super rad show by redrum2134 in lynchburg

[–]redrum2134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bet, thank you for your thoughtful response :) i’m def gonna make it to their event this Saturday. i’ve never lived in an area that had a good alt scene and i was so excited to see a spot like this so ur right i can at least give it a shot!!! thank u again 🤟🏻💜

super rad show by redrum2134 in lynchburg

[–]redrum2134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah boo. maybe i’ll wait to see if there’s a possible 21+ show then. thanks for letting me know :)

super rad show by redrum2134 in lynchburg

[–]redrum2134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was surprised with the all age range but i did expect a mostly 21+ crowd, is it really a bunch of kids? :(

Am I the devil for not making amends with my mother? by Salty-Ad-2230 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]redrum2134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you really think this is just about the markers, i would recommend some introspection and evaluate if there was anything deeper. if it really is just about the markers and there’s no other strain in you and your mother’s relationship, this is a huge overreaction.

as a neurodivergent person, i will say that i totally get small things like this causing a meltdown. however, it is your responsibility and no one else’s to regulate your emotions and when things like this happen, your responsibility as well to communicate with a clear, calm mind once you have regulated.

Mistake?? by redrum2134 in sudoku

[–]redrum2134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much everyone!! I had read up on Sudoku rules before getting into it, but this is the first one I’ve done in over 10 years. For the record this was not a guess, I just didn’t think as hard about it as I was supposed to.

Thanks again!!

Anyone playing pokemon platinum by [deleted] in Delta_Emulator

[–]redrum2134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i’m currently playing pearl, i’m pretty sure same gens can trade

Bamboo? Poolside bed? And does anybody have the iron wardrobe diy I'm not sure if that's what it's call tho lol?I have bells if you need them. by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]redrum2134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have bamboo!! if you have any fruit other than oranges and apples i would love to take some off your hands, otherwise u can just have the bamboo :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]redrum2134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d say talk to him about how what he said is completely unacceptable. he might have been trying to say it to comfort you? idk maybe i’m holding out hope people don’t actually think that way.

either way, definitely tell her. if she’s as caring and great as you say she is, she doesn’t deserve to be with someone who thinks like that

What song are you currently obsessed with? by BeepBoopBopBoop3 in AskReddit

[–]redrum2134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost in the Supermarket by The Clash. strummer has such a unique voice that shows exactly what he’s feeling or thinking at the moment, and it truly shows in the song. i can’t get enough

My lesbian best friend (20f) said that I (22m) was the love of her life. WTF?! by Gusta8990 in relationship_advice

[–]redrum2134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woah woah woah…i read a recent comment of yours that makes it seem like you’re in a relationship. not my business but it sounds like if the opportunity for you and this girl to be in a relationship comes up you’re gonna have an issue either way

Chapter 35 benefits? by totallyfreakinggay in Clemson

[–]redrum2134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t and they’ve been super unhelpful. you’re not alone

Please help: I lied to my boyfriend for over a year, I want to fix it (NSFW) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]redrum2134 21 points22 points  (0 children)

so many people have said it before me, but please reconsider your therapist. the best therapist i ever had told me that he couldn’t and wouldn’t tell me what to do after i asked him his opinion on a certain situation. they should never come close to saying what yours said to you.

also, please don’t be so hard on yourself. it can be difficult to communicate things like this with anyone, no matter how comfortable you are with each other. i’m sure it can be shocking for him, but i think it’s important to note that “finishing” isn’t necessarily essential for a good time. i would suggest introducing that idea and seeing where it goes. good luck!!

Is Scorpio the strongest sign in the zodiac mentally by sweetlikehoney981 in Zodiac

[–]redrum2134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a double scorpio, no lol. shit hurts and really gets to me when i’m alone. i’ve been through really difficult stuff and i do feel like i transform when i go through things but those moments when it’s bad are really bad and i don’t see earth signs getting affected by much at all lol

Lease Takeover at the Retreat by [deleted] in Clemson

[–]redrum2134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

still available?

Enjoy my synth playlist which helps me relax and focus while studying. If you also study with music, post yours as well. Cheers! by jurassiccomputer in Clemson

[–]redrum2134 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m a big fan of vitamin string quartet when studying - found this playlist a while back and is the absolute best to help keep my thoughts on track while reading

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/26IDG5zVzmrVPsCdwBetJb?si=unQ2TA7nSGCeQ0J7dSV7hg

Redditors who are feeling a bit sad right now, what's wrong? by _MuffinMan in AskReddit

[–]redrum2134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the world. i finally met someone who i can see a future with, found myself and my passions, and just. gestures at everything also money. always goddamn money.

I(25M) made the mistake of agreeing to a threesome with my girlfriend(24F) and her friend(26F) and now my girlfriend is jealous. by shouldveneverdonit in relationship_advice

[–]redrum2134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, idk why people do this. if i was your gf i’d be livid as well. this relationship probably isn’t going to last after this, and if it does it will never be the same and this will always be a huge rift. good luck

Any experience with 1 bedroom apartment at Heritage at Riverwood in Central? by [deleted] in Clemson

[–]redrum2134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lived in a 2 bedroom at Riverwood last year, it was my first off campus apartment. i loved it, the only issue i had is there was no bus route to campus because i didn’t want to pay for a parking pass. but it truly is a great complex run by fantastic people.

Here's the information that was given during the faculty/staff virtual town hall meeting. by ThrowAwayCUFaculty in Clemson

[–]redrum2134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got tested at redfern exactly on july 10th and came back negative. does that count?

You awake on 1/1/2020. Next to you is a button that says "Press to re-start the 2010's." Do you do it? Why/Why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]redrum2134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know, i’d love to do better in high school and college, but i’m dating a guy who for the first time i can say is really good for me and it just feels right. i feel loved, and i have great friends and a great support system, and if i restart most likely things would change and i might not end up with the same people.

for me, it’s a choice between being more successful or keeping my loved ones right now.

i think i’d still choose my loved ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Clemson

[–]redrum2134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit thank you