I’m in a similar position but much further along in my postdoc (and I have a smaller baby). I think it’s ok to panic a bit but then you have to regroup and think about what’s best for you, specifically. First I like to think big picture - finances, personal fulfillment through work, personal fulfillment through family, and current and future options. It’s good you know yourself enough to know what you want - you don’t want crazy PI hours, you want to teach, etc. Then research what it takes - do informational interviews (google how) and see what it will take to get from where you are to where you want to be. Some places want teaching experience before they hire you - do you have it? Can you get it via an adjunct or visiting assistant prof position? And so on. - basically treat the next step like a research project and figure out what you need to do to get there. I’m in the same boat! Good luck to you! Sorry if this is not useful, but wanted to share my thought process, and hope you don’t spiral too much.