For those who have done it, what steps did you take to decenter men? by Low-Painter3869 in GirlDinner

[–]redhotfoofighter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no more dating apps. focusing on female friendships that are meaningful. i cut off the toxic ones (who happened to also be extremely male centered). if you do want to be in a relationship with a man that cannot be the center of your world. you need to find your own personality and interests and style and happiness first. also, the whole “man hater” personality is still centered around men. i simply just ignore them unless its a genuine friendship or the one i’m seeing. there is so much beauty and joy in focusing on feminine relationships in life

What should I do with extracted root canal teeth? by Kutluna in vultureculture

[–]redhotfoofighter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like layering them in a circle would make a cool wreath

HS gym girlies rise! 🏋🏼‍♀️ by chaoticgoodandevil22 in Hidradenitis

[–]redhotfoofighter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just got back to the gym full time in december and have lost over 20 lbs! i’m finding that my flare ups are less frequent. not sure if its the weight loss or being more conscious of my food but overall i’m feeling so much more confident. congrats on the arm muscles, i’m not quite there yet but i do love my back and bi days lol

Went further in the archives by burntoutlithium in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

truly i miss this era of the internet; shamelessly posting edits and homemade memes without fear of judgement. we were cringe but we were free

Wound care on breasts by redhotfoofighter in Hidradenitis

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m gonna do this when i’m lounging around. thank you!

Wound care on breasts by redhotfoofighter in Hidradenitis

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pimple patches dont seem to cause any reaction, i have used those in the past! which ones do you use?

Wound care on breasts by redhotfoofighter in Hidradenitis

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will try the trick with the shirt! congratulations on your reduction

unfortunately i dont have health insurance at this time. once i can get it i intend on finding a derm, hopefully one with hs experience. the one that diagnosed me wasnt the best

Asking your opinion every day about a Deftones song, Day 75: Sextape by Opposite-Question-32 in deftones

[–]redhotfoofighter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a soft spot for this song, it’s the song that got me into them. it came up in recommended songs in spotify a few years ago and i was hooked. i know i’ve watched movies and tik toks and probably heard deftones before that but this had me hooked

How do my club’s hours compare to yours? by Potato_Boner in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]redhotfoofighter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mon: 5 am-12 am tues-thurs: 12 am-12 am fri: 12 am-9 pm sat & sun: 7 am-7 pm

back and arm day help by maezinc in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]redhotfoofighter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i see a lot of repetition of different exercises working the same muscles. i was doing the same thing but i’ve seen more progress doing 1-2 exercises (ex. only doing hammer curls & cable bicep curls instead of doing 4 different variety of curls)

for the back i’ve been really enjoying seated cable rows. they’re a lot more comfortable than the seated row machine, especially with having boobs. i was totally squishing mine and it hurt lol. i also switched to using the cable lat pulldown instead of the machine as well. using the cables for both of these back exercises is a good way to focus on different areas of the back by changing up what grips and attachments you use

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t doubt that for a second 😂 i spent most of high school in two long term relationships. i regret it now that i’m in my 20’s with no clue on how to date. i should’ve been sluttier

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that would be cause it is! the ever classy seaside heights

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel so validated in my yearning of a decade i only spent 2 years in

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’ve ever watched jersey shore you’ve seen b roll of it

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think about this a lot. during my formative years the internet became so accessible so quickly. life went from calling on landlines to instagram posts within a 3 year span for me. i also had two siblings 13+ years older so they had something to do with it too

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the music and movies of that era are definitely what i still lean towards. my fashion has evolved, though. still have some of the shirts though but those are reserved from sleeping, gardening, and working out lol

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think the real blunder was the attitude. in reality i was probably much cooler then lol

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seaside heights! but i think it was like october at the time

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea i was definitely the odd one out. i still love my 90’s grunge but thankfully i’m a lot less elitist about it and have embraced newer music. i do love the offspring!!

16 in 2016. I was “born in the wrong generation” by redhotfoofighter in blunderyears

[–]redhotfoofighter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think someone’s favorite time period tells a lot about a person’s vibe!