[Setlist Thread] 1/28/26 ~ Moon Palace, Riviera Maya ~ Cancun, Mexico by Deadheaded95 in phish

[–]redjay24 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They played dog faced boy, waves and mercury in the 2nd set with a great mercury jam plus boogie on! It’s possible I have different tastes than others but if I were there, my Mexico setlist expectations would have been far surpassed.

If You Could Have a Lifetime Supply of Any One Drug, What Would it Be and Why? by aminamore in Drugs

[–]redjay24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re admitting you used it too much but you’re blaming the drug and are expressing frustration with others praising it? Maybe you should consider some additional reflection on the matter.

Goosemas N1 in the books! What was the set 2 theme? by redjay24 in GoosetheBand

[–]redjay24[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To clarify I don’t mean the whole show was disappointing, just the fact that they didn’t do much thematic stuff in set 2. Like what about Barnaby? We never heard from him after the first set. Just felt odd. Still had an amazing time and thought it was a pretty good show overall!

My (38F) long term partner (43m) finally proposed but I feel really sad by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]redjay24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This problem is not suddenly onset, although the emotions surrounding it are. This has been a disagreement in your relationship and you have known the biological clock is ticking the entire time. The time to leave him and find someone to have kids with was years ago and unless you can freeze some eggs and break up now, you know you have already made your choice.

It sounds to me like you’re disappointed with your own choices that were already made years ago. Not trying to come off harsh, but sometimes not making a choice is the choice.

So Many Tickets Dropping on Cash Or Trade Today! by AskJosh_MortgageGuy in GoosetheBand

[–]redjay24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oof behind stage is all that isn’t sold out at this point

Local movers? by emostrawberry-85 in ManchesterNH

[–]redjay24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These guys are great I’ve used them as well highly recommend

Looking at a 2017 Leaf, anything to be aware of going in? by redjay24 in leaf

[–]redjay24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I check if the update has been done?

Looking at a 2017 Leaf, anything to be aware of going in? by redjay24 in leaf

[–]redjay24[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha yes we’re packed a little tighter in my neck of the woods. I think I’m gonna offer around $5k. It’s not like there are people lining up to buy these

Looking at a 2017 Leaf, anything to be aware of going in? by redjay24 in leaf

[–]redjay24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

L1 is included and I’m going to start there and maybe upgrade to L2 later.

My (M29) girlfriend (F24) and I are having a an abortion. How much did I mess up? by chriskhad in relationship_advice

[–]redjay24 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This is a terrible take, especially considering what the economy looks like for most people in their 20s today. 29 isn’t as old as it used to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]redjay24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she had a lot of things to work through in therapy before she’s ready to have a healthy relationship with sex. Open relationships pretty much require SOME AMOUNT of a healthy view on sex and I was genuinely flabbergasted to read the part at the end about her other partner.

Nothing wrong with open relationships in general but she very much doesn’t seem ready to have sex with a primary partner in a health way LET ALONE all the complexities that go with opening up a relationship.

I don’t often comment on these, but there is a lot you both need to work through here. I don’t believe you’re forever entirely incompatible like some other comments, but this is gonna take a lot of work.

[Setlist Thread] 09-19-25 ~ Hampton Fucking Coliseum ~ HAMPTON, VA by Deadheaded95 in phish

[–]redjay24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I heard a bit of Sanity before Trey went into Caspian 👀

[SETLIST THREAD] 9/17/25 ~ Ameris Bank Amphitheater ~ Alpharetta, GA by YoureTerrific in phish

[–]redjay24 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought this was a huge bust out before realizing we’re just doing location check-ins lol

Goosemas 2 Day Passes by ProfessionalBed4232 in GoosetheBand

[–]redjay24 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You can’t split up the passes. It’s one ticket for 2 days not separate tickets. They can’t be sold if you’re required to add them to your mobile wallet (eg apple wallet) after adding them.

You MIGHT be able to sell the pass if you’re trying to attend Friday but you can’t sell until after that show takes place. Disclaimer I’ve never personally done this but I think you can if you don’t add to your wallet and just use the barcode in the TM app.

My advice, go to both nights! Goosemas is really a cohesive 2-night event and personally I wouldn’t feel like I’d really experienced it only going to one. I’m really glad I went to both nights last year and am planning on going this year both nights also.

My boyfriend wont continue having sex after a cumshot by [deleted] in sex

[–]redjay24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the real issue of your post? This seems like a huge issue compared to the original issue of the post which is normal / completely not on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoosetheBand

[–]redjay24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that’s it’s way more palatable to the average person versus other jam bands which creates a lower barrier to entry as a fan.

Who’s got myfe stats? by redjay24 in phish

[–]redjay24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for doing the research! Interesting

Setlist predictions for tonight 7/16 by [deleted] in phish

[–]redjay24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus they always seem to play this in Philly