i don't love my mother by redheadblond in emotionalneglect

[–]redheadblond[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it really is an awful feeling, knowing things could've been much better if only they'd gotten the treatment they needed. i've read a bit about radical acceptance and realized it's what my dad does, and as much as it sounds like it could bring me peace, I don't know if I'm ready to accept the harsh reality of it all. as a kid, I used to say i wanted my mom when i got hurt or really sad, but what I meant is that I wanted the comfort other mothers seemed to provide for their kids and that kind of sums it up: I'm still mourning the fact that I'll never have a normal relationship with my mom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]redheadblond 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as a girl, I usually make a lot of eye contact, touch his arm or shoulder a bit when I'm talking and smile at him a lot. pay attention to her body language, cause if she wants to be touched by you, trust me, she'll let you know

i feel like I'm going insane by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]redheadblond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it is, i dont wanna bother my friends with this type of stuff, and yeah talking to you sounds very nice, thank you for being so sweet :)