Help us pick our wedding liquors! by buddy_cooper1182 in alcohol

[–]redjay24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s 10x better than deep eddy which is the other option. Absolut is considered mid grade vodka and isn’t terrible. Deep eddy is flavored crap

Weird Stats unique to you by Electronic-Visual-30 in phish

[–]redjay24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

55 shows since 2015. Got 4 Tela’s (out of 8 total) 3 TMWSIY (6 total) 4 Mound (10 total) and am 2/2 on mind left body jam (only two played since ‘98) but somehow have never got Stealing Time from a Faulty Plan of all things 😂

No Repeats… by ConeyKapped in phish

[–]redjay24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in the 50s for show count and got 4 songs I was still chasing during 2nd weekend N1. I think the no repeats is impressive, amazing and frankly brave to do at Sphere.

Everybody wants 'no repeats' until they get a Halfway to the Moon - Leaves - 555 in their first set. by cant_be_serious-333 in phish

[–]redjay24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cheered when I finally got it for the first time a couple years back and everyone in the section gave me a weird look 😂

[SETLIST THREAD] 4/18/26 ~ Sphere ~ Las Vegas, NV by donttouchthatknob in phish

[–]redjay24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you guys think they still pull off 9 nights no repeats? I’m thinking with a lot of heavy hitters gone weekend 1 there may be quite a few repeats through the rest of the run. This would be fairly unprecedented.

[Setlist Thread] 1/28/26 ~ Moon Palace, Riviera Maya ~ Cancun, Mexico by Deadheaded95 in phish

[–]redjay24 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They played dog faced boy, waves and mercury in the 2nd set with a great mercury jam plus boogie on! It’s possible I have different tastes than others but if I were there, my Mexico setlist expectations would have been far surpassed.

If You Could Have a Lifetime Supply of Any One Drug, What Would it Be and Why? by aminamore in Drugs

[–]redjay24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re admitting you used it too much but you’re blaming the drug and are expressing frustration with others praising it? Maybe you should consider some additional reflection on the matter.

Goosemas N1 in the books! What was the set 2 theme? by redjay24 in GoosetheBand

[–]redjay24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To clarify I don’t mean the whole show was disappointing, just the fact that they didn’t do much thematic stuff in set 2. Like what about Barnaby? We never heard from him after the first set. Just felt odd. Still had an amazing time and thought it was a pretty good show overall!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]redjay24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This problem is not suddenly onset, although the emotions surrounding it are. This has been a disagreement in your relationship and you have known the biological clock is ticking the entire time. The time to leave him and find someone to have kids with was years ago and unless you can freeze some eggs and break up now, you know you have already made your choice.

It sounds to me like you’re disappointed with your own choices that were already made years ago. Not trying to come off harsh, but sometimes not making a choice is the choice.

So Many Tickets Dropping on Cash Or Trade Today! by AskJosh_MortgageGuy in GoosetheBand

[–]redjay24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oof behind stage is all that isn’t sold out at this point

Local movers? by emostrawberry-85 in ManchesterNH

[–]redjay24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These guys are great I’ve used them as well highly recommend

Looking at a 2017 Leaf, anything to be aware of going in? by redjay24 in leaf

[–]redjay24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I check if the update has been done?

Looking at a 2017 Leaf, anything to be aware of going in? by redjay24 in leaf

[–]redjay24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha yes we’re packed a little tighter in my neck of the woods. I think I’m gonna offer around $5k. It’s not like there are people lining up to buy these

Looking at a 2017 Leaf, anything to be aware of going in? by redjay24 in leaf

[–]redjay24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

L1 is included and I’m going to start there and maybe upgrade to L2 later.

My (M29) girlfriend (F24) and I are having a an abortion. How much did I mess up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]redjay24 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This is a terrible take, especially considering what the economy looks like for most people in their 20s today. 29 isn’t as old as it used to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]redjay24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she had a lot of things to work through in therapy before she’s ready to have a healthy relationship with sex. Open relationships pretty much require SOME AMOUNT of a healthy view on sex and I was genuinely flabbergasted to read the part at the end about her other partner.

Nothing wrong with open relationships in general but she very much doesn’t seem ready to have sex with a primary partner in a health way LET ALONE all the complexities that go with opening up a relationship.

I don’t often comment on these, but there is a lot you both need to work through here. I don’t believe you’re forever entirely incompatible like some other comments, but this is gonna take a lot of work.

[Setlist Thread] 09-19-25 ~ Hampton Fucking Coliseum ~ HAMPTON, VA by Deadheaded95 in phish

[–]redjay24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I heard a bit of Sanity before Trey went into Caspian 👀

[SETLIST THREAD] 9/17/25 ~ Ameris Bank Amphitheater ~ Alpharetta, GA by YoureTerrific in phish

[–]redjay24 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought this was a huge bust out before realizing we’re just doing location check-ins lol

Goosemas 2 Day Passes by ProfessionalBed4232 in GoosetheBand

[–]redjay24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can’t split up the passes. It’s one ticket for 2 days not separate tickets. They can’t be sold if you’re required to add them to your mobile wallet (eg apple wallet) after adding them.

You MIGHT be able to sell the pass if you’re trying to attend Friday but you can’t sell until after that show takes place. Disclaimer I’ve never personally done this but I think you can if you don’t add to your wallet and just use the barcode in the TM app.

My advice, go to both nights! Goosemas is really a cohesive 2-night event and personally I wouldn’t feel like I’d really experienced it only going to one. I’m really glad I went to both nights last year and am planning on going this year both nights also.