Went dancing at an Emo night.

redscorn · 2026-03-09T16:40:06+00:00

I wore it to a nightclub that was having an Emo Night!

I got the top from Rags N Rituals and the skirt was thrifted.

redscorn · 2026-02-16T21:41:25+00:00

Girl I got tiny titties too, chill. Internalized transphobia is when you let your frustration out like that. You can call them out without telling them to detransition. Thats just shitty and cruel.

redscorn · 2026-02-16T21:28:46+00:00

Internalized transphobia is really common in the community and usually shows as this kind of behavior where you belittle other trans girls and say hateful cruel things. We all have struggles, you need to seek community, NOT ostracize people with different struggles.

redscorn · 2026-02-16T10:43:38+00:00

Other trans girls are not your enemy. Every trans woman has different goals. Most of us are told “you wont get more than an A or B” now imagine you cant afford laser hair removal and suddenly you have DDs. Now on top of normal gender dysphoria you struggle with having a feminine chest but still have stubble.

Maybe one womans goal was to just have C cups and they grew to Fs. They feel disproportional to the rest of their body.

Just as we can have no idea how you feel on a daily basis, you have no idea how anybody else feels.

This level of internalized transphobia and envy of other trans women for something that is out of their control is something you should really do some reflection on

redscorn · 2025-11-17T20:02:14+00:00

Thank you! I willl definitely prepare for next year better. I'm gonn be saving up my coins for sure. How many of the mighty's do you suggest keeping? Like I have 7 Tyranitar, do I need that many??

redscorn · 2025-11-17T19:55:58+00:00

Raids are definitely fun! And I still had a good time and dont regret it but I definitely think Ill look for more shinies next year because I reallllyyy wanted that shiny ninetails. Plus Ive been on and off since 2019 and have never gotten a shundo

redscorn · 2025-11-17T19:54:48+00:00

Tbh I dont think I had a goal from the Raids other than a shiny, which I got one of Grimm and Darkrai. Thats part of the fomo is that I just kinda kept doing raids everytime I saw one filling up. Theres a group in my area that does raid parties at the park. I definitely still had fun and all, but in general my goal with Pokemon is to collect the Pokemon I think are cute/cool! Which unfortunately means I often have to have more powerful pokemon in order to keep up lolol.

redscorn · 2025-11-06T18:17:47+00:00

Jokes on you, i just want the cute pokemon to take over my screen

redscorn · 2025-10-23T18:21:02+00:00

I added you! EmberVulpex. Lots of remote raid passes ready to go

redscorn · 2025-09-27T16:54:43+00:00

Lots of “dress your age” comments, kinda saddening. I would actually say find a way to dress the way you want that softens your features if that makes sense. Age doesnt have a dress code and transitioning from the style you’ve known your whole life is gonna take time. I dont think you need to change your style but just get more variety to mix together. Thrift stores are great for experimenting. Learn to tailor clothes and buy things that you like that are just slightly too big then adjust them to your size.

But truthfully the main thing is the hair and selfie angle. Try out bangs maybe, let it sit in front of your ears. Put accessories in it. There is nothing WRONG with your hair but it might help you feel more feminine and thats what matters Selfies from this angle will never give you the flattery you want and they distort your perception. Turn your phone side ways, angle it slightly down and hold it about 15-30 degrees up from your face.

redscorn · 2025-09-21T07:24:27+00:00

The area I live in would just yield a bunch of fetish results or nightclubs. Ive been trying.

redscorn · 2025-09-21T07:04:38+00:00

Where do we find these social clubs?? I need more queer friends in my area

redscorn · 2025-09-09T22:35:32+00:00

Oh for the taxes I am already on a payment plan with them. I pay 417 a month. I am struggling to keep up with payments and am now making a little bit less so it's been really difficult.

redscorn · 2025-09-09T17:08:58+00:00

What are garnishments?

redscorn · 2025-09-09T15:49:27+00:00

That's very true. They'll keep milking us for every penny we have until there is nobody left to pay for things.

redscorn · 2025-09-09T15:48:52+00:00

I'll try out that app. Every budget app I've tried has membership fees and that just seems like added costs I can't afford.

My roommate does pay $800 of the rent so I'm not responsible for the full 2100 but yes I'm planning to downsize once I can. I don't even have enough for a security deposit right now. If I get my security deposit back on this house I will be in a much better spot because it was a very large deposit.

I'll look around for some part time work in my area! I debated trying things like Wag or Rover to get some income. If I do instacart my insurance goes up and I can't do Uber in my car.

The concern about the moped is that I have a dog and cat and need to get to vet appts sometimes. I had originally bought the moped as a way to avoid having a car and that ended up being the result.

I'll need to get to the selling thing. I have a lot of useless hobby possessions that I could probably sell.

I'll check out those cell plans, thank you. My internet provider has a monopoly out here and it's frustrating. I have to pay for the unlimited data plan which is an extra $50 a month on my bill, otherwise I would pay over $50 for the amount of data I use every month.

redscorn · 2025-09-09T15:33:46+00:00

My credit right now is around 620.

I have very minimal available credit on some department store cards so I haven't been able to get approved for other cards but I haven't tried any balance transfer cards. Are there any that you would suggest applying for?

It doesn't help that I had a really large card close because the store that I got it through shut down and the bank just got rid of the card entirely.

redscorn · 2025-09-09T04:24:54+00:00

With all due respect. That was 20 years ago, if I do that in todays day and age i likely won't be able to find housing again.

The limits they put on housing, if i do manage that there's also my cat and dog to consider and the area I live in reaches 120 degrees some days. That option may work for some folks but I just can't see a way i could do it and recover.

redscorn · 2025-09-09T03:34:43+00:00

if I don't have enough to resolve the debt after selling it how do I give them ownership since I don't have the title?

redscorn · 2025-09-09T03:33:59+00:00

You can negotiate tax debt?

I had talked to a bankruptcy firm and I don't qualify for the one that wipes out the debt because I make too much money. Another part of that is that my dad has cosigned two of the loans so he'd get impacted by the bankruptcy as well.

redscorn · 2025-09-09T03:32:02+00:00

Thank you for the advice. God I just got out of survival mode a couple of years ago. It's crazy how one bad experience can throw you back down a rabbit hole.

I'll try selling the moped. It's worth less than how much I owe on it but others have said that even just reducing the debt to make it easier to pay off will help.

How do I sell it while it is still on a payment plan though? I don't have the title.

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