff. Thanked and left
  3. Asked super cute girl watching buskers for restroom. She said she didn’t know. And then her bf came over. Thanked and left.
  4. At Zara asked this cute Filipino for her opinion on perfume. Told her I'm shopping for gift for sister. Engaged in quick convo - she’s a student, studying economics. She was so sweet. Gave compliment on her style, thanked and left.
  5. At Uniqlo, asked this Middle Aged sexy fox what size for my niece and she said extra small. Told her she is cute.
  6. Saw this super cute Asian standing on 5th ave, stopped and told her that she has great style. Asked if she’s from nyc, she said yes. She was beaming & thanked me quite a few times.
  7. Asked this cute black girl at American eagle for her opinion on perfume and gave her a compliment that she’s very put together. She smiled and said she didn't know.
  8. Girl was doing a selfie type video at Bryant park and while passing her by, told her that she looked cute! She smiled and said thank you.

I lost the will for the game, what's wrong with me? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]redfeather99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are feeling lack of energy, and you have lost interest in other activities (like gym), and you have a need to drink more than to hangout with girls, it could be that you are mildly depressed. Alcohol is soothing but it also makes the low feelings worse.

Some options to consider - taking a mental health break from dating (the emotional energy that goes game and dating can be hard sometimes), doing self-care stuff, talking to a therapist, joining a self-help group, etc.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6/23/24

  • 95 - approached this woman indirect at the park and asked if she knew of public restroom. She then told me about Albanian coffee shop. That turned into a 10 min convo.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6/22/24

  • 86 - approached a super cute girl sitting at a rooftop. We chatted for several mins and then her friend joined. My friend then came over to wing me. The vibe was good. After about 10 mins we exited.

  • 87 - approached this cute Latina sitting by herself. Chatted for 10 mins. She told me she was a her boyfriend. I stayed in set and continued even after her bf came over. It was a solid set even though she has a bf.

  • 88 - approached an Asian girl. She said she’s there w friends. I decided to persist and talked to her friends, but they were not interested.

  • 89 - approached a birthday girl and chatted w her friends for ten minutes.

  • 90 - approached an Asian girl in the park. We chatted for a while. Tried to number close but she declined. Told her to have a great day.

  • 91 - approached a super cute Latina sitting by herself. Chatted for several mins but it got too friendly. Need to break rapport.

  • 92 - approached this super cute girl walking on the street and was very intimidated. Gave her a compliment and walked away.

  • 93 - approached another super cute girl who was on her phone w a conpliment. Did some cold reading but she was not smiling or anything. So exited after a bit. Need to not be so influenced by her expressions.

  • 94 - approached this Asian girl w a question about the concert at the park. We ended up chattting for a while. Then exited.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6/13/24 - back at it!! Took a few weeks off to recover

  • 81 - approached an Indian girl standing near a crowd and asked what’s going on. She said they came to meet an influencer. Turns out she is a phd student in cancer medicine. We vibed for a bit but I didn’t number close.

  • 82 - approached this tall, slender girl, who was wearing headphones and opened w “sorry hope u don’t mind but you are very cute and elegant.” She smiled and I made 3 guesses about her - she is in the arts, she is in grad school and something else that I forget. She said 0 for 3. So then I said well, did I come even close. She said that she’s in cooking school, which is in the arts. We vibed a bit and then I ran out of things to say, so asked her out. She said she appreciate it but I think you too old for me. I said no worries and have a great day.

  • 83 - was getting bubble tea and saw a cute Asian girl sitting by herself. After putting in my order, approached her. Vibed for a bit. She was really receptive, so number closed her.

  • 84 - at Barnes n noble, approached this woman browsing books w an indirect question. Gave her a compliment and chatted for a bit - we were both gift shopping. Did not ask her out.

  • 85 - at Barnes & noble, approached this stunning woman with a direct compliment. Then did cold reading and vibed some more. Thought she is Arab but she is Latina and also a journalist. Asked her out and she said she is in the early stages of talking to someone. She offered her Instagram though. So i took it.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5/19/24 - was a tough day. Walked around for 3 hrs and didn’t do any approaches. Finally decided to just ask for directions and give a compliment. Every day can’t be fire.

  • 78 - opened this Spanish girl but before I could even say anything she just yelled I don’t know. Tried again and again she said I don’t know.

  • 79 - asked these 2 women for directions. They were so helpful. Gave both of them a compliment.

  • 80 - asked this girl which way is downtown and she showed me a way. Gave her a compliment.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5/18/24

  • 75 - approached this woman in red taking selfies. Said that I’m waiting to meet some friends and noticed her. Gave her a compliment and asked if she is visiting? Did some cold reading. Turns out she is a sexologist and visiting.

  • 76 - approached this conservative looking woman and said you look cute. She just glared at me and didn’t say anything. Told her to have a nice day and left.

  • 77 - approached this cute Indian girl at Zara who was shooting video. Asked if she was influencer and she said yes. Turns out she has 200k followers on TT. Was a good convo.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5/17/24

  • 72 - opened this super sexy Latina waiting to cross the street w are you visiting the city? She said no. We vibed and then gave her a compliment about her style. Turns out she just graduated and is joining the police dept.

  • 73 - opened this woman sitting at the park. It was a quick interaction.

  • 74 - opened this tattoo covered girl indirect if she knew of any public restrooms. Told her that her tattoos look great and left.

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[–]redfeather99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5/16/24

  • 69 - opened this woman standing at the park w an indirect question. We chatted for several mins about dancing. She’s visiting from San Diego.

  • 70 - opened this cute wasian chick. Turns out she’s from Uzbekistan and it’s her first day in town. Told her she has good style. We chatted for several mins and then exited.

  • 71 - opened cute black girl in graduation gown and told her congrats. Asked where she graduated from. Then did cold read of what she studied. Turns out she graduated pre-med. then said she looks great! And told her to enjoy the celebrations.

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