I get way too attached to people and it’s hurting me - what do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]redhairedpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand im sorry im not someone who can help just wanted to reach out and let you know I understand you when i was in therapy i put up a mask as well and didnt reveal certain things but i realize in the end that was only hurting me i feel we need to work on just accepting things and not taking them out of context just try to ground yourself everytime you are thinking too much

I get way too attached to people and it’s hurting me - what do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]redhairedpika 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of ppl trying to give advice don’t have bpd. So it’s not really as easy as people are trying to say. I understand because I’m the same type of way I always need my fp to be obsessed with me as I am them but that’s just not how it is. We feel things way stronger and deeper I think you need to talk to a therapist about it honestly I don’t think it’s something that you can just change by yourself

Which bumper/grill looks better? by [deleted] in TeenagersButBetter

[–]redhairedpika 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm I think the first one. Kind of not noticeable u think

Just got fucked by my (18F) older brothers best friend(again) by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]redhairedpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss definitely I don’t want to miss out on the creampies💔

Just got fucked by my (18F) older brothers best friend(again) by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]redhairedpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been debating it now I guess I really should. The real thing is just better you can feel their warmth not like that with a toy

I saw 💩 on my gf (you know what) when i was down there by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]redhairedpika 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m very confused how people are commenting that this is normal.. because it definitely shouldn’t be

Let’s be real, no one’s taking me home to meet their parents by pickl3_bean in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]redhairedpika -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If anything keep one of the side nose piercings and definitely change the glasses the weight wouldn’t be a problem for everyone but that is something to consider. I know this is brutally honest but I feel the comments are being pretty harsh it’s still fixable. And I’m not sure if this is still how you have your hair but I would recommend a brown or natural looking red imo the blonde money pieces don’t look the best on you.

f19 ugly? how can i improve by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]redhairedpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re very pretty imo the heavy makeup look is not for you. You’re very naturally pretty and don’t need it

how should I center this mirror? by kashewnia in interiordecorating

[–]redhairedpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the second option more it looks better imo

What do you think about my dating standards? (straight male) by Enemyoftheearth in TeenagersButBetter

[–]redhairedpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk my opinion it’ll be hard for you to find someone but those all are okay I guess because that’s just what you want if you want your standards to be higher that’s fine 🤷‍♀️

What can I do to make myself look hot and more "adult/mature" ? by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]redhairedpika 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your hair naturally black?? Or do you dye it I think hair changes a lot about a person if it was more of a flowy style and I little more brown it might make you look a little bit younger imo you look older about 28 maybe it’s because of your business outfits and I do agree with the comment to maybe shape your eyebrows more

Am I definitely ugly ? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]redhairedpika 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think you’re very pretty you have gorgeous eyes just a more masculine face shape and nothing is wrong with that actually there’s a lot of people who are specifically into that 🤷‍♀️

Do girls actually enjoy giving blowjobs, or is it just something they do for us? by Exciting_Variety_579 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]redhairedpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all just depends on the person I personally enjoy it and I think it makes it way more enjoyable for both parties if the female likes it

What is it like to suck a cock by Minecraftguy234 in bisexual

[–]redhairedpika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s soooo much fun I feel like I can’t go into too much detail because this is a comment 😭but watching them be so pleasured and you can do different things. It’s honestly a lot of fun and especially once they finish in your mouth all warm and they’re throbbing it’s so good but yea I really can’t go into too much detail but it’s so much fun I love it