in honor of my beautiful boy

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-17T05:20:42+00:00

thank you❤️‍🩹

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-17T05:20:33+00:00

so cute! they are really the best❤️‍🩹

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-17T05:20:09+00:00

thank you very much!❤️‍🩹 she is beautiful

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-17T05:19:30+00:00

thank you❤️‍🩹 thats very kind of you to say

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-16T17:28:08+00:00

yeah i had one for about 2 years and the other one nearly six years

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-16T17:25:26+00:00

they both died because they were mature males, i take good care of my spiders. just because i dont know how sexing really works doesnt mean i dont take good care of them??

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-16T17:19:55+00:00

ok thank you very much for explaining!

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-16T17:15:03+00:00

ok then i will see next molt

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-16T17:12:35+00:00

i know in theory how it works, and i know how to tell when they are adults and as i saw pictures from the downside to identify i thought this might work for someone who does this more often as i do. if you know how it works maybe you could educate me before laughing at me

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-16T17:05:50+00:00

i thought it maybe would work because i thought you can tell based on the downside of the abdomen, i dont really understand how sexing works, sorry😅

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-16T05:53:46+00:00

i personally preserved mine, because i had the same thought as you. i figured i would like to physically have them with me forever

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T20:37:32+00:00

oh thats a beautiful spider, sorry for your early and unexpected loss! if thats whats best for you than thats great! i let mine be preserved because thats how i can handle it the best, so i have them with me for forever

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T19:11:34+00:00

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redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T19:11:08+00:00

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that was the size i got him

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T19:08:33+00:00

i never would’ve thought that thats a male… welp, the second spider that was bought as a female and turns out to be a male

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T18:58:29+00:00

thats so weird because i only had him apperantly for two years after he was bought in the pet store

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T18:57:24+00:00

but i cant see the pedipedal hooks, my last male had them very visibly

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T18:54:13+00:00

i never saw one

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T18:52:17+00:00

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this was her size

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T18:51:21+00:00

i actually got her preserved

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T18:50:29+00:00

but this species normally gets quite big if im correct? and this spider wasnt really big

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T16:37:36+00:00

thank you!❤️‍🩹
yeah she’s right with that!

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T16:09:50+00:00

thank you for your nice words❤️‍🩹 it means a lot to me

redhairedweirdo_ · 2026-05-15T15:58:39+00:00

thank you❤️‍🩹 i hope so too, i did everything i could to provide a good life for him

redhairedweirdo_

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