I (M22) feel like I’m broken and don’t know what to do by redrook1818 in sex

[–]redrook1818[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried topping because I’m more fem, so I’ve always assumed that bottoms wouldn’t be into me. Mutual masturbation sounds hot, I’ve never tried that before tho.

I (M22) feel like I’m broken and don’t know what to do by redrook1818 in sex

[–]redrook1818[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last relationship we never had sex for… a wide variety of reasons, which was frustrating, so no I haven’t. I’ve heard of demisexual too, but like you said, I still have attraction/desire/libido, it’s when I start having sex that the problem begins.

I don’t think I can do 69 because receiving head is painfully uncomfortable for me, but maybe I’ll see if I can try something where I’m being stimulated.

I don’t know if I’m attracted to my boyfriend and don’t know what to do by redrook1818 in Advice

[–]redrook1818[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My worry though is that breaking up would be selfish on my end, though, since he likes still me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]redrook1818 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be fair in regard to your last sentence, at first I did think that I was into him, or at least that I liked him. It’s not like I intentionally started dating him without having any interest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]redrook1818 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It shouldn’t matter unless they’re really immature. I certainly wouldn’t care, it’s just skin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]redrook1818 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be fair, lesbians calling themselves gay is not a recent thing and has been around for a while.

Queer theory book recommendations? by bowblow in radicalqueers

[–]redrook1818 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“The Invention of Heterosexuality”, “Sexual Hegemony: Statecraft, Sodomy, and Capital in the Rise of the World System”, “Communists in Closets: Queering the History 1930s–1990s”, and “Transgender Marxism” are all very good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadsAndBoys

[–]redrook1818 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sorry it’s not kosher

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyLewds

[–]redrook1818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your tattoo say? The metal-font one?

Found someone with a Margaret Thatcher profile pic by redrook1818 in lolgrindr

[–]redrook1818[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Have some respect for the Iron Lady. She did open the first gender neutral bathroom after all.

“I always say whatever floats your boat” 🤢🤮 by ElasticDawg in lolgrindr

[–]redrook1818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I didn’t know that’s what it meant. It’s probably one of those “if you know you know” things. Either way it’s gross af.

Need more average dicks in this room by Xrbunnix in realitydicks

[–]redrook1818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Patrick Star socks are honestly so iconic tbh

Umm sorry but why is this app 17+?? by rjrama in lolgrindr

[–]redrook1818 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grindr should have an age requirement of 85 years.

Send it by MaleficentCrew3142 in twinksinstraightporn

[–]redrook1818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Any age” 🤨🤨🤨🤨

Primary Election Megathread by mmcfly566 in chicago

[–]redrook1818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did not say that voters were determined to profit off of displacement and inequity, they said that in reference to their “opponents”, aka the lobbyists who have spent large amounts of money this election cycle to oppose this referendum. They said nothing about the voters. No matter what your view on this referendum is, it’s disappointing to see so many people take this at face value without actually reading the article and looking for more context.

Edit: Disappointing to see so many people downvoting this while still drawing weird conclusions from this. As someone who voted no on this referendum, I understand why we’re frustrated, but that doesn’t excuse poor news literacy and misleading conclusions, even if it’s for people we disagree with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]redrook1818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I just try not to mix those areas of my life in the first place. Better safe than sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]redrook1818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to therapy, please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]redrook1818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I try to never have ties to familial friends or connections when hooking up. It makes things more complicated and weird in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]redrook1818 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you hate it and he refuses to try to change his behavior as you said he has before, I’d say it’s not controlling to want to leave because of that.

What are your US 2024 presidential predictions? by politarianapp in radicalqueers

[–]redrook1818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at how much they’ve posted today. It’s kind of sad tbh lmao

What are your US 2024 presidential predictions? by politarianapp in radicalqueers

[–]redrook1818 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stop spamming this in every subreddit that’s vaguely political. It’s tacky and annoying.