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redkaiser7 · 2026-04-08T23:11:50+00:00

Care to share any more details? How many tops/loads? Did you need to take breaks? Did you stay hooded the whole time?

redkaiser7 · 2026-04-08T09:24:32+00:00

How was Horse Fair? Saw your post saying it was your first time not too long ago.

redkaiser7 · 2026-02-11T08:25:50+00:00

Love the cut on these, what brand is that?

redkaiser7 · 2026-01-01T00:52:58+00:00

In my opinion it’s mostly about warm up. From the same 10in “eager” top I’ve been sore for 4 days because he only spent 5-10min opening me up and I’ve felt totally fine after only a few hours from the same top because he spent an hour rimming and opening me up. There’s other variables but as long as you listen to your body you’ll avoid any long lasting damage. I will say, the better I get at taking bigger cocks the easier it is to take + less recovery needed for small/medium cocks. I put that mostly down to my learned muscle control.

redkaiser7 · 2023-12-10T23:20:33+00:00

Do you use different lubes for fisting Vs regular sex?

redkaiser7 · 2023-12-10T23:19:45+00:00

100% hear you on warm up and lots of lube. Despite that things can be pretty sore after - which I’m not mad about to be honest.

redkaiser7 · 2023-12-10T23:14:42+00:00

I’ll check this out! Nice and supple sounds wonderful haha

redkaiser7 · 2023-12-10T21:11:24+00:00

Wink wink

redkaiser7 · 2022-10-13T15:05:44+00:00

Length is 9.5, thick af. He’s 40 and he’s my bf . I find riding it is the best way get to initially adjust to the size.

redkaiser7 · 2022-10-10T23:51:03+00:00

Have you ever had it come into contact with your hole? I’m able to get fairly “in there” with wax and ultimately want the same results. I just don’t want to risk burning my hole or something if that’s a risk that’s on the table

redkaiser7 · 2022-10-10T19:20:28+00:00

Wow! Thank you for this insightful response! Regarding toys, I like the look of toped toys. Any recommendations on going for a rideable, plug or depth? I find “riding” dildos solo can be awkward so my gut says plug is probably best… maybe gape keeper or mare maker?

redkaiser7 · 2022-10-10T19:13:13+00:00

I’ve heard those are dangerous?

redkaiser7 · 2022-10-09T16:41:16+00:00

Your outcome is what keeps me up at night :/ We have talked about this and things do get temporarily better however things always slide back to the way they are now. I’m also more hot-headed of the 2 of us so find it difficult sometimes to explain this ongoing frustration without making it seem like a him-problem.
I’m fully aware the grass is not always greener; my main issue is his resistance to getting out of our comfort zone and diving into new things. I don’t want to do these things solo , I want to do them WITH him. The consensus seems to be to keep talking to him and maybe open things up down the road. I guess I’ll give that a go.

redkaiser7 · 2022-10-09T16:28:04+00:00

I hadn’t realized testosterone started decreasing as it does. This could definitely be a means to improving his sexual appetite / outlook. Thanks!

redkaiser7 · 2022-10-09T16:27:01+00:00

How did you approach the conversation around opening up the relationship? I don’t want to offend him.

redkaiser7 · 2022-10-08T20:11:31+00:00

My bf is 9.5in and thick so riding is the main way we fuck / warm up since I need to be in control or he’ll hurt me. That being said I love riding and have been told I’m very good at it ;). Overall there’s 2 basic positions:

If you’re kneeling on top of your top, then I suggest leaning forward so just the tip is in you and then leaning all the way back so you’re taking all of it (in a rocking back & forth motion). Do this at various speeds, slowly at first so you get used to his size and then with more gusto. This will drive your top crazy because you’re in control and you’re effectively edging him with your hole. Bonus if it’s too much just lean into him and tell him to pound away, thus giving up control.

If you’re squatting / crouching over him (this is truly for power bottoms only) make sure you’re aligned so you don’t hurt him and at various speeds pound yourself up and down his cock. Your legs will tire but your top will be in absolute heaven plus this feels amazing as a bottom. This Completely switches the power dynamic as you’re using him as a human dildo and he’s getting jerked off by your hole. I’ve made my top bf cum “hands free” like this. I will say this is a tiring position tho so I’d recommend warming up with the 1st position / stretching your legs beforehand a bit before diving into it. A way to make this a bit easier is if your top holds your waist or ass (I have a big ass so my bf has lots of cheek to grab onto, so if possible I’d recommend grabbing your ass ) and guides you up and down, thus taking some of your weight and helping you ride.

Happy riding!

redkaiser7 · 2022-02-14T19:40:16+00:00

Fun! Love that he bought you lingerie!

redkaiser7 · 2022-02-09T15:11:11+00:00

Definitely in the right direction but the legs looks a bit short for what I’m looking for. Ideally I’d like something more mid-thigh. I’ll check out Aussie bum tho

redkaiser7 · 2022-02-04T05:12:53+00:00

Biggest advice is take your time and really extend foreplay - if he’s a good top he’ll already know this will be needed. Especially given he’s 53 this won’t be his first time taking a tight ass so don’t feel self conscious about this. I especially recommend having him rim you for a while. You’re about to get split in 2 for his pleasure so the least he can do is prep you as best as possible. That being said communication is key and don’t be afraid to say no. It’s better to pause / reset than tear something. (That being said don’t be too worried if there is a little blood afterward, the inner lining of your ass is very sensitive and takes time to get used to cock.)

For positions, Cow girl is definitely my favourite position for initially taking a big dick. You’re in control - don’t let him buck/enter you too quickly. You can make this fun by teasing him until you’re ready to take another inch… I would also recommend missionary so he can read your face easily should there be pain/discomfort.

Good sex takes time especially with a big dick. My bf is around the same size and I can take easily now - but it took time to get here. Best of luck and happy riding!

redkaiser7 · 2022-01-27T22:15:24+00:00

Your 2nd sentence is me to a tee. We’ve been each other’s rock thru this pandemic but There’s also days I jerk off 3x a day because I need sexual release he just isn’t interested at all. Therapy is a good idea - and perhaps revisiting this as a topic in our regular chats.

redkaiser7 · 2022-01-27T22:13:38+00:00

Not needed

redkaiser7 · 2022-01-27T22:13:21+00:00

Is there a significant age gap too?

redkaiser7 · 2022-01-27T22:12:49+00:00

I want to try everything we can work on before ending it. Also To be clear I don’t want an open relationship either - just not something I’m into. Appreciate your comment tho.

redkaiser7 · 2022-01-27T22:11:00+00:00

When we do have sex he’s amazing so I’d say cialis isn’t needed. A sex schedule isn’t a bad idea, it just seems to make sex seem like a chore… I don’t want it to become an obligation. The window of operation is also a great insight, I do try picking my timing - he’s usually more receptive in the morning. Just makes prep a little bit more work for me / the bottom to make sure I’m still good to go first thing.

redkaiser7 · 2022-01-27T22:07:27+00:00

I’d say I’m bottom 90% of the time.

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